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    Sad Uhm I just wigged out on cam (rant)

    And I feel absolutely horrid.
    I've had an off day all day, family stuff, etc.
    But I was like, whatever, push past it. I usually do. I felt really good when I got on cam. My makeup was cute, etc. I got some fun exclusives.

    Then, this dude came on and he was really sweet. took me ex. immediately. Asked me if I roleplayed and I said no. He said "okay that's fine" and proceeded to ask me to get a bunch of stuff from different areas of my house. So that took up A TON of time. Finally, he explains he wants me to do this super elaborate role play, and after reminding him I don't really do those...and him insisting....I reluctantly agree...then he goes into it. I can't hear half of what he's saying because there's a terrible echo. Elaborate RP is all about a massage clinic and stuff. After he explains it, I step off cam to get lotion and I burst into tears.
    I dunno wtf happened. I was scared, nervous...Idk. It was so weird. So I clean myself up and I'm like "Listen, dude. I'm so sorry. I can't do this, I feel horrible but I dunno if I can roleplay right now" etc etc. So he says "okay fine, that's ok, we'll do something else" and he proedes to give me another f'ing scenario. Which I'm ok with, and I start to try (because I'm fucking stupid) and right when it comes time for me to dirty talk, I burst into tears. Again. On cam. No hiding it.

    FSFSALFSLFfack. I hate myself so hard right now. Anyway. At that point I apologized over and over and he had this shocked look on his face. I begged him not to add a mean comment about me, and signed off.
    I can't believe I did that.
    It was on SM- can I give this guy his money back? I feel like the worst person ever.


    I'm sorry, I dunno why I'm posting this. It's not even a question, I just don't have anyone to talk to that would even begin to be able to understand.

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    Default Re: Uhm I just wigged out on cam (rant)

    First things first, HUG!

    It's okay girl. It happens. 've cried on cam once. I almost did this morning because this guy kept telling me to "fuck my throat harder" when I tell him I'm in control and I will do it safely. Then kept demanding. I started to feel my stress rising so I stopped deepthroating, moved the cam off my face, and used my hitachi. These guys can be demanding. Next time I would ex out of your stream. Calm down and come back. If the guy comes back, say your internet was acting funny so you had to reset your router. And try again. If it isn't something you are not comfortable with and they are still very demanding about it... keep saying no. Tell them to respect your rules, give them other options. If they don't like it, too bad.

    To help with roleplay, I suggest going on fetlife and reading roleplay stories to get an idea of a scenario. There are tons on the forums.


    With the echo on c2c. I turn the sound off when they turn on their cam. If they want to talk, they need to get headphones.
    Hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs





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    Default Re: Uhm I just wigged out on cam (rant)

    No, you cannot give him his money back. Why would you want to, anyway? He pushed your boundaries not once, but TWICE when you said "no." You are not the one that needs to be apologizing to anyone.


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    Default Re: Uhm I just wigged out on cam (rant)

    Ok I want to say why don't you roleplay? It's not hard.

    On the other hand if you're sure you don't want to do something , then DON't do it!! No amount of cash is worth the mental turmoil, as you're finding out!

    As Evelyn says though, don't sweat it. You did your job, end of. If he was so shocked you might actually end up with a surprise new customer! Guys are weird like that
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    Default Re: Uhm I just wigged out on cam (rant)

    Audritwo~ :s thank youu. i'm glad i'm not the only one. sort of, i mean it's horrible that you had to go through that but at least i'm not alone and/or crazy x_x
    it was so unexpected, oii. you're right. i should've x'd out immediately.
    hugs back <3 i appreciate the reply :3
    that guy sounds like an ass D:

    EvelynHeartsYou~ I guess I feel like it's my fault for not shutting him down immediately. Te more I think about it, the more I think you're right. I was honest that it made me uncomfortable and he wanted to do it twice. I just feel like I wasted his time :S I dunno. Thank you for your reply. I appreciate it.

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    Default Re: Uhm I just wigged out on cam (rant)

    sexysusie~ lol thank you <3 I dunno, I feel like I'm going to say something dumb. :S Maybe it's lack of confidence! I do fine in videos but cam2cam I feel weird. Or even typing I'm okay with. Maybe I should turn the sound off and get comfy there for a bit.

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    Default Re: Uhm I just wigged out on cam (rant)

    If you haven't stumbled on this thread yet, I highly recommend it: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...?175790-Limits
    You don't have to justify anything or apologize to anyone if you're not comfortable with something whether it be a hard limit or just a "meh, I'm not in the mood for this tonight" sort of limit. Ever. Your rules all day, every day. Don't beat yourself up over this, bb. Just take it as a learning experience.


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    Default Re: Uhm I just wigged out on cam (rant)

    First off, it's really not your fault. You were already having a hard day and he pushed your stated boundaries, repeatedly. If his time was wasted it was richly deserved and maybe that will teach him a lesson. Secondly, audio in c2c is stressful as hell (for me at least.) The echo is terrible, they often have thick accents, they talk low or far away from their mic... ugh, it's awful. I always turn audio off. They don't care. If it's really important to them they'll ask for phone. If you make them type then it takes up more time (ka-ching!) and you'll be 100% clear on what it is that they want.

    I'm sorry that it got to that point, but it is a little satisfying to imagine the pushy customer's boner going down.

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