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    Hello @ all,

    we all have that problem, we have a phase of no motivation. Or we drop in a motivation hole.

    What is your tipp to make your job and finish it?

    I don't have so many tipps. It helps me a lot, to say okay, you can take your camgirlclothes and styling me or not, and mostly it works for me, and than i make my job!

    Or i beginn my work so early if i can. And i make mostly make my goal!

    Whats your tipps. I hate to say, okay, you have today a lazy day, tomorrow you make more money. And than, its tomorrow, and you are in a negative circle.

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    When you're on.. Stay on, for as long as you can! That's basically all I can do as no other motivation/ discipline trick seems to work with me. So I binge cam :p
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    I would have to agree with doing your best to complete your planned shift. Also be consistent. This year I've experienced a few burnouts and took more time off than I really should have, wtbs I am paying for it now, however when I was consistent and worked my shifts I did much better and made good money. Another thing I do is try to mentally prep myself while I am getting ready to cam, especially if I don't feel like logging on.

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    I have my cam persona. Her name is Amber. I think to myself about her as I get ready....she's sexy and confident, she loves being watched, she didn't have a bad day even if I did etc etc...I get into this motivated, sexy character and that totally helps.

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    I read threads here in awe! I also like reading about how someone was about to log off, and a huge spender came in, etc.. These things have happened to me before but i like seeing how other girls have had lucky shifts/smashed their target. I also put my cam schedule for the day/night on my profile, so i HAVE to be online for those times, because often regs will come and see me just before i finish or as soon as i am supposed to log on, so it's a little push to keep at it :-)

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    To me my best days were ones where I could break up my cam time into at least 2 different sessions. It is great because if you make a ton of money the first shift it makes your second shift awesome, or if traffic is dead there is always a second shift :-) It is hard to make a schedule or to break up time but the end result is much better for me. It makes it so I don't burn out that fast either, I hate when I am lazy and skip out on a shift. It makes me stressed out when I get on cam later because I feel like I need to make up for the time I didn't do and being stressed out even the slightest can make it hard to be that bubbly girl, especially when you get demanding customers or its low traffic and your only on that one shift.

    Also when it comes to demanding/rude customers don't let them get you down. No matter what. They came into YOUR room, remember that. They chose to be there. If they ask you to do something and you don't want to, do not feel bad about this. I hate when guys take you private or exclusive and then want you to do something ridiculous or something you don't do, and try to coax you into it. By this I mean when things aren't discussed and expected just because they are now paying. They didn't ask before-hand and if they are upset, it is their own fault. So many girls have so many different limits to things they are willing and not willing to do, so he should of asked you first if it was okay. For the mean ones, you should just feel bad that someone has so minimal of a life that they felt like they actually had to click on your room and actually take time to first think, and then type something to someone they do not know, especially something negative. They want to bring you down, but the funny thing is you already brought them down by showing how much "free" time they have by being an ass. Our time is valuable, literally, and I wish I had more of it, . If you can go online searching for women to say nasty things to then you have too much free time and should probably be putting that time into yourself because negative people are usually unhappy with their own lives in a way and incredibly insecure. They want to bring you down because misery loves company, but you are a strong, beautiful woman who is taking charge of her sexuality and financial well-being. Remember girls the best revenge is success, ignore the haters and make that money and then laugh all the way to the bank :-) It's hard but we can do it.

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    I have such trouble staying motivated to cam, especially when I take time off. A day off usually turns into 2, then 3, then before I know it I've taken a whole week off and am stressed because I need to make even more money the next week and it makes me not wanna log back in. The best thing for me is honestly to work every single day, just a couple hours but keep it consistent. Pick a schedule to work and stick to it no matter what, like a regular job.

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    I would not necessarily call it motivation, I have no schedule and make myself login lol but it helps if I get any excuses out of the way. For example, if I know I need to hit goal and haven't been on I make sure that the day or night before I take care of anything that I may use as an excuse to do instead. Then, about an hour before I go on I do anything else that may come to mind that usually "distracts" me such as eating, making last minute phone calls, etc. It's not exactly motivational but it helps to remove any excuses that I may have for stalling

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    Oh, also, when I really don't want to get on cam, I take a minute to remember the time I was working retail on black friday, and had been on my feet for 10 hours, and some psycho punched me in the face because she thought I was taking the last glittery pink skirt.

    Ha. Never again, psycho. Never.again.

    Think of all the vanilla jobs you've had and can't stand. That's what I do. What would I rather do? Open tits bb or work a full day of retail? Easy choice. lol.
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    Give yourself a daily goal and push yourself to make it. If you don't make it, don't beat yourself up, but try again the next day. Make it a game, think "let's see how close to my goal I can get today." then reward yourself with a day off, or something that makes you happy when you reach it.

    Create a "Dream Board". Dream Boards are all the things you want in life or by X amount of days/years. Put it above your bed, or in your office. Make it colorful, positive, believe in it and work each day towards the goals on your dream board. Watch it come true. Motivation does not make you do anything YOU have control over the things you do/want in life. I came across this saying and it holds true: We do not need motivation. We need decision. Tell that little voice in the back of your head to shut the f*ck up and do what you gotta do. DECIDE that you are going to do what you NEED to do to get where you want to go and follow through. That's all the motivation you need. Period.




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    Double post hehe.




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    Thanks for helping me with all of your tipps. I want to make me a dreamboard. Yes, if i go online, i work really hard. But if i go in the morning, oh my god, i work into the night. Haha. Than i have 10-11 hours. But the hardest part are, to begin in the morning.

    I make me a dreamboard and i hope it helps me to go my way.

    My tip at the moment are, the motivation videos on Youtube. Every day, and wammm, you have power for 10-11 hours. I hope it works for months and years. Hehe.

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    can you share some of your video links you use on youtube please ?

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    Hey Angelfaced, you search on youtube, motivation and than you have so many results of it. :-) I don't have a favorit, i see it on the random princip. :-)

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    I am all about motivation! I work streamate because I make money if I work half a hour or two hours. Every time I have some spare time I hop on. I keep a small dry erase board next to me. I put xxx amount to go, xxx (current amount)/ xxx (total amount to go ). After every tip, every show I fix it. It helps.

    So lets say things are slow. I tell myself I"ll log out after one more pvt or 5 more minutes if no one drops any cash. The thing is it can get busy in a single moment.

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    I need motivation to get on in the middle of the night now when it is so cold and my warm bed is calling my name. Easier to do when it is busy this past week has been dead for me on SM and MFC. Plus I have a lot of hip pain after sitting for about an hour so that does not help my motivation regard
    less of weather. Maybe Santa will leave leave these guys some money to spend...

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