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    Of course we all know strip clubs are all about money, some random customer is not going to take a dancer home just because he's hot or because he's packing in the right places lol. Dancers have their guards up when it comes to customers and rightfully so. If you want to have fun in a strip club you need money. Just curious though for the dancers, have you ever found yourself in a situation where you gave a customer higher mileage (like making out or placing his hands on your body for example) than you usually give customers maybe because he was so hot and he was respecting your boundaries? Afterwards did you regret doing it? I know with a lot of you it doesn't matter how hot the guy is, that guy is going to get the same dance every other customer gets. Thoughts?

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    Dancers are human like anyone else, believe it or not - but no dancer w/ a lick of long-term financial sense is going to give in like that to a customer just b/c 'he's hot & respecting boundaries'. That sounds like an excellent way to 'train' a customer to expect more for less, both from herself & from other dancers the customer may later patronise.

    Too many guys come in already w/ this sort of entitlement complex. If you're asking this w/ the hope of it happening to you in a SC, just stack the odds in your favour by saving such endeavours for a regular bar.

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    What!?! Why? Did you pay a girl for a handjob the night before she killed herself...? If so, I'm sure she gave you the VIP treatment b/c you were "packing in all the right places."

    I don't understand questions like this.

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    I have a good friend who is a retired dancer. She was and still is a very beautiful woman but when she danced she was often guilty of thinking with her heart or her crotch rather than with her brain and bank account. After a couple of years worth of low money nights and bad relationships with really good looking a-holes that she met at the club she called it quits as a dancer. If you don't treat dancing like a job it isn't one...
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    The question has nothing to do with my experiences. Dancers get horny like everyone else in the world. I just happen to think whether they want to admit it or not that they get horny at their jobs sometimes and every once in a while they might do something with a customer that was out of the ordinary for them. Like Aniela said dancers are human also. I am willing to bet that at least one time in a dancer's career she will do something in a dance with a customer that she didn't intend to do when the dance started.

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    ^^Was she "dating" customers or just getting carried away during dances? I've known girls who did the former. Not the latter. I guess I've known some crazy girls, like totally insane ones who kinda did the latter. But I think their actions should be attributed to insanity, not because a customer was "attractive or respectful."

    Example: I worked with a girl who once screwed a bald customer because she was convinced he'd lost his hair due to chemo and she wanted to be his "final fuck." (It didn't occur to her that chemo would have likely also eliminated his eyebrows, arm and back hair, I guess... Or that he weighed 50 extra lbs.) Also, in a really white area, I worked with 2 girls who screws a black customer because there was a NBA game happening in town and they just assumed he was a player. They were hoping to get knocked up. Guy was like 5'8"

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    Dancers are def human. But dancing is a job. Maybe I've just been dancing for so long I've forgotten when it was actually exciting or tantalizing. But, I would seriously not ever "lose control" during a lapdance. Especially not to the point I'd have morning after regrets. A plumber fixes toilets. I grind dicks. It's so routine for me... So no, my hand has never spontaneously shoved itself down someone's pants. Plus, I'm not attracted to men who pay to be dry humped, regardless of how they look. I did date one guy I met in a club, a few years ago. But, his "hotness" didn't overwhelm me and change the way I do my job... I just got the guys # and met him for drinks...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasmine.Doll View Post
    ^^Example: I worked with a girl who once screwed a bald customer because she was convinced he'd lost his hair due to chemo and she wanted to be his "final fuck." (It didn't occur to her that chemo would have likely also eliminated his eyebrows, arm and back hair, I guess... Or that he weighed 50 extra lbs.) Also, in a really white area, I worked with 2 girls who screws a black customer because there was a NBA game happening in town and they just assumed he was a player. They were hoping to get knocked up. Guy was like 5'8"
    “Never argue with an idiot. They will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.”

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    ^^Both those events occurred in a strip club in 1/2 a mile from a meth-head trailer park... Met some very interesting characters there...


    Oh, and this is not where I met the customer I dated, just to be clear!!

