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    Default How to not ruin the GFE and still ask for money for a service

    Hey girls!

    I currently have a regular who wants the girlfriend experience from me. He is asking for a phone number to text me by. Now, if he were a Whale who dropped tons of dollars on me I might be willing to just give him the number I use for that. However, he is just an average customer who happens to pay for my shows on a regular basis. I would like for him to pay for the number like any other customer has to but I don't want to totally ruin that gfe for him. How do I ask for the money without totally ruining that?

    Any suggestions?

    Thanks in advance ladies!
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    And keep at it. Get up, put on your make up, and sign on. With every second you're online comes the possibility of your next big spender. A customer could show up who will spend enough to make up for all the bad days and then some. You just have to be around for him and working multiple sites increases the chances of him finding you.


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    Default Re: How to not ruin the GFE and still ask for money for a service

    I hate it when guys do that. What usually happens is that they stop spending and expect you to text free. Maybe send him to somewhere where you can charge per text, not for the actual # like extralunchmoney texting or adultwork texting. Those GFE types can be very demanding and you end up working for free if you give too much.

    Also be very careful how you do this. If he gets angry he may try to blackmail you and turn you in to whatever site he found you on for providing outside contact info. Not worth getting suspended or banned over!!


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    not a bad idea, I have accounts on both sites I just haven't done much with either one yet.
    Quote Originally Posted by Procrasturbator View Post
    And keep at it. Get up, put on your make up, and sign on. With every second you're online comes the possibility of your next big spender. A customer could show up who will spend enough to make up for all the bad days and then some. You just have to be around for him and working multiple sites increases the chances of him finding you.


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    Default Re: How to not ruin the GFE and still ask for money for a service

    I always tell guys that I need to be 'motivated' to do things like that.

    No matter what excuse/trick they try after that I just say. "Hmmm, strange. I am still not motivated."

    Edited to add: As laurielegs was super smart to point out....if it is against the sites rules then it is never worth it.
    Last edited by justanothercamgirl; 10-27-2013 at 01:40 PM. Reason: Edited to point out that laurielegs is freaking smart!

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    do you have a smartphone? Give him your kik for a high price. Also discuss extensively with him exactly what he wants from his experience..and price accordingly. If you get that out of the way first then it won't wreck the experience

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    Default Re: How to not ruin the GFE and still ask for money for a service

    what the heck. texts cost money to send. tell him "bitch i aint spending my money texting u when u can chat here and it costs me nufin"

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    ^lmao

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    lol Annie too funny. He likes that I'm such a classy lady so I would hate to ruin his perception of me by saying that to him!
    Quote Originally Posted by Procrasturbator View Post
    And keep at it. Get up, put on your make up, and sign on. With every second you're online comes the possibility of your next big spender. A customer could show up who will spend enough to make up for all the bad days and then some. You just have to be around for him and working multiple sites increases the chances of him finding you.


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    Quote Originally Posted by o0Pepper0o View Post
    do you have a smartphone? Give him your kik for a high price. Also discuss extensively with him exactly what he wants from his experience..and price accordingly. If you get that out of the way first then it won't wreck the experience
    How high would the price have to be though?

    I can imagine this turning into a lot of free messages and ending up having to block the guy and lose his money permanently. Any time I've interacted for free it ends up killing their paid interaction.

    Id much rather have him pay per text than have permanent access to me any time.


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    Default Re: How to not ruin the GFE and still ask for money for a service

    yes, or he needs to offer a weekly/monthly allowance for the text messaging on top of buying content.

    Make it clear that because he is a regular customer, you will allow this for a weekly allowance of x dollars expected at the beginning of each week and that if
    he starts to buy content at a lesser amount than he was before, that you will no longer allow the privilege of texting with you--even for an allowance.

    but yes-- what are the site regs?

    *stolen from AutumnAmbrosia*

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    Default Re: How to not ruin the GFE and still ask for money for a service

    Just keep in mind how a lot of guys treat their girlfriends.

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    Interesting. GFE to me is for guys who can actually afford to have that experience. In phone sex, these guys call for hours just to shoot the shit, etc and with escorting, these are vacations and overnights. These guys sound like they are cheapening a lot of things. I think you should tread lightly, OP. He sounds like he just might be a headache and bug/demand your attention 24/7 and on a beer income at that. You could just give him prepaid blocks of time and a google voice SMS to text from so you won't be bothered when he runs out.




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    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    Interesting. GFE to me is for guys who can actually afford to have that experience. In phone sex, these guys call for hours just to shoot the shit, etc and with escorting, these are vacations and overnights. These guys sound like they are cheapening a lot of things. I think you should tread lightly, OP. He sounds like he just might be a headache and bug/demand your attention 24/7 and on a beer income at that. You could just give him prepaid blocks of time and a google voice SMS to text from so you won't be bothered when he runs out.
    Yes yes yes yes yes...and just a thought on putting the spin on this from some smart advice my Mom gave me about men...

    "If you're with the wrong one, you'll miss meeting the right one." ~BlondeBomb's Mom

    So in essence, I can almost guarantee at some point he will stop respecting your time/$$$, and you will be missing out on finding a great GFE guy while worrying about/wasting time on this one.


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    staying classy... tell him your phone is shared with sister/mother.. or that phone is lost/broken. t*hen have him purchase you a brand new phone (best quality one!) and then
    have him buy you for text credits. text him until hes recieved his moneysworth of the phones cost. and then by that time you might know if hes going to quit spending on you or not.

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