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    Question Cam-to-cam JOI

    JOI isn't my speciality but I do it occasionally. It might be because of me being too inexperienced, but there wasn't a single time when they actually followed the instructions. I end up just sort of commenting and encouraging their actions while they go at their own pace. If I try being more assertive, they just log off(. Is that how it's supposed to be?
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    Default Re: Cam-to-cam JOI

    kinda, yes

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    Default Re: Cam-to-cam JOI

    I've been wondering the same thing. I mostly just go with the flow and try to use my camgirl mind reading powers (which have become scarily strong, btw).

    I've tried looking at JOI vids online, but it seems like every single one is totally different. It does help to get some ideas though. JOI seems to mean something different to every guy, so I usually try to get them to tell me specifics before we start. Of course, half the time they flat out refuse to talk, so I just do my best. :/


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    Default Re: Cam-to-cam JOI

    Thanks for this thread–I was actually thinking about this while I was grocery shopping tonight, LOL! At first I really loved doing JOI but I feel the more I do it the harder it gets. It's the most mind-readery of all my camgirl tasks. The thing that really stumps me is that sometimes the guys are thrilled with it, and sometimes it's like we never click and they just log off in the middle.

    That's when I start to doubt my skills, but I realized tonight when I mulling it over in the frozen aisle–the times we don't click is when I can't see their face (plus they're not typing, natch) and I am not getting the visual cues I need. If I can guage their response then I can usually keep it on course but when all I see is hands and cock, it's just not enough info.

    Quote Originally Posted by scarlettbelle View Post
    JOI seems to mean something different to every guy, so I usually try to get them to tell me specifics before we start.:/
    I totally agree it means something different to every guy. I only recently realized that JOI can incorporate humiliation. Now I have been asking if they want it sweet and sensual or more "demanding" and they basically say it's my call. I think they just get so tired of the monotony of jerking that just having a woman watch and add commentary can be enough to take them over the edge.

    Right now I am considering taking it off my menu while I rethink my approach because when a guy just leaves mid-chat it kind of gets to me. Like I am an air controller who failed to land a plane and now it's off the radar. Of course, someone could be walking in, you never know. So far I haven't gotten a bad rating from an aborted JOI show but I just don't feel 100% confident with it right now. :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    kinda, yes
    Really? My experience hasn't been that way. I have no idea what Im doing when it comes to JOI, Ive seen vids where girls are doing it, their either encouraging or giving really great instructions and showing tits and doing all that shit and Im just trying to get by.
    My JOI are always cam to cam so to that really helps and for some odd reason they all what to type. I'll tell them to get lotion or oil, they don't always have but I tell them to go get it and they always do as I say, even when they act like they don't want too. At the end they always rate me 5 stars so I guess the dominating thing works for me.
    I say go with what pays and be encouraging. I don't think this is suppose to be any one way for all of us. The same guy would act different with different girls and a certain look will attract a certain guy. Its like real life with nudity, G-strings and bright lights.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Genoveve View Post
    My favorite is when they want JOI but they don't c2c. In fact this is 90% of the time the case. Wtf.
    Ill trade you my guys for yours, I really don't care for watching little dick, fat men cum.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Genoveve View Post
    ^^^I will gladly trade! I have seen so many dudes jerking off I am desensitized lol. Although stranger jizz is gross, unless their resolution is so shitty that I can't tell I just focus my eyes elsewhere on the screen when it's that time.
    oooooo,no. if only it was that easy, lol. They always have the best HD cams, they always do extreme close up and they always have cum trick shots so good you cant help but to stare. One came on a green plate, I had to fight laughter because I really thought he was gonna lick the plate after. This other guy did like a half flip and came on his own face and my fav, he ties a shoe lace to the head and will only cum when its puffy and purple.
    I would love to be desensitized too but Im seeing so much new shit, lol. "What your mothers never told you about sex" should have been written by a cam girl. I swear our book would be so much more interesting, lol.

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    Default Re: Cam-to-cam JOI

    I've had some that won't follow instructions, and others that follow them precisely.

    The ones who don't and log off midway do make me feel bad, lol.

    I do JOI with edging/teasing/denial/counting, and the ones that do follow... especially the ones that JUST show their upper body and faces... honestly?

    there is something quite satisfying about watching that.

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    Default Re: Cam-to-cam JOI

    ol when it comes to JOI it helps to ASK a few key questions before you start. JOI can be just straight "I tell you all sexy how to touch yourself" or it can be "I tell you how to touch yourself cos I'd never let you fuck me [humiliation]" or "I tell you how to touch yourself and get you edging then DENY YOU [denial]" or "I'll tell you how awesome everyone elses dick is compared to yours [cuckold]"
    Figure that out first and you'll have a much easier time. =D

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    Oh god, I thought I was the only one who didn't know what to do with these guys. Like I don't know dude, it's your dick, go at it. But this thread has some super helpful tips!

    The only JOI I've ever given that I felt was successful was a clip in which I (purposefully) acted bored out of my mind and like I didn't want to be there. It felt so natural.

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    lol dom ignore JOI! Good call!!
    My fave was the denial one. It was funny cos I got to tell this elaborate story and I made it as hot and heavy as I could giving no indication anythng was going to change then in the last 20 seconds i abruptly changed tunes told the viewer to STOP RIGHT FUCKING NOW and made some threats..lol

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    I've only done it a few times but it was successful!

    I've never watched any JOI videos, but I have watched some (over the top Taoist hippie dippy and over the top homosexual) cock massage vids, and took a cock massage class (which was taught by a gay massage therapist-- the man knows relaxation and he knows cock!) Yep, my husband sure does know what he wants. I decided to try these techniques on the guys who've asked for JOI and they were like woah, where did you learn to do that, never thought to do that with my cock! I hold a dildo in my hand and use the techniques on the dildo, while telling them to do the same to their cock, while I ask how it feels, etc etc. I wish I had more opportunities to see if this will work on everyone, but JOI isn't what most guys want, and I'm not exactly the dommiest girl out there so we'll see.

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    Default Re: Cam-to-cam JOI

    I am working on JOI pay site, so i seen thousands of those vids
    Well, i think it's very important what kind of JOI the guy want.
    There is a lot of different "micro niches" in to it.
    Many guys are in a very specific fetish, like "cum eating instruction" or SPH, they like when you tell them that his cock is so pathetic and small, and than, show him the big dildo and compare the size.
    So, first of all ask if they want regular JOI, or humiliation.
    If it's regular JOI, there is also 2 main types:
    One that wanna hear instructions, and will do what you say..it's a big torn on to them, or , the second type that want just to watch you and be watched.
    Those, don't wanna hear exactly how to jerk off, they wanna hear things like " i like your cock so much, mmm, it's so horny, take a look at my ass and strock for me baby" )
    If you will find out the type, i believe it will go well.

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