I've decided to make the leap from just doing custom content and one on one shows on MGF, MFI and through various messenger services to camming on sites similar to MFC.
I need a hug, a strong drink, and some advice. lol.
I'm excited and nervous and I over think things.
I get that, in a public or party chat type setting, it's about teasing and being sweet, maybe some flashing for tips.
However
What the eff do I do when someone wants to go private or into 1 on 1?
Do I ask what they want to see?
Do I start stripping? Dancing?
How do I know what I'm doing is what they want to see? I'm sure they'll tell me, but until then?
I mean they're paying by the minute I don't want the first minute to be me sitting there with a dumb look on my face :S
Could someone walk me through what happens when your chats go into a pay-per-min setting? For you, personally. What's your first step? Is it a question, "what do you want to see" etc or do you just jump into it and start being your sexy self?
In my experience, there's a lot of chatting beforehand. "What do you like" etc.
Do you usually PM with the person who is taking you into a more private setting before the clock starts? So you both know what to expect?
I feel like it's weird to talk about what someone wants in a public setting with other people watching, isn't that a turn-off for other potential customers?
I don't expect superlots of details because I understand that it's important to have your personal brand, but anything you feel like sharing would be awesome.
tl;dr what's your first step when you get into a paid chat type of situation?
sorry for the novel :S




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I usually work classic chat on SM so the other custies can't see what he's saying, only what I reply out loud (I almost never type in free) so all they're hearing is "yes/no, Username, I don't/do that." Talking at length about the show before the show will shorten your show time (you want the clock to start ASAP! you want to get paid to sit there with a dumb look on your face!
) and 90% of the guys who want to do that are just getting off on talking about it and will never buy a show.
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