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    Dizzy Advice-How To Handle Your Room(Others) When A Custie Tips (Gives Gold)? On SM

    Hi Ladies, When Guys tip for a request in Your Chat room on SM, how do You handle the others who are sitting in the room at that time and haven't tipped? My tipping rates start at $10 Gold and go up from there, so I don't like to flash for freeloaders. My room is full, so I usually tell the person who tipped to stay, then I let others know they need to tip or I will kick them. I do this because I feel it unfair to the person who tips, if others stay. The problem I'm having is that more people always keep coming in, and it seems like when I empty the room for the tipper, start to flash, the room instantly fills up. I think it's most likely guys who have been hovering, and want to catch my flash. Up to this point, I feel that if I let the room sit and watch without tipping, then they all have gotten a free flash, and won't tip, (give Gold). How do You handle this in Your room? The tips add up at the end of the day, so I'm trying to get the most out of the guys who are in my room. Thanks in advance for Your input! Glam

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    Default Re: Advice-How To Handle Your Room(Others) When A Custie Tips (Gives Gold)? On SM

    I don't flash tits for tips, only feet, ass etc. Yes, people are getting to see for free, but it's nothing too naughty. I hate that they get to see for free, but that's my fault for doing things for tips. I could just not offer it. I won't flash tits for tips, as I refuse to do that when there's guys who haven't paid anything.

    Unfair to the guy who tipped? Tough, he should have gone exclusive.


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    Default Re: Advice-How To Handle Your Room(Others) When A Custie Tips (Gives Gold)? On SM

    That would be difficult to kick most out for a quick flash. Flashes are a quick way to get tips, so I guess keep it at a high tip price so the flashes are worth it despite the freeloaders. If the tipper wont go private I guess thats his own fault haha.

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    Default Re: Advice-How To Handle Your Room(Others) When A Custie Tips (Gives Gold)? On SM

    If some freeloader asked to see whatever w/o tipping and decided to wait out for someone to tip.. I will kick them from my room when someone tips to a flash of whatever.





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    My feelings on this are pretty much... eh. When I started I refused to flash in free chat because, like you, I didn't want anyone who hadn't paid to see anything. Now I don't really care. At the end of the day money is what matters and it doesn't affect my life one way or another whether 1 guy saw my tits or 10. Unfortunately it's just not practical to try to kick everyone else out (and keep them out... it's like Whack-a-Freeloader.) If they peep in on a pvt they could see more anyway so I guess I'm just desensitized to it.

    However, if there's one or two freeloaders in particular who I just haven't gotten around to kicking, I'll kick them really quick before I flash, just out of spite.

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    That's sorta why I don't flash in free chat. That, and cause my tits are essentially considered private parts by everyday standards. Private parts = private chat.

    I hate when they give me 10 gold and ask me to flash. Ummm sorry, stupidhead!

    Do ya'll make em tip for even little things, like standing up to show my stomach, legs, etc and things like letting my bra strap fall off my shoulder? The former I've been doing for free- I see it as viewing the merchandise before buying. It only seems fair. The latter just seems like an easy way to annoy people if you ask for tips. In any service industry, you don't tip for EVERY small request. Am I being too nice? Lol

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    Default Re: Advice-How To Handle Your Room(Others) When A Custie Tips (Gives Gold)? On SM

    Quote Originally Posted by luvnrockets View Post
    Do ya'll make em tip for even little things, like standing up to show my stomach, legs, etc and things like letting my bra strap fall off my shoulder? The former I've been doing for free- I see it as viewing the merchandise before buying. It only seems fair. The latter just seems like an easy way to annoy people if you ask for tips. In any service industry, you don't tip for EVERY small request. Am I being too nice? Lol
    Yep. If they catch me in a good mood and my room is full I MIGHT "kneel up" for free but even that is rare.

    They can see the gist of my body in chat. They can see it in a few different positions in pics. The ONLY reason for them to ask me to stand/twirl/etc is to get off for free (especially if it's something specific like letting your bra strap fall... if someone specifically asks for that, he's cumming to that, hands down.)

