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    Default Re: Tips & tricks you use to overcome body issues on cam

    Black is the new black! Other colors don't work for me on cam(and irl). Plus I have blonde hair, so the contrast is nice. Also, I never show underewear in free chat, and wear mostly tight pants, or skirts. Corsets with garters are very cam friendly for any body issues.

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    Default Re: Tips & tricks you use to overcome body issues on cam

    you could wear babydolls, chemises, or a sexy dress something to cover your belly. I just lost a lot of weight I can honestly say most guys don't care about belly fat. They mainly care about ass, tits, and face. Even a nice personality can compensate. I had a bunch of guys complain after I lost weight about me having smaller tits or a smaller ass. Obviously they didn't care about the belly fat as long as I had t and a. I don't think you should worry just present your self as confident and you will be just fine.

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    Small chested women like myself: I contour some cleavage.






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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    Small chested women like myself: I contour some cleavage.

    OMG! This is brilliant! I'm not small chested, but I can sure use this for some of my sissy clients. Thank you!

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    Wear thigh highs pulled up to under your butt. Makes it more round looking. Plus hides thigh issues (mine look like a golden girl).

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    after surgery, body make-up and different lighting. total charm. gonna continue even after healing!

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    Ok, I see belly fat is covered. but what about deflated, loose wrinkled belly that resembles a nutsac? I have an underbust corset but guys don't seem to like it much.

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    I cover my stomach up with whatever I am wearing, but what I have come to realize is that if they want a super skinny chick they wouldn't be in my room to begin with. My profile pics show I am clearly not a 2,4, or 6. I think my attention is diverted a bit, because my hair is big now and my boobs always have been. They can just focus on THAT instead. lol.

    Yesterday, a guy who did a looooooong private of just talk he did say I must be ashamed of my stomach (based on what I was wearing). I said I wasn't, n he told me to show it then. I in turn told him to show his. He was cracking up laughing at that. lol & the prvt continued! :-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by SavannahLynnn View Post
    Ok, I see belly fat is covered. but what about deflated, loose wrinkled belly that resembles a nutsac? I have an underbust corset but guys don't seem to like it much.
    lol oh my god, i have that belly too, bb :p Which is why I feel okay that this made me crack up so hard.

    Sometimes when I'm getting ready to go on cam, I remind myself that all of MY insecurities are someone else's fetishes. I seriously repeat that. "Someone loves my saggy belly. Someone thinks these scars are sexy. Someone digs these rolls"

    My wrinkly "I-lost-100-pounds" belly? Stretch marks? Cellulite? Some people like that.

    See which angles make your belly look cutest Strategically place stuff there, like an arm, etc, If I lay on my side, and open my legs, crotch to the cam, i can use one arm to hide my nutsackbelly and the other to go to town.

    Oh, also, if your boobs or kitty are on the screen, I doubt many guys are looking at your belly, UNLESS they're attracted to it.
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    Ah body issues. I didn't have any until I had breast cancer. I loved my body as it was and loved my small natural breasts. Now I have reconstructed breasts (they look like a not too brilliant boob job) and plenty of scars which are slow to fade, but hey, THE CANCER'S GONE AND I'M ALIVE. So that's how I overcome the issues.

    I've had a few crap comments from guys who didn't bother to read my profile. One asked if I was going to sue my surgeon...my reply: "You mean the guy who saved my life? Nah, I'm cool with him" One humbled punter in my room!

    The strange thing is some guys say "OMG you have perfect tits" so I guess we all like different things. If they don't like me, there are plenty who do...and I'm still here :o)
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissQuirk View Post
    Sometimes when I'm getting ready to go on cam, I remind myself that all of MY insecurities are someone else's fetishes. I seriously repeat that. "Someone loves my saggy belly. Someone thinks these scars are sexy. Someone digs these rolls"
    Word. I had a decent body image before I started camming, but my opinion of my poochy belly has gone from "eh, small price to pay for boobs and hips like these" to actually believing that people find it sexy. Because they do. In droves.
    (...though some things I still hide, i.e. zits and undereye circles. Even though I know for a FACT that some people like the undereye circles, most people don't, including me, so yay for concealer.).

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    Personally, I don't believe in body issues when camming/being in the industry. Your body IS your job and an attitude of confidence is what is needed to survive. These men are PAYING to see ALL of you, so where is there any room for insecurities? I have a face, tits, belly, thighs, a vagina, an ass, feet, and a personality. Every single one of the things (and more) I (and you) have are attached to a fetish and can be made to bank on.

    With the right lighting and make up, you can cover up any body issues you might have. Stop worrying about what others think about you on and off cam. Here are a few things you can add to help your confidence soar on cam.

    Face- Immaculate make up does wonders! Buy some cover up for scars and pimples, then cover it with foundation before adding eyebrows and eye popping eye make up. Do a red, pink, or nude lip for starters. Or, do whatever the fug you want. Just make sure it's MODEL perfect. You may not look like a model in real life, but anyone can fake it on cam with the right make up. And yes, you can look great with drug store brands. If you're face is too pale compared to your skin tone, go a shade darker or throw on a bronzer to match your skin. Lighting will make it match if you set it up right.

