Just been chatting to a guy who wants to do a forced intox session later with vodka and wine... I'm definitely fine with being dominant, but any thoughts on what to do with him, or how to just make sure he's ok if I go too far?
Just been chatting to a guy who wants to do a forced intox session later with vodka and wine... I'm definitely fine with being dominant, but any thoughts on what to do with him, or how to just make sure he's ok if I go too far?
if you are worried about going too far give him a safe word? Otherwise wouldn't worry about it. I find with most guys who like to be dominated that the domination isn't ENOUGH [I think it just doesn't transfer over as well through a webcam] my biggest complaint for those kinds of shows is that I could have been meaner. You'll be fine =D




Word on the safe words.
But he should and will also know what his limits are. You aren't physically restraining him or pointing a gun to his head or whatnot-- he can always decide to stop when he's ready. Subspace can be intense, but everyone knows their personal limit...If he doesn't, it really doesn't matter to you-- not your responsibility! And it wouldn't hold in court either lol.


I have a forced intox guy who is also into findom and blackmail. A lovely lady on here suggested the best thing ever to me, which was to make him make a "consent video." This video will basically absolve you of fault, and dudes who are into being dommed seem to really enjoy the sexiness of making the video to begin with. It's a good task for him. The only thing to keep in mind is he should be sober when he makes it, haha.
But seriously—forced intox is a pretty mild fetish, and if he goes too far he'll probably deal with it like anybody else does when they have too much to drink—he'll puke, and be okay.
Also these guys tend to drop wayyyy more $$$ than a sober guy does—takes them longer to finish and they seem to get more needy as they get more drunk and vulnerable.
Let me know if you've got questions about this, I can try to answer 'em or point you to my findom mentor on here.
Have fun!
thanks!!! first session went really well, just played a few games with him and then he started begging to see me strip so I made him 'buy' my clothes with drinks haha!! I'm up early coz he's booked an early phone call for me to humiliate him about his hangover! life is sweet![]()



Here's a way to stretch this out and be safe about it.
From my experience, most of my forced intox shows deal with 'poppers' and I've never seen a guy overdo it. It's generally just an accessory to what they are wanting to experience. However if I'm uncomfortable, I will say something or gear the show elsewhere.
If it's alcohol, play up the fact that you have control over his body. Talk about how you are causing him to feel this way without touching him or even being there. Talk about the substance being your dominance...flooding his body, warming his throat; play that up as if that is your presence truly there. When you start getting into the mental mindset of it there's less drinking and more of the mindfuck sort of play a lot of guys are looking for. Perhaps that will help.
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Last edited by Shiney; 04-06-2014 at 08:23 AM.
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