    I really don't consider myself to be in the service industry so I can't speak to that. I'm in sales. IMO "tips" is sort of a misnomer, considering how unusual it is for guys to tip us "just because" or tip after a show (not that it doesn't happen, it's just not the norm.) 99% of guys aren't throwing money at us for no particular reason, why should I do anything for them for free?

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    I will flash/tease everyone in the room....I hate flashing everyone else for free but about 1/3 of the time someone who didnt pay or the flash/tease gets enticed enough to join pvt/exclusive
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    I don't show shit for free. Not a goddamn thing. Want me to stand up, turn around, adjust my cam? FUCK YOU/PAY ME

    It seems like the days I dress like a stripper, guys won't pay shit.

    So I started showing up wearing a geek t-shirt and a thong, and I'm having better resuts.
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    Default Re: Advice-How To Handle Your Room(Others) When A Custie Tips (Gives Gold)? On SM

    This will go against what Im not convinced this is a good method on SM for gold but here it is:

    1. (Hey I Know You, What Are You Doing?) if it is from a regular (rank 2 and above) Ill praise them/talk to them exclusively for a bit in freechat. I wont ask them if they want anything just will thank them as if it is just a "hi I like you tip" not a request tip. But if they explicitly request something Ill do it but then talk about our last show or something along those lines and keep it abbreviated as incentive for them to buy a show since they have before. I wont go overboard so they dont become a lounge sloth but will remind them I remember them and our shows so the nudity or feet or desperate buttcrack shot reminds them if the uh good times :sniff: basically I hate when regulars tip with a flash intention so I try to de-incentivize this.

    2. (Stranger Bitches) If it is someone brand new to me or a 1, Ill directly ask them what theyre interested in seeing and will do it then after Im done will praise them for it and will directly say "thanks [x person], I so appreciate the gold! Thanks for tipping me [blahblahbah unctuous flowery golden shower of compliments to convey to ppl watching and egging me on that idgaf about them bc they didnt tip - plant seeds of incentive for them to tip]. Ill then ignore the people who inevitably beg but I wont kick them so I cultivate some vague sense of desire (idk I doubt this works, I should try kicking them). I may quip about how real men tip like a gender essentialist asshole but it works sometimes. I will show/flash more for ppl who have never spent to cultivate a relationship. If they dont ask for anything Ill happily express that outloud. Repeatedly. ad infinitum. so ppl listening are like "omg this girl loves her some tips"

    3. (tl;dr) Ill do explicit requests / ask what they want longer if theyve never bought a show before. if they have bought shows before Ill do it but not as long if theyve never spent + will invite them to the show. If they dont request anything and are a regular, Ill just accept the tip with happy gratitude and not ask any questions.

    This is only if it is excess of 3.Gold of 1 or 2 idk what I do but it isnt much. If the tip is in excess of 10, I assume it is just "love tips" and dont ask what they want regardless if theyve bought a show before or not bc I assume theyre heavier spenders who arent all "omgz0rs bewbs on mah screen". I try to keep bodyparts shown as secondary and attention as the primary thing but I will flash for anything in excess of 3. Ill admit I think Ive done a quickie 1 or 2 gold if Ive been in freechat too long.

    ..............................Sorry Stripperweb?

    Again Im not a SM afficianado / heavy broadcaster so Im fine with critiques of this method. When Ive tried "nothing but 10 gold and up" I rarely get tips except form a small group of regulars but the regulars who would tip it and be like "ohhhhhhhhh I can get my show cheaper?! fuck yea!" so I stopped that. IDK mang. Shifts in tipping culture on PPM sites makes me go "hmmm" and Im not sure how to adapt in a way Im 100% happily with so Ill give into the pressure when Im on freechat mandatory (or even optional) sites. I just want the money - my bewbs arent that interesting nor is my placement epic enough to dodge reception of bewbs tips & since boob nudity isnt something suspension worthy on SM so sure Ill show 'em, whatevah - hope it convinces one of the lurkers/freeloaders/ or ideally the tipper to show me the monayyyy in a show.





