I'm a complete noob. My husband and I went to out first club a couple a weeks ago, and it was a great experience for us. We sat alone enjoying the show for awhile and eventually a sweetheart of a girl came up and sat with us. Taught me some of the 'rules' they club had for women, what to expect, etc. She was so respectful of my nervousness and made me feel really at ease. She sat there for quite awhile and we bought her a 'ladies drink', and then finally went to the VIP room with her.
I've been reading a lot on etiquette, etc.. trying to figure what's expected, how to act, etc. But there's one thing I'm having trouble getting a handle on.. We had spent an hour or so just 'watching' and enjoying the dancers before our gal approached us. And that was actually pretty perfect for us. I needed some time to have a couple of drinks and get adjusted to the situation. Loosen up and enjoy, etc.
I feel like the dancers we just watched shoulda been tipped too. Is there any generic tip jar somewhere? I'm not ready to walk up to the stage yet, and don't particularly want my husband popping up there every song either. Is there any other way to show your appreciation and tip without doing the walk up to the stage? I already feel conspicuous enough just being there.![]()


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