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    with his friends, while youre not working. I work in a small town club about 15 mins from where my bf lives. it bothers me that he goes while im not working because thats where i work...not play. he goes with his friends gets drunk ext

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    Mine can go. Unless Dolly Parton is working I'm not worried. But he's smart. "Why pay for sub par when I get grade A pussy for free?"

    The last time he went to a SC I bought him a lapper with a 300llber named Candy. He hasn't gotten one since.
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    nope, not comfortable with it. like you said, we go there to work and to EARN money, while they go to spend it on women grinding on them or dancing naked for them. my bf went with his brother for a bachelor party and i let it go because it was for his brother and i trust him..but otherwise, NOPE. and especially not when im working. its a distraction , and its just an invitation for drama

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    hmmm....i think i would be concerned this could cause some drama, esp if the guy is drinking heavily. he could blab out to ppl that he is my bf and that could hurt my income, which would infuriate me. he could cause a scene which could affect my employment at the club. (and likely lead to a break up- don't mess with my $$$!) if he was the douche who just sat there and didn't spend $$$, that would aggravate me too- we as dancers hate those guys who take up space that could be better used for a paying customer.

    if my bf ever said 'why pay for it when i can get it free?' i'm sorry, but i think he would wake up to a missing lap top and his car on cinder blocks. i feel that is just flat out disrespectful of my job and how i support myself. i NEVER disrespect my bf's job in that way, he shouldn't do that to me. if i am seen as some 'bargain' regarding $ as far as our relationship goes, the guy is gone. i want a man for COMPANIONSHIP and LOVE. sorry to disagree, tempest, but that's how i feel.

    i personally don't date heavy drinkers as i am not one myself. so this issue hasn't come up. we're more the picnic and board game couple. i don't think i would be comfortable with it due to potential drama, hurting income and possible safety concerns.

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    My boyfriend doesn't go to clubs, period. I would consider the situation you describe very disrespectful.

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    Best way to get them tired of SC's: "Get them a job there"-this from the überhot MILF at my club.
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    I wouldn't mind if him and his friends went while I wasn't working, but don't think I'd want my husband's friends watching me. ( if I was a dancer)
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    Only if the girls were chubby that night and no skinny girls were working (that is his type).

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    I have no problems with it!

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    Doesn't bother me.

    I had boyfriend come to work as a custy one night and he got table dances and tipped girls on stage. It was fun and kind of like foreplay lol

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    I'd love it.

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    I dated a guy who would come into the club with his buddies once in awhile. It was cool. I didn't care. The only issue I had was the reaction of the other girls. He sat at the stage with his friends, and threw a bunch of $ on the girls. Some of my co-workers thought this was evidence that he didn't respect me and we had a bad relationship. That was kinda annoying, but not a big deal. If he had come to the club frequently, that would have been distracting, but I didn't mind him stopping in with his friends once in awhile...,

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    A truly wise man will realize what he has at home and act accordingly without berating or tears.
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