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    Default Re: Advice-How To Handle Your Room(Others) When A Custie Tips (Gives Gold)? On SM

    I also don't show tits for tips but I have an idea. You could tell him to go exclusive for 10 seconds and do that then. This could be a bad idea because if you tell him he won't get charged, then he might take advantage of that in the future and pop in and out. Or, the other guys could hear you tell him. Or, you could tell him to message you really quickly, then tell him to come to excl to get his "prize" so the other guys don't see and tell him he won't be charged. If he falls for it, he will be the only one there, and he won't get charged the EXL rate unless he stays over 30 sec. A flash is a flash so that's unlikely to happen but if he does stay longer, you just lured him into an EXL which means more money for you.




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    I've held out for a long time with my private-only mentality but over the past 6 months I've been gradually experimenting with showing a few flashes for tips. I have huge tatas and its a pain to take off my industrial-strength bra and then do a flash, then shove these monsters back in. I'm not a young-un like some of you gals and it literally wears me out to do it over and over some days, so I keep my boob flash price set at $10. Feet and a clothed ass shot I charge $5 for. If someone tips less than 5 I tell them they need to add in however much they are short.

    I don't kick out freeloaders, mainly because it seems a waste of my energy, plus my flashes are very quick.

    I don't think the money from flashes is worth it, but I have found flashing does two things - 1) it keeps me moving which keeps me from getting too bored and 2) I often will get a private right after, so that is what makes it worth it to me now.


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    I flash for 20 gold. I'm willing to show my tits to a bunch of guys in free for 7$ my cut. I would much rather that than 1 guy take me pvt for a short period of time and get a huge number of peepers or my room cleared out.

    Having the price for flash set so high works because I don't really give a fuck if I get flash tips as I don't think that they add up a huge amount. If I'm doing a goldshow I will take off my top when we reach the goal before the timer runs out (if that happens) and yesterday doubled the goal like that.

    I don't do anything for free ever and go through days where I block people for asking for free and go through days where I ignore etc. I don't believe that we are merchandise that a customer should get to see before he purchases it. You can see my face, my tits, if you think that the rest of me is going to be strangely hideous you can either read the comments that all rave about me or you can go and find someone who is willing to indulge you in these things for free.

    basically, if you're not into showing stuff in freechat then DON'T. Either jack up your flash prices to something you ARE ok with (100 gold for example) or just refuse. When people tip me and it's less than 10 I say "thanks for the gold!" so they don't even think that they'll be getting something. Don't like it? Shoulda asked first!
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    Thanks Ladies for Your imput! I really appreciate it! P.S. On cam, I hardly ever get requests for tits. I wish I did, because I am very busty. In real life, I can get anything I want showing cleavage, and get the most tips when dancing, but on cam it's 'all about the ass!' Go figure!

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    I don't take requests for tips in my room anymore. I just rather not leave that door open as 99% of the guys I get always try to abuse it by claiming they didn't understand my tip menu so now I need to flash them for their $1 tip.

    The best they get is if I am feeling generous, then I will let them tip me $1 to get up and dance for a short while.

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    Ironically, I make more money now that I show off my body than when I hardly ever showed it. Almost every time that someone does tip me and I show ass or tits, someone completely different takes me pvt. So in many ways, I think its a good thing at least for me. Though my hustle and some of the stuff I offer is different than almost every girl on the site.

    What I do is, I make them (everyone in the room who didn't tip) feel like a guilty pathetic loser for not tipping, but it also works for my customer base and actually helps it. I also encourage others to tip for me to do something else. So like if someone tips for ass, I would see if anyone else wants to tip to shake it or spank it or something. Sometimes that works really well.

    I flash for $10 gold tits or ass, and many of the times I get findom guys who hear (not see bc its Classic Chat) other guys tip, and they start tipping. It works out well for me. If they keep tipping, I assume they are a findomme guy or like being extorted, and I say things like YOU THINK THAT'S ENOUGH?! ITS NEVER ENOUGH!!! Because I am fulfilling their fetish in free chat, but they are paying for it, and it encourages other guys, so... yeah.
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