    Belly- Spanx and other brands offer undergarment items to cinch your wasitline. Personally, guys loveeee my belly and pay to see it and tip as well. But if you must cover it up, wearing a nude waist cincher under clothing works. Pull your tits out, and show ass/pussy. If a guy wants to see you fully nude, you have the nude colored undergarment to cover your belly. If he persists, tell him you recently had surgery or you're "waist training".

    Ass- Cellulite? That's a fetish and guys looveee a juicy round dempley bubble. I charge a $6 tip just to stand and show my butt in shorts. Butt Pimples, moles, scars can covered with cover up make up. Problem solved!

    Feet- Cut your toe nails and paint them or get a pedicure. If I can get tipped $5 and shows for my skinny, long flat feet (bunions included) so can you!

    Lighting- This is essential! The right lighting can make you look like a million bucks.

    Confidence- They cannot be fooled if you don't have this. You need to act like you're the most beautiful cammgirl on your site! I'm a fat black bitch but you'll see me on page one every time I log in. Take no prisoners! Leave your insecurities at the door. Your finances depend on you. You have NO TIME for bullshit, including your insecurities. Adapt a cam girl persona if you have to. Good luck!




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    The more guys pay me despite my flaws, the less self-conscious I am about them. No one is forcing them to buy shows, so obviously they are enjoying my body enough to pay per min.

    That said, it gives me my own peace of mind to work on what I consider problems. For example, if I have a scar that is bothering me, I will try to fade it with creams or cover it with some makeup. I'm not as confident working when I'm chubbier, so I fixed my diet and am losing a few lbs.

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    Paychecks that I take to the bank.

    If your face is paler could be the foundation & powder you are using. Many do give girls ghost face due to light reflecting formulas to make you look younger.
    Try Mac or photo friendly make up. http://www.revlon.com/Revlon-Home/Co...id_28563743496

    Confidence sells, fake it till you make it. I have to many regulars that love my tummy to resent it. The French believe it is our flaws that make us beautiful & unique.

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    I have a small belly, scars, and paleness. I don't find these as flaws and neither should you! I like to think about all of the roman/victorian painting of women. Name:  rubens001.jpg
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    Yes there are some guys that won't look at a girl unless they can count every single one of her ribs and back vertibre (no offense to those skinny girls), but most guys just want to see a confident girl who looks healthy and knows how to have fun!

    If you are pale, play it up! Vampire role play, or brag about how you take care of yourself to avoid wrinkles or skin cancer!

    If you have a scar and someone is curious about it, tell them you will tell them about it in private, or make it part of your tough girl persona!

    If you have a belly, make it beautiful! I find that laying on your side, head propped up on one hand, and your top leg over your bottom leg, towards the camera, really makes natural curves look fluid and elegant. Where sitting up, scrunched over with bad posture, will make it look horrible!

    In any situation, be confident in who you are! Being unique is what makes guys switch rooms and spend on different girls. If everyone was exactly the same, the guys would just pick the most popular room and stick to it, or wouldn't come on the site at all.

    A flaw is a sign of your own unique perfection!

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    Quote Originally Posted by theharlot View Post
    my breasts have been sagging lately since I lost 11lbs so I use my webcam at an upward angle. it's also flattering for my face, win-win haha
    Yes! putting your cam at different angles is the best I think. I have it to the side, up, down all over. When I show my boobs, and they are big ,and hang, I tip the cam under them more. There will always be guys who want us nude. Nothing on at all, period. That is when many of us will have issues, no matter what, women worry about their bodies, society taught us to be this way from a little girl. There are always going to be a rude asses in the room pointing out what makes us feel insecure about our bodies. It's not as easy to get over as many may think. I have huge feet, hate to show them. I always pray no one asks, but they tip and ask. So I show them, bare. It's tough they are naked. There is no polish or fake skin (makeup does not work for messed up toes) to cover them. My tits, oh I always get asked if they are fake, they look fake, so that is when I angle the camera.
    As easy as some make it sound, it's not. You can not walk around with 100% confidence 24/7. And when we are on cam it's the worst!!!! These guys judge, and can make others leave your room... That's the reality.
    So, I have learned that I am who I am, you don't like it want to make fun of my body, exit my door, the next room may have perfection, but I HIGHLY doubt it.
    Ignore and work with what you like or love about your body! I will be damned if I am freely going to put my butt ass ugly feet out there just because I feel confident, (I don't) I can clean out my room doing that. LOL.
    This is all meant with all due respect to those who say sell them with confidence, you can't when you have some body issues. We all have them. Don't show what they don't ask for. As for tummies, that is a bog one. I see performers all the time having names tossed at them because they don't have abs of steel. Screw those guys, cover it, feel better about you.

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