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    ^^Was she "dating" customers or just getting carried away during dances?
    She was dating them and that was the whole problem. She was always wasting her night with the good looking guys who buy a dance or two and then want your number. She gave it to them. As many dancers can attest to, once you start dating these guys, they pressure you to quite dancing so that they can "take care of you". Well, that never really works out for long...
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    ^^Gotcha. Yeah, I've seen that. And yeah, those girls never last long. The situation I pictured from OPs description was not dating or OTC. I was picturing girls who become so turned on during a lapdance they slip up and lose control, then feel bad about it the next day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasmine.Doll View Post
    Dancers are def human. But dancing is a job. Maybe I've just been dancing for so long I've forgotten when it was actually exciting or tantalizing. But, I would seriously not ever "lose control" during a lapdance. Especially not to the point I'd have morning after regrets. A plumber fixes toilets. I grind dicks. It's so routine for me... So no, my hand has never spontaneously shoved itself down someone's pants. Plus, I'm not attracted to men who pay to be dry humped, regardless of how they look. I did date one guy I met in a club, a few years ago. But, his "hotness" didn't overwhelm me and change the way I do my job... I just got the guys # and met him for drinks...
    I'm sorry, but, LMAO @ this thread, esp.^, almost spit out diet coke & cheesburger,


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    Jasmine.Doll- not so much losing control and maybe not even regretting it. I'm talking about for example a dancer making out with a good looking customer during a lapdance. Maybe the dancer and that customer don't end up doing anything OTC. The dancer might wake up the next morning regretting kissing that guy or maybe she looks back and says he was a good looking guy and he was making me a little horny so I had a little fun at work. I'm just saying that I think every dancer faces that at least once in her dancing career.

    I was hoping some dancers would share some times where it happened to them.

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    The question has nothing to do with my experiences. Dancers get horny like everyone else in the world. I just happen to think whether they want to admit it or not that they get horny at their jobs sometimes and every once in a while they might do something with a customer that was out of the ordinary for them. Like Aniela said dancers are human also. I am willing to bet that at least one time in a dancer's career she will do something in a dance with a customer that she didn't intend to do when the dance started.
    Well then I hope you placed an expensive bet, b/c you would lose that bet w/ me personally. Unless you include my clocking a guy who was behaving like the perfect gentleman until the moment he tried to shove his hand into my gstring. Then yes, I would say my dances have occasionally led me to sm initially unintended behaviour.

    Quote Originally Posted by musik22 View Post
    I'm talking about for example a dancer making out with a good looking customer during a lapdance. Maybe the dancer and that customer don't end up doing anything OTC. The dancer may wake up the next day regretting kissing that guy or maybe she looks back and says he was a good looking guy and he was making me a little horny so I had a little fun at work. I'm just saying I think every dancer faces that at least once in her dancing career.
    The behaviour you're describing would fall under prostitution bylaws in every place I've worked, & I don't think those are the only ones. One more reason smart dancers would avoid said behaviour.

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    Quote Originally Posted by musik22 View Post
    Jasmine.Doll- not so much losing control and maybe not even regretting it. I'm talking about for example a dancer making out with a good looking customer during a lapdance. Maybe the dancer and that customer don't end up doing anything OTC. The dancer might wake up the next morning regretting kissing that guy or maybe she looks back and says he was a good looking guy and he was making me a little horny so I had a little fun at work. I'm just saying that I think every dancer faces that at least once in her dancing career.

    I was hoping some dancers would share some times where it happened to them.
    I know customers like to think lapdances are a sexual experience for dancer, but they just aren't. They are the most boring, routine, mind-numbing activities, ever. Sorry to burst your bubble, but you asked.

    Maybe your jack-off fantasy does occur in rare occasions with inexperienced dancers. But it is most def not an experience "every dancer faces during her career."

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    Quote Originally Posted by musik22 View Post
    I'm talking about for example a dancer making out with a good looking customer during a lapdance. Maybe the dancer and that customer don't end up doing anything OTC. The dancer might wake up the next morning regretting kissing that guy or maybe she looks back and says he was a good looking guy and he was making me a little horny so I had a little fun at work. I'm just saying that I think every dancer faces that at least once in her dancing career.

