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    Hello I go into the strip clubs with a few hundred dollars, and I hate wasting it tipping girls that don't fit my interests appearance wise.. However only these girls approach me, I sit there for some time and see some I like but its hard to get their attention because their either talking at the bar or somewhere I can't find them.

    Therefore not to be rude I am left tipping girls that I am not fond of, and when I finally able to find one I like my bankroll becomes limited for a good time.

    I guess my question is why don't the pretty girls come by, and I understand their preoccupied but must I tip the bad looking ones and ask them to bring the pretty ones along ?

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    tell the host what you're looking for looks-wise and then tip him a fiver to have him bring you someone who looks like she might be a good fit.

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    The girls can see if you are being stingy with your cash and the higher earners are less likely to bother with a customer who seems hesitant to tip the other girls. But, if you can't get the attention of the girl you want, you can approach her. If she's just hanging by the bar, I'm sure she'll be happy you came up and asked for a dance. And she'll probably remember you next time, if you treat and tip her well, so on your next visit she'll probably come to you. You can also go up to the stages of the girls you like, leave a $20 tip and ask her to stop by your table when she's done. Don't ask the girls you are not interested in to chase down the girl you want. They may not appreciate that. That's not really part of our job description. If you were a dancer trying to sell a dance to a customer, would you really want them to send you on a errand to track down a dancer that you clearly think is hotter than they are? You can ask the bouncer or the bartender for help, if you really can't find the girl you want. But remember to tip them, too. If you act like a good customer, you will get good service, generally.

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    I agree with telling a host or bouncer who you want or the look you like and make sure to tip him for helping you out. Also, how are you dressed? Dancers judge guys by how they look. If you look cheap, the better looking girls are going to stay away or go where they think they will make the most money. Don't be afraid to approach a dancer you like but don't waste their time.

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    ^^I think OP is female... That might be partly why not a lot of dancers are approaching her. Some girls just don't like dancing for girls. I don't. A lot of girls think the rules don't apply to them and will be way more grabby than their make counterparts. I've also noticed that female customers are often very critical of the dancers looks and performances. It sounds like OP may have some high standards. If the girls can tell that she's hard to impress, they might be more likely to hustle the men in the room. Guys are much easier to please.

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    You don't have to tip anyone you don.t want to tip, particularly if you do the smart thing and let her know right away that dances are not in the offing. Let the girl or girls you are interested in see you looking at them or walk by and make eye contact with her. Most dancers are lioking for such signs from customers as they decide who to approach.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sman1109 View Post
    I guess my question is why don't the pretty girls come by, and I understand their preoccupied but must I tip the bad looking ones and ask them to bring the pretty ones along ?
    ^It is SC etiquette to tip the girls on stage, so if you don't wish to tip them then don't sit at the tip rail (that way you won't be enjoying or watching their set, so you won't feel obligated to tip).

    If a girl comes by who you are not interested in be polite and honest-let them know that you are waiting for someone or looking for a/an *insert your type here* (depending on the girl, she may even find someone for you).

    If you see a dancer you are interested in, then just approach her and ask her for a dance. I know it's not your job to do so, but if the girl you fancy is new, busy or just plain lazy then she may never come by and proposition you. Alternatively, tip her while she is on stage and let her know you would like to go for a private dance when she has finished her set .
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    Quote Originally Posted by OliveJardin View Post
    If a girl comes by who you are not interested in be polite and honest-let them know that you are waiting for someone or looking for a/an *insert your type here* (depending on the girl, she may even find someone for you).
    Its good that you mention that, I did and she still sat there so I had to be polite and tip her for awhile until I finally asked her to get a girl that I had my eye on. I don't like going up to the bar but that is where they are, so I'll have to be courageous thanks for the tips.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasmine.Doll View Post
    ^^I think OP is female... That might be partly why not a lot of dancers are approaching her. Some girls just don't like dancing for girls. I don't. A lot of girls think the rules don't apply to them and will be way more grabby than their make counterparts. I've also noticed that female customers are often very critical of the dancers looks and performances. It sounds like OP may have some high standards. If the girls can tell that she's hard to impress, they might be more likely to hustle the men in the room. Guys are much easier to please.
    Some clubs wont even allow an unescorted female in the club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by slowpoke View Post
    Some clubs wont even allow an unescorted female in the club.
    Yup, pretty much in my area, this applies!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sman1109 View Post
    Hello I go into the strip clubs with a few hundred dollars, and I hate wasting it tipping girls that don't fit my interests appearance wise.. However only these girls approach me, I sit there for some time and see some I like but its hard to get their attention because their either talking at the bar or somewhere I can't find them.

