Ever have a custy who keeps badgering, grabbing, sneaking up on you and can't take no for an answer? Sometimes no has to be the answer and just sashaying away. Every sale just can't be saved.
http://www.baggagereclaim.com/It’s like we don’t believe that we can say no ‘just because’. It’s as if no isn’t no if it hasn’t got a story, excuses, or looking like we’ve been through the horrors to get to the point of saying no so that the other person is sufficiently guilty and embarrassed at having asked us in the first place. I’m generally good at saying no, simply because experience has taught me when my stomach is tied up in knots, there’s that heavy sensation in my chest, and I’m overworked, overtired, over this and over that, that I need to stop telling people what they want to hear – Yes of course I can do that (even though I already know that I have too much on or that I don’t want to) - and straight up say ‘NO’.
Great advice for dealing with this new reality in the clubs. We've gone from charting our own course to being under attack physically and financially by the men around us. No better time than the present to learn how and when to say no.



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. I think my happiest moment at a strip club was watching this asshole fall down some stairs after I "accidentally" bumped into him. he was following me around all night, even interrupting me during dances! some guys need to be taught a lesson.



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