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    Hey ladies ! Im not too new dancing, but i started almost 2 years ago.and since then ive only worked at one decent club. Im about 5'3, 115 caramel skin, attractive. But ive been told i look extremely young.i dont wear make up very often and even when i do its very subtle. Ill be 21 soon and going to better clubs, any tips on improving my appearance?

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    Default Re: omg , i look so young.

    Looking extremely young can be incredibly lucrative, so I'm not sure why you want to "improve" your appearance! That said, if you find you're not doing well, try wearing make up. It can really change your appearance, including making you look older. Dressing classier (ie. no bikinis or neon colours, gowns and dresses) can also make you look older. Of course, it all comes down to your presentation and personality. If you're all giggles, full of 'likes' and 'ums,' and unable to hold a real conversation, you're going to come off younger. Not saying anything of those things are you, but it's hard to advise you without knowing what you're currently doing.

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    Very true. I just get tired of "you dont look 20" and, "your a baby". Even the dancers say it. But i guess i have to put it to use. Im really playful in real life. But talk with so much intelligence at these clubs its crazy lol. I know what not to do while im working pretty much.

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    looking older than you are is a curse lol, i reached my full size at 11 and it was horrible.now i feel that i look my age , maybe younger, but if you look much, much younger than you are..you are blessed!!! you are one of the few, the lucky. milk it for all it's worth, you will appreciate it so much when you get older and for now you can do the whole lolita thing and bank. complaining about looking too young is like complaining that you are too beautiful imo! haha. good luck girly

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    Lol i know my mom says to be greatful! Sometimes i feel like the women who look their age come off as more sexy.

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    I've responded to a few posts like this. I started dancing at 18 and many of the big spenders were older men whose kids were older than me.. So I learned to emulate the habits of a more mature woman and just soak up the compliments of looking "so good for my age". After all, I think a big fantasy our customers have is that one day they will take us out and they want someone they could realistically show off. I would def wear make up, nothing glitter or shimmery, do a matte smokey eye, it makes such a difference. Become familiar with 80s music or earlier, pop culture etc. you will instantly seem more mature if you know the chorus to their fave song from high school and you're building rapport. When a guy mentions how young you look or wants to know your age, pause and smile like you are just soooo flattered, act like you really are much older and so awestruck that he can't tell but brush it off so he doesn't dwell on it. And if you want to say you are older you better be able to state your new birthday.

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    yeah, it could be a double-edged sword-- yeah she looks young, but then the people who want her the most as a dancer are the icky guys who want the underage fantasy. Not saying that can't be icky, but most of the guys I've met with that sort of fantasy icked me out. I'd have to deal with that night in and out as a dancer.

    However, if you're merciless and have super thick skin, then fuck yes-- do the schoolgirl and rape some wallets, girl!

    Otherwise, find some good stripper role-models and start taking bits and pieces that you want to emulate from different ones.

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    isn't it common sense to wear more makeup if you want to look older??
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    @lauren i wouldnt call it common sense. With make up i sometimes look 16 wearing make up. I have young face and petite figure.

    To the other ladies ill def avoid certain colors, and change my make up style. And talk with more maturity.

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    @lauren i wouldnt call it common sense. With make up i sometimes look 16 wearing make up. I have young face and petite figure.

    To the other ladies ill def avoid certain colors, and change my make up style. And talk with more maturity.

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    Default Re: omg , i look so young.

    if you REALLY feel that you need to look older:
    dark lipstick, deep red or plum
    very thin, arched eyebrows
    smokey eye in a slate grey, brown
    do gowns, rhinestones, long nails..anything dramatic or sophisticated, but you want to stay away from fresh, ingenue, girly colors and looks
    i really think you should just cash in on looking young though, you will have forever to be older. i have the body of a child too, and bank in school girl outfits..the whole sophisticated look kinda makes me seem like im playing dress-up

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    Simone thanks. I may try to just change my make up style. Time to look.at a few tutorials lol

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    Default Re: omg , i look so young.

    Quote Originally Posted by misssincere View Post
    Hey ladies ! Im not too new dancing, but i started almost 2 years ago.and since then ive only worked at one decent club. Im about 5'3, 115 caramel skin, attractive. But ive been told i look extremely young.i dont wear make up very often and even when i do its very subtle. Ill be 21 soon and going to better clubs, any tips on improving my appearance?
    I started dancing at 18 as well. I got hired, but the manager would always joke with me and apparently some customers even asked to see my photocopied driver's license, because they thought I was underage. I made very good money though. I did a sexy school girl thing and would do little stage sets and it was fun for me, but also customer's loved it and liked my young look. Fast forward 9 years and my friend still jokes with me on my birthday about how proud she is I am finally turning 16 (haha). Also my boyfriend who is 35, took me to meet his extended family in Miami and some mutual family friends thought I was his 15 year old brother's gf, instead of his....AWKWARD LOL. But hey, so what if I get mistaken for 17, I admit I was self-conscious about looking so young when I was your age, but as I approach my late 20's I LOVE it now LOL.

    Fake eyelashes can add a bit of maturity/pizzazz to your look, I wouldn't say you will look older, but more womanly and it's something easy you can do instead of caking on make-up and ruining what I am guessing is perfectly beautiful skin! A cat eye with a liquid eyeliner (not too extreme) also would most likely bring out your exotic features. Also, you may want to consider what I call the "slut gown" it's a gown, but has a plunging neckline, slits up the legs and is skin tight. Something about a dress, even an extremely provocative one, gives an air of class (I mean relatively speaking) and thus maturity.
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    Default Re: omg , i look so young.

    I have this same issue. I started dancing at 18. I'm 19 now and I constantly hear that I look very young or look too innocent. It gets really annoying. I'm short and slim and I really do have a 'baby face' LOL.

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