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    Default What to do when customers say they r broke?

    Hi girls. SINCE last week I m having hard time with customers. Everytime I try to be nice and talk to one of the customers and try to make sale I hear those excuses:

    -I m broke
    -I don't have money
    -Can I get free dance ? Because I m good looking , I have big penis etc...
    -I left my wallet at home I will give u money next time
    -ohh u won't talk to me now cause I don't have money u r all about money.

    I m so pissed of .Club is slow lately however those guys dont even embarrassed to tell dancers that they have no money. They kerp saying I wanna see u outside of tbe club , what do for fun I m sure u will like me etc...Tried being nice I tried being bitch nothing works it kills my mood and makes me wanna talk with nobody at the club.I asked them why they go to clubs if they r btoke ? I heard stuff like that my buddies wanted to come , I m just watching, I left my wallet. I even tried to explain to them theres no wsy I wont give my number or go to a date someone cant even afford a dance ...I would not be impressed the fact I m not paid. I even told couple of them if they have no money how are they gonnna take me to date ? If tbey r broke for dances they must be broke for dinner movie etc....always same odd b.s ohh honey ehen u hang out u will like me in time, I said I dont have money right now I will have money for outside, ih we just watch movie at home...

    I made fun of them , I patiently explained no women in the earth is not free....girls don't like broke guys etc... but still some if them believe they can get girls for free they keep braggin jow they got hot women at bars wothout even going for a date..Ok those guys killing my mood so bad. How should I be handling this ? Should I get up and leave the moment they mention they r broke ? Or what else ? I have solution for any other scenario but this one.... sometimes I get speechless. Thx for reading pls just pls help me before I go to work. I m so down and have to make money tonight.i have to change my mood asap.

    Note: pls try to ignore my broken english I m foreigner I m still learning .
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    Default Re: When customers say I m broke ????

    I told one guy my last nite working, who pulled all kinds of this crap w/ me & two other dancers before me, 'Keep going buddy, I'm sure you're w/in sight of breaking the record for most pathetic strip club customer ever.' I then walked away & told all the other girls that he was a timewaster, & after that he couldn't flag down company to save his life.

    There's not really anything you can say to these guys to get a sale from them. They've pretty much made up their minds that they are entitled to our services whether they have the $$ for it or not, & I have yet to see any of them budge. Better to just cut your losses, & maybe sabotage their chances for company for the remainder of their stay.

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    Default Re: What to do when customers say they r broke?

    Just walk away. They have been upfront about the fact that you will not get a dollar out of them, so don't waste your energy and ruin your mood by trying to hustle an empty tap. When they shoot down your dance request, tell them that it's been nice chatting, but you have to get back to work. Then get up and go, do not look back.


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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    Just walk away. They have been upfront about the fact that you will not get a dollar out of them, so don't waste your energy and ruin your mood by trying to hustle an empty tap. When they shoot down your dance request, tell them that it's been nice chatting, but you have to get back to work. Then get up and go, do not look back.
    Of course I don't hustle them but definitely it kills my mood.They look all really happy and interested in me but when I ask for dances they just say... ohh I can't I m broke. They say it like its ok thing very normal to be broke at the strip club.When I try to leave they start u r all about money b.s. We cant eve sell dances anymore sometimes reading hustle hut depresses me even more. I read advises like block of time , extra tips, those massage foot fetish guy etc...or asking money for conversation. I feel like those customers and strip clubs dont exist at all .At my club none of the customers would give u money for chatting. I guess theres nothing to say or do when a guy is sayin he has no money.

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    My reactions have ranged from a polite ignore , to screaming " then what they hell are you doing HERE ? " , to ripping the single $1 a guy put on stage after being there for hours and then throwing it at him. 99% of the time I go with the first option.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    My reactions have ranged from a polite ignore , to screaming " then what they hell are you doing HERE ? " , to ripping the single $1 a guy put on stage after being there for hours and then throwing it at him. 99% of the time I go with the first option.
    I want to do same thing! But they would not be emberassed they r sayin that they r broke almost like its something ok to say dancers.

