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    Question Need advice - NYC upscale club

    Hi everybody! I posted on here last year as Kayla_ (i forgot my password completely and just made a new account) Still Kayla!

    I am still green when it comes to dancing, but I have recently started taking it more seriously! Although I am petite and toned, I started working out, eating more/better, learning more about makeup and hair (got my extensions in recently) and really researching clubs around NYC. I decided to try the upscale Manhattan clubs finally after being intimidated for MONTHS.

    I know all of these clubs are gown clubs for the most part (after doing my research on here) and needed advice on picking out a style of gown to wear? I think most of the gowns I've looked up are not really my style and I want to go for a classier look/persona and for something to fit my petite frame.

    Here's some ideas:

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    Most of these dresses aren't very revealing but have lace or a cut out in the back and I feel like they would fit my figure best. Anyone know how they feel about sleeves? I feel like a long sleeve lace dress would be money.

    I read on here that some of the clubs have short dress days also, I'd love to know more about that if anyone has info! I also read that there are regulations at some Manhattan clubs about shoes? Is open toe really a no go, if so would regular platform pumps do the job?
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    Default Re: Need advice - NYC upscale club

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    Default Re: Need advice - NYC upscale club

    Call the club and find out about auditions and which shoes are allowed. Luckily more clubs (over the last 3-4 years) have allowed platforms and open toed shoes... but some clubs still forbid clear soles. I've given up keeping track of these stupid rules.

    About your dresses:
    -You can afford to show more skin. These dresses seem too conservative to me. Show off your waist, show off your boobs. Definitely get a serious slit to elongate your legs.

    -With your skin tone it would behoove you to look into some colorful options. The contrast is striking and enticing, so please consider something bright. Also think about more sparkle and bling, sequins, rhinestones, etc. (not glitter!).

    -Since I assume your boobs are natural, I would eliminate the black gown with the short sleeves... it won't perk your boobies up enough to catch most guys attention. It is a cool dress though...

    -Your thong... get a stripper thong, for sure. Sheer mesh doesn't fly in NYC clubs most of the time.

    Ideas:
    http://www.kamalacollection.com/Gyps...p/hyp-1251.htm
    http://www.kamalacollection.com/shee...p/hyp-4017.htm
    http://www.kamalacollection.com/Minx...p/hyp-1246.htm


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    Fun fact: It's been my experience that the sluttier I look in a "classy" club... the better I do.

    Another fun fact: It's been my experience that the classier I dress in a less-upscale club, the better I do... 4 out of 5 times.

    Take that into consideration, prospective stripper ladies.
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    Default Re: Need advice - NYC upscale club

    ^ agree wholeheartedly about changing your look to differ from the general club look!

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    SS gave some great advice up there - I really don't have much to add. Kamala Collection is amazing - when you're buying one of their dresses online, you can mention your height in the notes section and how tall your shoes are to help them further customize it for your body.

    The only thing I'd further emphasize is that you should definitely buy a dress that's a bright color. Your beautiful dark skin would look incredible next to hot pink or similar. It's always tempting to buy things in black since they do look classy and slimming, but you'd fade into the shadows with dresses like the ones you posted!

    Good luck and keep us updated!

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    Default Re: Need advice - NYC upscale club

    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    Fun fact: It's been my experience that the sluttier I look in a "classy" club... the better I do.

    Another fun fact: It's been my experience that the classier I dress in a less-upscale club, the better I do... 4 out of 5 times.

    Take that into consideration, prospective stripper ladies.
    100%!!!

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    Default Re: Need advice - NYC upscale club

    Thanks so much everyone for your responses! I am going to order my dress soon and I will definitely post pictures and let you guys know my audition goes.

    <3

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    Default Re: Need advice - NYC upscale club

    Nix all of those dresses. You want to look like you fit in. Kamala is the way to go. You need bling and color and beautiful fabrics. If you want a long sleeve gown, I've seen this one in person on a few girls and it's really nice.
    http://www.kamalacollection.com/Jade...p/hyp-1255.htm
    Sophia is right. You need a thong like this:
    http://www.kamalacollection.com/Cher...p/hyp-7018.htm
    Some clubs do have short dress days. Usually they don't want it to be too short or slutty. You're better off starting with the gown till you figure out what club allows what and where you will be hired.
    Goodluck and update us when you get hired !

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