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  • I log off and come back later when I'm less annoyed

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  • I keep camming but it affects my sales

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  • I keep camming it doesn't really affect my sales

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  • I keep camming being in a bad mood makes my sales better because some guys like the "bitch" persona

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Thread: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

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    Default Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    Have you ever had one of those days where everyone who comes into your room is just an annoying sack of shit?

    How do you handle it?

    Is it better to just log off and work on something else for awhile or do you keep on camming?

    Does it affect your sales when you're in a bad mood?
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    And keep at it. Get up, put on your make up, and sign on. With every second you're online comes the possibility of your next big spender. A customer could show up who will spend enough to make up for all the bad days and then some. You just have to be around for him and working multiple sites increases the chances of him finding you.


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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    I usually CAN'T cam when I am in a bad mood. I am known for being fiercly positive..and my negative side is JUST as fierce. If I get on cam and someone PUTS me in a bad mood usually I just log off and try again later. If that isn't an option [end of pay period, really need to cam whatever reason] I may just ignore the room and dance around. Dancing tends to cheer me up and is entertaining without having to talk to anyone. When I'm in a bad mood the less I talk= the better =D

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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    I'd say it depends on how annoyed I am, really! If I'm slightly annoyed, I keep smiling and try to find happier music to keep my mood from dipping too low. If I'm moderately annoyed, I'll abuse my break button and step away for a couple of minutes. (You have to mail support to get it enabled, since people keep asking when I mention the break button ) If I'm annoyed to the point where a tidal wave of expletives starts barreling through my head, I log off. I have years of experience faking glee even when I feel like I could punch someone, but actually having the option to immediately remove myself from the environment that's driving me insane is different. So I go with that option.
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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    I'm sort of a combo of 1 and 2... I know it affects my sales but some money is better than no money. If I can't stand it anymore and I've already made a decent chunk of change, I'll let myself log off, but if I really need to keep working I'll try another site. Guys on different sites are usually annoying in new and exciting ways. Which makes it easier to tolerate.

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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    ya I am WAY too expressive to fake it when I'm in a bad mood. It is always a mistake for me to try and tough it out. It just shows me in a bad light to my fans. Oh and ya jumping to a different site is a good idea as well. That sometimes works cos on my one site I am more known for my bubbly happy persona and the other one I can get away with a lil grump!

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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    Well today everyone is annoying me. I'm splitting CB and SM (I finally got splitting to work and not kill my internet speed) and everyone is just being strange and making me grumpy.

    I'm giving it 10 more minutes and then I'm taking a lunch break. I've got accounts on a couple other sites but I've not done anything with them maybe I'll try them later just for a change of scenery.
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    And keep at it. Get up, put on your make up, and sign on. With every second you're online comes the possibility of your next big spender. A customer could show up who will spend enough to make up for all the bad days and then some. You just have to be around for him and working multiple sites increases the chances of him finding you.


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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    I can't fake it either. I always take a break and nip it right there. It is costing me, but I'm working on staying positive. I admire those who can power through when they're not feeling it.

    PS I'm going to try hopping on another site during my breaks. Great idea-thank you.
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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    I keep at it and get in a better mood. I change my music to help me cope, too. If I'm pissed, something mellow and calm like GOA progressive will help me find that center.

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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    I keep going cause I feel guilty if I stop lol... I try to change my music too though and am generally quite good at hiding it. Or I do some online window shopping :p bam motivation!




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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    #4. Go on a banning spree accompanied by snarky remarks. Trolls come for free, after all, and there's no better use for them; so why not stroke potential custies' egos by making fun of the sad mofos?
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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    I voted for #1, because I was in a mood last weekend, and eventually just logged off. I'm thinking I'm going to have to get more "ban-happy" than I have been. I've also done the snark thing as well. I may try switching between sites. I have three accounts now.
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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    Log off, or ON! I think that is the best advice I have ever learned. I can't think or function when annoyed, that's me. People in the room sense this too. I have seen performers break down and cry on cam far too many times, or sit and bitch at non-members or even members, or text like crazy while working. Don't let it get to you, or if already annoyed don't sign on, chances are it will show. Unless, You are the type of person who has had a bad day and need people to interact with, THEN sign on and bank! Works both ways.

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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    All of the above! It just depends WHY I am annoyed. If I am annoyed because guys are being cheap beggars logging out for a little break usually does the trick of helping to calm me down and it clears the room of said cheap annoying beggars.

    If I'm annoyed because of something not related to camming I usually stay logged in, just because logging out doesn't really help. The cheap beggars do exacerbate my annoyance but if I know I'm just being hypersensitive I will finish my shift. Sometimes my annoyance is too distracting to me and it negatively affects me on cam or doesn't make a difference, but sometimes it actually works in my favor. It's sweet when caring regs can tell I'm angry and whisk me into a private chat so I can take out all of my frustrations I'm also learning how to rock the "cold, hardhearted bitch" persona so legitimate frustration can be very helpful when I get guys who are looking to be told off and humiliated.

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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    If I'm in bad mood in general I don't even sign in. Just later if it's gone. If I get in bad mood on the go, I only stay if I still expect someone to come for a regular long show. Sometimes I get bitchy, but if it's possible I go to text-chat/break/private only mode so that the expected one can still see me but I can relax. And when I see the expected regular to arrive with his wallet my mood is always uplifted.

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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    I simply can't cam when I'm in a bad mood, unfortunately :/
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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    I handle it by being a great actress.

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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    I come back later if I'm really raging. I don't make money when I'm visibly pissed.

    If it's something minor, camming can make me feel better about whatever it is because orgasms and money generally helps any problem I might have.

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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    It depends entirely on why I'm annoyed. For the most part though I tend to take it out as humorously as possible to those in my room. I turn it into satire, I make jokes, I show my sassy take no shit Domme side and fuel it through there. Sometimes I'll even have a guy ask what he can do for me in private and I'll just yell at him or take joy in seeing him jerk off with ben gay.

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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    I voted for number 1. I log off if I've had tons of traffic in my room, (including regulars), and nobody talks, keeps popping in and out, or won't buy a show. I give it a full hour. I'm someone who thinks the site I'm on is pulling guys away from my room, because there isn't any logical explanation for that to ever happen.

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    Default Re: Camming while annoyed... how do you handle it?

    Quote Originally Posted by Busygirl View Post
    I handle it by being a great actress.
    This. There are days when I think I should be getting an Academy Award for Achievements in Camming. Plus, customers can only annoy me if I let them, and there's no way I am going to give some rando on the interwebs that power.

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