    Therefore not to be rude I am left tipping girls that I am not fond of, and when I finally able to find one I like my bankroll becomes limited for a good time.

    I guess my question is why don't the pretty girls come by, and I understand their preoccupied but must I tip the bad looking ones and ask them to bring the pretty ones along ?
    Okay.

    Let's break it down...

    YOU need to approach the girls that you are interested in. If only the 'not so-hot' girls are brave enough to interact with you... it could be the vibe you are giving off.

    Cash in hand "interruptions" never bothered me. Just go up to the gal you are fond of and politely ask for a dance. Don't wait. Be pro-active. Strippers appreciate this... a lot. Unless we are attempting to land a whale, we will take you up on your offer. Even our regulars understand that money is our first priority. We are at work, after all. Sure we will chat with whomever at the bar to kill time but if a person says "I'd like to do a dance/room/VIP/etc."... we will happily oblige.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    Okay.

    Let's break it down...

    YOU need to approach the girls that you are interested in. If only the 'not so-hot' girls are brave enough to interact with you... it could be the vibe you are giving off.

    Cash in hand "interruptions" never bothered me. Just go up to the gal you are fond of and politely ask for a dance. Don't wait. Be pro-active. Strippers appreciate this... a lot. Unless we are attempting to land a whale, we will take you up on your offer. Even our regulars understand that money is our first priority. We are at work, after all. Sure we will chat with whomever at the bar to kill time but if a person says "I'd like to do a dance/room/VIP/etc."... we will happily oblige.

    Go get 'em, tiger!
    Thanks, I guess I'm nervous approaching one I'm interested in but I'll have to in order to solve this.

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    Yeah, if you're a female most strippers will avoid you like the plague. I've had too many bad experiences with "civilian" vagina ITC. The 00001% of female customers that I do know and like have had to approach me first.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sman1109 View Post
    [Originally Posted by OliveJardin
    If a girl comes by who you are not interested in be polite and honest-let them know that you are waiting for someone or looking for a/an *insert your type here*.]

    [sman replied:] Its good that you mention that, I did and she still sat there so I had to be polite and tip her.
    --Sman, I'd say she clipped you. Once you said you weren't into her you're totally off the hook. She was invading your privacy & making it harder for you to connect w/ the ones you like. You *don't* have to tip her for that! You don't have to be polite, because she's being rude. You can just say, "Go away, I want someone else." My polite version is "It's been great talkin' to ya -- I'm gonna circulate a bit." (Then I get up & go somewhere, anywhere, else.)

    Whether to tip for hustle is a murky area. I work in a grocery store, & when sales slow we give out free samples. Customers are more likely to buy a new bean dip or whatever if they know it tastes good, so we put someone on the floor w/ some bean dip & a bowl of tortilla chips handing out free samples. It helps. Not everyone who gets a sample buys a can of bean dip, but some do, & we wind up selling more. We write the cost of the samples off as a marketing expense & (usually!) come out ahead.

    Dancers sell contact (in its broadest sense incl. conversation & exhibitionism), so they have to give out free samples of contact. Honestly, when I walk into a bar w/ 6 microbrews I don't know, I *do* sample 1, 2, or 3 of them before buying a glass. It's my money, & I don't want to shell it out until I'm confident I'm gonna get something I like. Girls who don't understand this can get frustrated w/ me. @ the same time, I know they don't work for free, & when a girl has hung out & been sweet w/ me, I tell her I want to stay in touch & ask her when she's going onstage. She just has to decide how much to invest in hustling me before she moves on. And I do belly up to her stage & add some green to her outfit. Sometimes I've tracked down girls who were really sweet to me two hours earlier & said, "hey, let's do a dance." In short, IMO you *never* have to tip a girl to be polite (unless you're @ the tiprail!), but if you don't tip especially sweet girls, what's up w/ that? I throw an extra $10 on their next stage set instead of giving it to them on the floor. They make the connection.

    As many have suggested, you can just walk up to the ones you like & ask, but if you're shy (happens 2 me 2) wait 'til she goes onstage. Almost every available girl will go onstage sooner or later. You can't miss, unless she's totally whacko. Throw money @ her, ogle her, & tell her you really like her. @ the end of her set she will collect all the $$$ & prolly thank the tippers. When she comes by you she may ask if you'd like a dance or a chat, or you can ask her. For added effect, give her another $5 or $20 when you ask.

    If that doesn't do it, then you're in the Twilight Zone.

    Which happens.

    Girls who hang out after you've told them you want some else are interfering w/ other girls' business.

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