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    Default Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    So I was reading a discussion about regulars and I was suprised by the fact the discontent many dancers have for aquiring regulars over one time guys. It was a lot about how the longer you have the regular, the less they spend and the more they want that free intamcy and other similar things. Some may have money and lots to give you but they may have such high standards for the reg relationship, that it's not worth keeping.But what about the guys that aren't there to chat you up and EVENTENTUALLY spend bread.
    What about the guys who you meet, exchange short pleasantries and quickly get into the dances or even V.I.P.? They aren't much talkers and they rather much just get their sexual gratification (I consider erotic dancing a form of sexual gratification since it stimulates the senses and arouses the hormones within the patron creating a sexual fantasy) and go home. They buy the V.I.P. every now and then too and every time you see them, you leave the building with your pockets fatter each time. Remember, they're not talkers, they may seldom, if at all, buy you a drink and are not there to take you home to mother.I am one of those guys (if I was consistant with one club which I'm not) if you haven't been able to tell from my past posts. Not rude, but just want the dancing goods. Do you find these types of patrons easier to deal with, or do you really despise these kinds of patrons.

    Remember they're not trying to get you to be their girlfriend, just to dance and be on their way.
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    Default Re: Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    "Not rude, but just want the dancing goods. Do you find these types of patrons easier to deal with, or do you really despise these kinds of patrons. "

    Yes, as long as they don't expect more and more contact (extras, kissing, touching in places i don't allow normally because they are "special"), that's fine.

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    Default Re: Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    I think I am missing something but regulars who just want a dance and nothing more, and spend money are exactly the type of customer most want. I had several regulars who would come in once or more a week, spent hundreds on me, never asked me for dates and never expected more. To them the dance was a fantasy nothing more.

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    Default Re: Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    While I don't have regulars that I can make a living off of, there are several customers who come in once or twice a month, get one or 2 dances (maybe a champange room), and go on their merry way. If that is what you are referring to, I LOVE them. One of them doesn't speak english, so we go through the few phrases I know and then head to the VIP room. A few others happen to come in only when I'm having a busy night. They are loyal, totally polite, and I always apologize profusely if I can't spend more than a few minutes with them (but they understand that I need $$ so they don't get butthurt about it).

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    Default Re: Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    I don't consider them a regular unless they are buying VIP every time they come in and when they don't, I don't pay any attention to them other than a hi/bye. I have to find someone else to take me to the VIP, sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    I don't consider them a regular unless they are buying VIP every time they come in and when they don't, I don't pay any attention to them other than a hi/bye. I have to find someone else to take me to the VIP, sorry.
    Huh I didn't know some ladies only considered V.I.P. as an introduction to regularity. Well I know there are some people who like the guys who hold great conversation with sharing some drinks and such too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    I don't consider them a regular unless they are buying VIP every time they come in and when they don't, I don't pay any attention to them other than a hi/bye. I have to find someone else to take me to the VIP, sorry.
    Huh I didn't know some ladies only considered V.I.P. as an introduction to regularity. Well I know there are some people who like the guys who hold great conversation with sharing some drinks and such too.

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    Y'all are ATM's with penises. Some ATM's are just bigger than others.
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    Default Re: Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    sure, in a perfect world, that would be great. rarely meet these guys though unless they are looking for more contact than allowed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    sure, in a perfect world, that would be great. rarely meet these guys though unless they are looking for more contact than allowed.
    No in a prefect stripper world, he'd be angelicly handsome, smile real nice and pay for a vip he doesn't get. Aint that perfection?

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    Default Re: Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    I have three main regulars and they are all big spenders. My income has come solely from them the last two months or so. It's made work a lot easier since we mostly just chat/drink in VIP. I haven't gone to work without one of my regulars coming to see me in a while.
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    ^ yes it would be, although i couldn't care less what a guy looks like ( im not there to find a man, im there to work) as long as he doesn't smell, grope me, and he pays/tips me for my time. and i don't mind working for my money, i would never expect anybody to just hand me money, not even in a perfect world.

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    Default Re: Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    Quote Originally Posted by estafador View Post
    No in a prefect stripper world, he'd be angelicly handsome, smile real nice and pay for a vip he doesn't get. Aint that perfection?
    In stripper world no one cares how handsome he is as long as he is paying. The only color and look that matters is money.

