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    Default Doing Taboo role playing

    so, normally I wouldn't do incest role playing, but this guy caught me at the right time and it didn't bother me at all. It was even a little bit of a turn-on (not in a real-world way because I'd want to kill someone who did that to any kid) but it did feed into my other role-play/fantasies of power differences and seeing a guy go crazy over an inexperienced female.

    Afterward, I've been thinking a lot about it and I feel like I should feel bad. I don't, but feeling like I should feel bad is now kind of taking the place of genuinely feeling bad-- if you can follow that line of thinking.

    I did want to ask the guy about his fetish to try to ascertain that he wouldn't ever follow through with this sort of thing-- I'm sure that there's plenty of guys who have rape or incest fantasies, and there's furry play for the people who get turned on by animals but wouldn't really fuck an animal.

    I'm a little bit torn though.

    What are your thoughts on doing fantasy work for a guy who has a fantasy of something that would really upset you if he were to follow through in the real-world?

    On one end of the spectrum, I myself have had someone spy on me in a changing room and it really upset me. But the fantasy and role-playing of it, that "I know you're watching me but I'm going to pretend you're not to turn you on" is to me kind of cute and in some was could be a turn on to me.

    On the other end of the spectrum, yesterday I did two different shows for the same guy. The first one he wanted me to be a scuba-diving babe (complete with snorkel mask) which I thought was really cute and inoffensive. It didn't hurt that we did cam2cam and he himself was just adorable. Then a few minutes later I did another role play for him where I pretended he chloroformed me, and then I bound my hands and feet and struggled around on my bed, and then pretended he chloroformed me.

    I was chatting to another custy about how there must be something wrong with me because I just thought it was adorable. Neither was a turn on for me at all, and I did slightly worry if somehow I was contributing-- would he eventually escalate from thinking, to non-interactional porn, to interactional porn, to doing it for real?

    Because if that's the case, I wouldn't want to do it. But then I think of my own internal fantasy life and there's definitely times where there's stuff that turns me on to masturbate to, but I would not be down with in real-life unless it was just role-playing/play-acting and maybe not even then.

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    Default Re: Doing Taboo role playing

    I feel like the topic of taboo role play comes up on here pretty frequently and it always ends with very heated arguments so I won't even get into how I personally feel about it (I've said it many times over, anyway), but I do have to wonder, why do you think you should feel bad for engaging in taboo role play? I understand genuinely feeling uncomfortable if the role play in question crosses a personal boundary for you, but if you're happy, the customer is happy, and you're not breaking any site rules- what's to feel bad about? Viewers tell me all the time that they are falling in love with me and they want to find me and date me and even marry me in real life. It's just a fantasy which I know would never happen, and I don't buy into more extreme fantasies any more than I buy into customers professing their undying love for me.

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    Default Re: Doing Taboo role playing

    If you aren't comfortable, don't do it. If it irks you, don't do it. If you could care less, do it.
    Just make sure those are not against the rules if you are camming on a site.





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    Default Re: Doing Taboo role playing

    Well, as an older model (42 on my profile, 46 for real) I am asked to do Mommy stuff all the time. And hell yeah I do it! I do not think that them cumming to me squeezing my boobs or whatever is going to lead to bizarre Thanksgivings at their house.

    If it were the other way around, and I actually looked underage, I probably wouldn't do it as far as my personal comfort level goes. That said, your (any adult models) personal comfort level and the rules of the site are king. So, I echo what audritwo said,

    "If you aren't comfortable, don't do it. If it irks you, don't do it. If you could care less, do it.
    Just make sure those are not against the rules if you are camming on a site."

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    I'd be too freaked out to do the whole chloroform roleplay, I don't really take too well to being told what to do by customers as it is lol and when someone wants to be dominant when it goes beyond verbally degrading, even if they are just telling me to go faster/harder/deeper, I'm VERY tempted to pull the plug on the show and sometimes I do. If you are comfortable with it though, go for it if it's allowed...I feel like you aren't really THAT comfortable with it though, even if it's just subconsciously uncomfy...something about the situation bothered you enough to post about it, so it seems that whether or not you are actually uncomfortable with the roleplay itself or uncomfortable with the fact that you didn't feel uncomfortable, either way, you are uncomfortable with something involving it. I hope that makes sense lol if you really don't feel badly about it though then go for it I can talk about some subjects that some can't, and others can talk about things that I can't...sometimes it all just depends on what kind of mood I'm in also. There are days when I don't feel like camming to the extent that I won't even gag on a dildo lol
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    It's your show as they say - run it how YOU want to! X
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    But it's true though right? I think sometimes we get so caught up in doing a good job, it's easy to overstep our own boundaries then question it afterwards x
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    Default Re: Doing Taboo role playing

    I might sound a bit too 'right-on' but I'm doing a Masters in Sexuality so forgive me

    I see it as a spectrum. No right/wrong divide, but more a line of comfort/discomfort or pleasure/displeasure. Unless there is an issue of consent - that is, where one party cannot consent to it - such as with very young children, animals or violent rape - I don't do it. In real life, or on cam. However, between two adults in a consensual role playing environment, I have no problem acting out certain things. I don't do animals/kids/violent rape because it's not to my taste, but if people do want to play around with acting that out, then I have no opinion on that. I don't moral signpost the bedroom.

    There are no wrongs in my chat room. There are things I don't engage in, but I don't tell them that they're wrong for wanting it. I just tell them I don't provide that service and they can find other people. I usually ask them why and try to engage with them about it.

    But, since I don't moral signpost, if other wants don't want anything to do with it, then who am I to have an opinion on that either? People should work with their own boundaries.

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