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    Default Re: What to do when customers say they r broke?

    What is there to say? Move on, lol. Considering strippers can be hard core pushy, some men say that to the girl they are not interested in.

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    I tell them to get the fuck out.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    I've told mgrs before, dead serious, that they should have sm1 to keep track of when customers come in, & if they don't spend on any of the dancers w/in a given period of time, say 30 min, kick them out. Or kick them out after so many girls have reported a guy claiming he's broke.

    I know these kinds of 'suggestions' are going to go absolutely nowhere, it did kinda surprise me that even in nonalcoholic clubs it was a no-go. The bar isn't even making $$ from these jackasses, why are they so desperate to keep them?!

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    Default Re: What to do when customers say they r broke?

    I would not engage them in a debate regarding how pathetic they are. That would only serve to deepen my level of irritation. Instead of trying to explain all of the reasons they suck, save your energy and walk away. Shake it off and look for better customers.

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    Turn around and walk away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    What is there to say? Move on, lol. Considering strippers can be hard core pushy, some men say that to the girl they are not interested in.
    I know its not me. I m not a pushy

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    What is there to say? Move on, lol. Considering strippers can be hard core pushy, some men say that to the girl they are not interested in.
    I know its not me. I m not a pushy.Also I only try to ask dances who s starring uat me checking me out obviously .I dont think so being not interested is the scenerio here.

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    Default Re: What to do when customers say they r broke?

    Last night I had a guy tell me he was, "broke and just there to have a beer."
    After a couple hours of him drinking, he came and got me and did $200 worth of dances.

    MOST of the time when guys say theyre broke, they really are broke losers and just go to the club for a free show. I have seen guys who claim theyre broke and after they drink, or see a dancer they like on stage etc., suddenly theyre taking out their wallets.

    Walk away though, initially theyre usually a waste of time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by missplayful View Post
    I know its not me. I m not a pushy.Also I only try to ask dances who s starring uat me checking me out obviously .I dont think so being not interested is the scenerio here.
    In your post you said that some guys have said you should give them a free dance because they have a big penis. Any customer who says that is just fucking with you... Those ones are likely to be far more interested in getting a rise out if you than buying a dance. Also, just because guys appreciate your beauty and check you out, that doesn't mean they are interested in a dance. In time you'll be able to filter the customers a little better and sniff out the ones with $. Until then, stay positive and bubbly. Guys can smell anger and desperation on a stripper. Complaining won't get you anywhere. I know from experience. I complain a lot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasmine.Doll View Post
    In your post you said that some guys have said you should give them a free dance because they have a big penis. Any customer who says that is just fucking with you... Those ones are likely to be far more interested in getting a rise out if you than buying a dance. Also, just because guys appreciate your beauty and check you out, that doesn't mean they are interested in a dance. In time you'll be able to filter the customers a little better and sniff out the ones with $. Until then, stay positive and bubbly. Guys can smell anger and desperation on a stripper. Complaining won't get you anywhere. I know from experience. I complain a lot.
    Well I usually go after guys who tip me, obviously starring at me.Trust me everytime I try to leave either they say something like ohhh u r all about money or they try to grab me. Than I get tge bouncer.Again last night I got bunch of ohh u r so hot come to party with us we dont fet dances u will be happy b.s guys. I told them if I wanna go I would go hang out with someone who has money.Money is power for a guy and u seem pretty weak to me.Well this week we have a lot of broke guys idk why I can't really tell who has money .I dont have x ray eyes.

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    I don't know, man. Either you need to improve your hustle or get out of that club. If guys are grabbing onto you when you try after they've refused your services, that's super crazy. I've worked a lot of clubs and that's never happened to me. Maybe your club just really sucks? Still, I suspect you may be able to improve your situation.