    I was hoping some dancers would share some times where it happened to them.
    Never seen it, never heard of it, & I only regret reading this, (except what J.D. had to say)


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    Quote Originally Posted by musik22 View Post
    Just curious though for the dancers, have you ever found yourself in a situation where you gave a customer higher mileage (like making out or placing his hands on your body for example) than you usually give customers maybe because he was so hot and he was respecting your boundaries?
    ^...hmmm, it sounds like you are fishing for "erotic" stories and hope .
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    I'm not going to speculate as to the OP's motives for asking the question but I it has been my experience after years of reading these forums and seeing what happens in the clubs that lots of guys think that being good looking gets them more in the private dance area. FWIW I see the same sort of misguided thinking on the escort sites as well. There seems to be some sort of unwillingness to accept, at least from a segment of the male population, that a woman can use her sexuality for the sole purpose of financial gain with no emotional attachment to the guy she is taking money from. Does it happen? Probably on occasion but women who fall prey to that sort of behavior are generally not very good at being a stripper. Since this site is not populated with failed strippers it is unlikely that the OP will hear any stories confirming the type of behavior that he is curious about.
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    So what you all are saying is for example if a dancer makes out with a customer it could never be because the dancer was attracted to that customer. It could only be because that dancer kisses all her customers, she is trying to convince the customer to get more dances, or that customer gave her a lot of money. Makes sense to me I guess.

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    Well, what I'm saying is that what a customer experiences during a private dance is directly related to how much he spends, how often he spends, his attitude, his hygiene and his ability to keep his mouth shut about what he is getting. It is not related to how he looks. Dancers who go "above and beyond" with certain guys do it because they see a chance to earn more money or keep a very good regular who treats them well and respects their need to earn. It's called play 4 pay for a reason.

    I have benefited from this sort of thing many times over the years but , at 56 years of age with thinning grey hair and a definite paunch, I's been a long time since I was naive enough to think I was getting "more" because of my looks. I have my winning personality and my friends Jackson, Grant and Franklin to thank for all of the fun I have in the clubs.
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    This is really gross, but I sucked the fingers of a good regular. Guy was super clean, scrubbed his hands before private dances, etc.. But it was still disgusting. But it was a $500 tip for a 15 min dance.... I've faked orgasms for more $. I've kissed peoples necks for more $.... But all my "special" treatments were for $, never due to being horny. While I don't like dancing for really gross guys, I honestly don't like dancing for really attractive ones either. They always seem to think that I'm "lucky" to be dancing for them and expect more for less. Even when they aren't jackasses, I always think there is something wrong with them... If you are a good looking, well mannered, decent guy, then why do you have to pay for dry humping sessions? If a guys is really sexy, respectful and "packing in the right places," he should be able to go out into the real world and find himself some pussy that is actually interested in him, right?

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    ("If a guys is really sexy, respectful and "packing in the right places," he should be able to go out into the real world and find himself some pussy that is actually interested in him, right? ")

    ^ Don't look a gift horse in the mouth JD!
    I have had many full package types who spend well- if I hazard a guess for reasons? maybe he's single and just wants some fun company, happily commited and wants to play a little without cheating (don't go there people), in the club with bucks party, celebrity who wants to meet someone whose attractive but doesn't idolise them..... this is how my head analyses the situation.
    Truly, I don't believe the only people who patronise StripClubs are all social inepts/unattractive.
    For the record, i've been turned down for dancers from ugly men just as often as attractive men, I just work with what I'm given.
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    Speaking from the other side of the equation, I have definitely had dances where expected boundaries have been transgressed by the dancer. It has never been in a situation where I have asked or suggested something be done, it just happened (seemingly) spontaneously.
    As an example, and not to entertain with salacious tales, after one particularly intense LD a girl gave me a good, long french kiss. I was, naturally, horrified, thinking that she did that at the end of every dance, but was relieved to find out she did not. Once she took her mouth off of mine I asked her why she did that, her reply was, after that dance it felt like the thing to do.
    So yes, out of the ordinary, but yes, it absolutely happens.

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