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    Default Re: Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    @estafador
    You are way too worried about what the dancers think about you. As long as you have a good time when you go to the club and your regular acts like she enjoys your company and you are respectful, who gives a fuck what they think.
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    Default Re: Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    You're not a regular unless you're spending money on me and by "money", I mean VIP. Sorry, drinks don't do shit for my bank account. Neither does "chatting" or how you look.

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    Quote Originally Posted by estafador View Post
    Huh I didn't know some ladies only considered V.I.P. as an introduction to regularity. Well I know there are some people who like the guys who hold great conversation with sharing some drinks and such too.
    Some girls are OK with making their money $20 at a time and others prefer to pursue VIP....and some do both. As far as girls "liking" guys who hold great conversations and share drinks I think you are confusing what dancers "like" with what they are willing to go through in order to sell dances. In any event, there is no reason to over complicate the thought process here. If you are in a strip club and have money to spend you will generally not have much trouble finding dancers to spend it on. Worrying about what they think of you is pretty much a waste of time.
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    Default Re: Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    I dont consider them a regular unless they take me to VIP almost every time they come. I guess that's because I don't give out my contact info unless they have spent a good amount on me in VIP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by estafador View Post
    They buy the V.I.P. every now and then too and every time you see them, you leave the building with your pockets fatter each time.
    ^If they only buy dances "now and then" I won't always be leaving with my "pockets fatter". There are guys like this, but if they only go for dances "now and then", it won't be "every time I see them" and they often aren't big spenders or customers I consider regulars. Of course I appreciate their time and money, but these are the types that don't heavily impact on my income.

    Or, are you are talking about guys who come in occasionally, but take a SC for what it is, enjoy it and spend time with and money on the girls knowing exactly (and only) what they will get in return? I like these customers, they understand that time is money, they are respectful (they don't push my boundaries).
    If I see them, I know that they will spend x amount on me (they often spend the exact same amount and many have a few regular girls and allocate x amount for each dancer). They improve my night, but they don't make it and I don't rely on them. They tend to be more long term than some. Where as, the more obsessive, big spenders do increase my income dramatically, but often only in the short term.
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    Quote Originally Posted by estafador View Post
    No in a prefect stripper world, he'd be angelicly handsome, smile real nice and pay for a vip he doesn't get. Aint that perfection?
    ^No, he would just have an endless wallet, excellent manners and a very generous spirit (I HONESTLY do not care about a customer's appearance etc-as long as they don't have bad breath or BO).
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    Default Re: Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    Well what they think of me so much isn't what bothers me. Can't please everyone ya know. But I just like when a dancer is having, at the very least, a seldom good time with me. If she is having such a bad time within the club and more importantly me, then the dance suffers, I lose interest and we both just had a terrible time.

    I remember one time I went to this club, and I saw this DROP DEAD GORGEOUS women on the stage. Naturally, I let her know I was interested in her by tipping her well on stage. She came to me and did her dance.....while she was on her phone. She obviously had no mood for the dancing shizzle and I quickly lost my mood as well because of it. Wound up letting her leave because she wasn't enjoying herself and neither am I. So it's always good to know things and this can apply generally too.

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    ^ Any girl rude enough to do that is simply a bad dancer. Your approach isn't going to make much difference in her attitude. You are trying to create a scenario where you think that a dancer will enjoy dancing for you. What dancers enjoy is making money. Make their job easy by being generous, polite and clean and you are half way there.
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    Default Re: Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    In the strip club money trumps all unless personal hygiene is terrible. Can't blame the ladies for not wanting to dance against someone who hasn't had a shower. When they are being nice they are wanting money.

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    ^ Any girl rude enough to do that is simply a bad dancer. Your approach isn't going to make much difference in her attitude.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bone View Post
    When they are being nice they are wanting money.
    ^When we are "being nice" we are just doing our jobs and well, it's really as simple as that. Dancers who can't manage to be polite are just unprofessional, like any other rude person in any other position.
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    Default Re: Ladies, what's your take on the particular type of regular

    Has to be attractive, successful, have money, be a homeowner, preferably in business or something like that which brings in a lot of income. And he has to wan to spend that money on me!

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