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    Default Good ways to say no to Sugar Daddies/OTC

    I'm new to stripping and I'm still learning the hustle lol.

    So last night I had this rich ass customer who was absolutely fascinated by me. He bought 12 nude dances in a row and we just sat there talking! Easiest money ever. He also made it rain on me on stage several times.
    So anyway. After a while he starts the whole "I can take care of you, let's hang out, I'll buy you whatever you want" spiel. Thing is: I don't want that.
    I don't want to see anyone OTC, I don't want a Sugar Daddy. I have a day job, a nice car and a nice apartment and I like the extra income from stripping, but I don't need the money badly enough to have something like that going on. Nothing wrong with girls doing it, it just isn't for me.

    Ok so here's my question: What is a good way to say no to OTC meetings, giving out your number etc without losing a customer? Most of the time it's broke losers anyway asking me out but to me there's no difference. Another guy said he was a movie agent (yeah right lol) and he could get me into a movie if I give him my number. I'm getting annoyed with this, even more when it's "I don't buy dances, but I'll take you out on a date!"

    Urrggh.

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    Default Re: Good ways to say no to Sugar Daddies/OTC

    You're getting annoyed but you might as well get used to it. Because it never will end! lol You'll always have good regulars that aren't looking for anything OTC because they are married and they just want that time in the club where they can be away from everything in there life. Those are the guys you don't take for granted because they make life in the club easier.

    But like you pointed out you'll always have guys asking for your # and marketing themselves as sugar daddys. Sometimes you gotta just be straight up with them and say you don't do that. Because I've found that it's easier to do that than constantly having to make excuses as to why you won't give them your # (because they keep asking etc.). Sure you might lose some dances and VIP time. But it's going to happen sooner or later because eventually they will get the point.

    Of course this will always vary depending on what your club is like. But some of the clubs I've worked in the customer base is always changing. So you're always having new guys come in.

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    Default Re: Good ways to say no to Sugar Daddies/OTC

    I usually say something along the lines of "maybe when we get to know each other better" so they continue to keep coming to see me in the club. Then I make up excuses about school and working too much and just not having ANY time at all and that "this" is just easier for both of us since I *need* to work.

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    ^^Yeah, I try to string things out as long as possible. I say that we need to get to know each other... I say that I only do OTC with guys I really trust and have known for a long time (even though I don't actually do OTC at all). If the guy gets crabby and complains that I'm just stringing him along, I play the victim and act like he's been unreasonable for asking me to do something I could lose my job over and for asking me to do something I'm not yet comfortable with... (I quote stories about other dancers that got spotted with customers outside work and now live under bridges. I say that if the guy really was my friend and cared, he'd keep seeing me in the club until I know he really does respect me and my position. After I act all butt hurt, the guy usually is on extra good behavior for awhile.... He'll tip big and not bring up OTC for a month or 2. When he does, I'll have another excuse or play the victim again. I know this sounds crazy, but I've played this game with the same guys for years. It works.

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    Default Re: Good ways to say no to Sugar Daddies/OTC

    Ha! I'll try that. I've been sort of afraid to "lead them on" so far, but fuck it. What's gonna happen?

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    Default Re: Good ways to say no to Sugar Daddies/OTC

    Worst case scenario--they get bored and move on... Might as well milk em as long as you can!

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    Default Re: Good ways to say no to Sugar Daddies/OTC

    Stripping is all about "leading them on". They always think/hope they are going to get more than you will give no matter what you do so get your money, girl.

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    "You don't have enough money or enough chloroform in the world to fuck me."
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