    Don't tell guys that girls won't date broke guys or demand to know why they came to the club broke. That's a major turn off. If good customers see you acting like this way around other guys, even it he other guys are assholes, the good customers will not be impressed by your attitude. You gotta stay upbeat. It sounds like you get into a lot of confrontations with custies and that's just not necessary. You can avoid that. If a guy says he wants a free lap b/c he's broke, don't criticize him. Tell him your disappointed b/c he's sexy, but the club won't let you dance for free. If he says the club won't find out, tell him that you're a "good girl" as you stand up to leave with a smile. Before you walk away, whisper "except I'm not in the bedroom." Or whatever.

    It's your job to be flirty and fun--not to bitch and moan. I know it's tough. You will figure out how to scope out customers who by dances. Guys who stare you down or tip your stage are not always the guys that buy dances. There are guys who come to the club primarily for the stage. Most guys who come to clubs stare down the ladies. To find your money, you'll have to figure out different demographics and categories of customers. Then you'll need to learn to cater to the different types.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasmine.Doll View Post
    I don't know, man. Either you need to improve your hustle or get out of that club. If guys are grabbing onto you when you try after they've refused your services, that's super crazy. I've worked a lot of clubs and that's never happened to me. Maybe your club just really sucks? Still, I suspect you may be able to improve your situation.

    Don't tell guys that girls won't date broke guys or demand to know why they came to the club broke. That's a major turn off. If good customers see you acting like this way around other guys, even it he other guys are assholes, the good customers will not be impressed by your attitude. You gotta stay upbeat. It sounds like you get into a lot of confrontations with custies and that's just not necessary. You can avoid that. If a guy says he wants a free lap b/c he's broke, don't criticize him. Tell him your disappointed b/c he's sexy, but the club won't let you dance for free. If he says the club won't find out, tell him that you're a "good girl" as you stand up to leave with a smile. Before you walk away, whisper "except I'm not in the bedroom." Or whatever.

    It's your job to be flirty and fun--not to bitch and moan. I know it's tough. You will figure out how to scope out customers who by dances. Guys who stare you down or tip your stage are not always the guys that buy dances. There are guys who come to the club primarily for the stage. Most guys who come to clubs stare down the ladies. To find your money, you'll have to figure out different demographics and categories of customers. Then you'll need to learn to cater to the different types.
    Yes my club sucks lately

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    My reactions have ranged from a polite ignore , to screaming " then what they hell are you doing HERE ? " , to ripping the single $1 a guy put on stage after being there for hours and then throwing it at him. 99% of the time I go with the first option.
    LOL, I do the confused face, "well then what are you doing here?" a lot

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    My reactions have ranged from a polite ignore , to screaming " then what they hell are you doing HERE ? " , to ripping the single $1 a guy put on stage after being there for hours and then throwing it at him. 99% of the time I go with the first option.
    LOL, I do the confused face, "well then what are you doing here?" a lot

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    I usually tell them, "That's ok, there's an atm just this way (gesturing towards it)". If they reply with, "Nah, I don't have any in the bank either etc", then I just walk away.
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    Quote Originally Posted by OliveJardin View Post
    I usually tell them, "That's ok, there's an atm just this way (gesturing towards it)". If they reply with, "Nah, I don't have any in the bank either etc", then I just walk away.
    I use that one actually a lot. FEW of them go for it.Most of them say ... oh I never use atm at the clubs , fees are expensive etc.

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    I have no patience for them. None. Like, walk away mid-word kinda no patience. Strip clubs are for men with money who want to spend it on strippers, durr.

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    Quote Originally Posted by missplayful View Post
    I use that one actually a lot. FEW of them go for it.Most of them say ... oh I never use atm at the clubs , fees are expensive etc.
    O_o
    So why didn't you stop at the bank or CVS on your way here? GTFO.





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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    O_o So why didn't you stop at the bank or CVS on your way here? GTFO.
    Idk girl I wish I could know why...its very annoying

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