Needless to say, I have had my share of crap luck in the dating department. But, I have noticed a bit of a trend since I became a dancer and began dating. I have always made it a rule never to go on a date with a guy I met in the club, unless it was for business purposes. This includes club staff, because I don't want a bunch of drama to pop off due to being involved with a coworker. Now, the few guys I have attempted to date since starting my dance career have all either had issues with me dancing or figured I would be a total sex maniac and I would have no problem bringing home my coworkers for "us". Yeah, RIGHT! None of these romances ever panned out. The only relationship I had that was close to normalcy was with my last club's nerdy DJ. He wasn't cocky like the rest of the DJs, and he hadn't even slept with anyone from work. We had known each other six months, and he knew that I was strictly dancing and not selling "extras", just as I knew he was completely uninterested in the other dancers who relentlessly threw themselves at him, so we had a very healthy level of trust. We kept our relationship a secret, and completely separate from our jobs. The problems only began when I went to work for another club and he was fired from his. The relationship fell apart. I've been single for months now, and only went on one date (with a pretty well-known actor) since. And of course, the charming actor pulled a nail & bail on me. Which I had pretty much prepared myself for before we ever even went out. Ah, the joys of love... I just feel like there is no one out there for me. I do love myself, and I do value myself. That's why I won't just settle for anyone. But I'm tired of being lonely. I want to meet a decent guy, even if it just stays a friendship... People tell me to be positive, to change my hangouts, but no matter what, I remain a walking sh*t-magnet. The only men with any interest in me are two EX-boyfriends, and a few random crude customers. I want nothing to do with any of that. I guess I was just wondering if anyone out there has gone through similar difficulties trying do date while working in the Adult Industry? What did you do? How did it end?



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