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    Dizzy Making a switch to a different kind of camming :/ Sort of..?

    I've decided to make the leap from just doing custom content and one on one shows on MGF, MFI and through various messenger services to camming on sites similar to MFC.
    I need a hug, a strong drink, and some advice. lol.

    I'm excited and nervous and I over think things.

    I get that, in a public or party chat type setting, it's about teasing and being sweet, maybe some flashing for tips.
    However
    What the eff do I do when someone wants to go private or into 1 on 1?
    Do I ask what they want to see?
    Do I start stripping? Dancing?
    How do I know what I'm doing is what they want to see? I'm sure they'll tell me, but until then?
    I mean they're paying by the minute I don't want the first minute to be me sitting there with a dumb look on my face :S

    Could someone walk me through what happens when your chats go into a pay-per-min setting? For you, personally. What's your first step? Is it a question, "what do you want to see" etc or do you just jump into it and start being your sexy self?

    In my experience, there's a lot of chatting beforehand. "What do you like" etc.
    Do you usually PM with the person who is taking you into a more private setting before the clock starts? So you both know what to expect?
    I feel like it's weird to talk about what someone wants in a public setting with other people watching, isn't that a turn-off for other potential customers?

    I don't expect superlots of details because I understand that it's important to have your personal brand, but anything you feel like sharing would be awesome.

    tl;dr what's your first step when you get into a paid chat type of situation?


    sorry for the novel :S

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    Default Re: Making a switch to a different kind of camming :/ Sort of..?

    Sometimes guys will tell me in free chat what kind of show they are looking for and ask if I am comfortable with doing that. If I say yes they take me into private and I begin doing what they asked for.

    If the guy doesn't tell me beforehand (and they usually don't, but that could just be in my case) the first thing I do is ask what kind of show they are looking for. I'll also usually start rubbing my chest seductively through my clothes until I get an answer. No use getting butt naked in 20 seconds if a guy is looking for something that doesn't require nudity. I don't know why asking a guy what he wants to see is such a big deal?

    When I was a newb I used to jump straight into regular vanilla masturbation show and race through them because like you, I was oh so concerned that guys are paying per minute and would not do repeat business with someone they feel is wasting their time. Asking what they want isn't a waste of time, though. And actually? I end up doing far fewer hardcore masturbation shows now because most of my guys are into other things that aren't nearly as tiring on the body, but I never would have known had I not actually opened my mouth. I also have a very loyal following of regs, so this approach does work. *shrug*

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    Default Re: Making a switch to a different kind of camming :/ Sort of..?

    Here are a few threads to help answer some of your questions:
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ake-More-Money
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...e-Private-time
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...on-token-sites
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...?175790-Limits (not sure how weird MGF guys get, but it's always good to reinforce your boundaries before starting a new site)
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...e-in-the-clubs (this is geared more to strippers, but has some AWESOME advice that can be applied to camming too)


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    Default Re: Making a switch to a different kind of camming :/ Sort of..?

    I work private-based sites (like SM and IML), not token sites like MFC, but I suppose this still applies.

    Quote Originally Posted by MissQuirk View Post
    What the eff do I do when someone wants to go private or into 1 on 1?
    Do I ask what they want to see?
    Do I start stripping? Dancing?
    How do I know what I'm doing is what they want to see? I'm sure they'll tell me, but until then?
    I start off most shows with an intro. In this intro I cover:

    - Their name
    - My (fake) name
    - What they're looking for (if applicable) OR their favorite position to watch
    - Remind them to rate me 5 stars/comment if they enjoy my show
    - Go through a few positions partially dressed, take something off and show off whatever body part for the camera, ask them how they like it, rinse and repeat

    I ask them a lot of questions. By this point (probably at least 3-4 minutes in) most guys will either be showering you with compliments or going "mmmmm let me see u fuck dat pussy bb". If I can reasonably draw it out, I will, otherwise, I slooooooooowly start to get to the point. (Seriously, move super slowly--no one but 2 minute men cares as long as you're getting there and you'll earn more money for less work.) The hardest guys (for me) are the ones who don't really say anything. But I just let those guys know that I'm going to do my own thing and to let me know if they have any requests.

    Quote Originally Posted by MissQuirk View Post
    In my experience, there's a lot of chatting beforehand. "What do you like" etc.
    Do you usually PM with the person who is taking you into a more private setting before the clock starts? So you both know what to expect?
    I feel like it's weird to talk about what someone wants in a public setting with other people watching, isn't that a turn-off for other potential customers?
    I don't really talk about sexual stuff much in free chat. If they have a question about my rules ("anal/toys in pvt bb?") I'll answer it but if we both know I can do what they want, there's no reason to talk about it in free.

    No, I never PM with a person beforehand. If they want privacy that's what private is for. I usually work classic chat on SM so the other custies can't see what he's saying, only what I reply out loud (I almost never type in free) so all they're hearing is "yes/no, Username, I don't/do that." Talking at length about the show before the show will shorten your show time (you want the clock to start ASAP! you want to get paid to sit there with a dumb look on your face! ) and 90% of the guys who want to do that are just getting off on talking about it and will never buy a show.

    The thing about free chat (at least on pvt based sites) is that it's not supposed to be too comfortable for the customers. You don't want them thinking that your room is so fun and comfy and they could just hang out there all day, you know? You want them feeling both a bit turned on and a bit neglected so they will pay for your full attention!

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    Default Re: Making a switch to a different kind of camming :/ Sort of..?

    Thanks for the tops Pro. I need to work on slowing down.

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    Default Re: Making a switch to a different kind of camming :/ Sort of..?

    Absolutely amazing tips ladies <3
    Thank you so so so much. The fact that they expect a bit of a chat before we jump into things is absolutely comforting and make sense. I dunno what I expected lol.
    Thank you so much!

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    I'm new too and I felt the exact same way and after reading threads and hearing everyone say relax and go with it, I did exactly that. So far it goes like this.... I pop into a private, greet them again and turn around ( because I do not turn around in free chat unless I get tipped) by this time they have either commented with a compliment, a request or said nothing. If nothing is said I start dancing. If they still haven't replied after dancing a bit I ask if there is anything special they are looking for today. From there things go as requested but usually in free chat the whole "anal bb?" "toys?" or "smoking" things get asked so they know what I will and will not do. I always assumed that you pop in to private and go ham on the coochie ( LMAO!) but it's actually pretty surprising at how many people DONT even request that. Like I said, I AM new and may be going about this all wrong, lol but so far so good! I hope your first days are as comfortable as mine are! GOOD LUCK! <3

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    Lolin' @ "go ham on the coochie"
    Whew. Okay. Gonna do this tonight. I'm pumped.
    Thanks a ton for the amazing advice.

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    This thread has helped me sooooo much! I had been jumping right to a toy and then having to put things away and gather myself together after they left. But tonight I had 4 privates where they were done before I even picked a toy up! I slowed down and busted out the sexy. Lol sooooooo much better to slow down! Thanks so much for this advise.

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    Default Re: Making a switch to a different kind of camming :/ Sort of..?

    This is another thread for you new bbs to read if you're using toys in shows, or thinking about incorporating toys into your shows in the future:
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...and-Toy-Safety


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