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    Default Seriously considering going back to dancing, but I am married now :/

    Ok so here is the things ladies; Me and my husband have been togethrr for over 8 years now... When I met him I was waitressing at a strip club, I told him I use to be a stripper, he was cool aboit it lovedme didn't judge etc. I danced again during our relationship a few times but I know he wasn't feeling it to tough... Right now I am a webcam girl, mostly non nude but do ok I guess, 2k a month considering I am not taking my clothes off. My dude works his ass off and makes decent money but Cali life is expensive even with 4+ g's coming in . I go to school as well and I am almost done with my bachelors and would like to go fpr my Masters or lae school but can't afford that shit on what we are pulling now... i miss having better money but don't want to ruin my marriage (fyi we just got married, big ol wedding and honey moon in June) so we are fresh in this stage... Any suggestions? What would you do? I have been out of the game for like 4+ years now so it would be a change. Still pretty young 27, good body etc. (just extra info)

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    Default Re: Seriously considering going back to dancing, but I am married now :/

    Have you talked to your husband about it? I think that would be a good way to start...explain that the money would go toward your masters degree and see his reaction.

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    Default Re: Seriously considering going back to dancing, but I am married now :/

    I'm in a serious relationship (getting married next year and we just bought a house together) and when we met I was dancing. This always seems to make is easier since it's a 'take me as you find me' situation. It was difficult for awhile, but we sat down several times and have had straight conversations about what's going on in the club and what the bounderies are. Your man will have to work out his issues with himself- but it can be done! Now my bfs main complaint is that we don't get to sleep together enough because we're on different sleeping schedules. With trust and communication is can be done.

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    Default Re: Seriously considering going back to dancing, but I am married now :/

    I'm also 28 and figure I'll quit around 33 or so. Knowing that a circumstance is temporary also make things easier to manage. You guys could agree to a trial period- say a week or 2 and check in with each other to make sure you're both alright. Or you could return to waitressing- that money ain't bad either!

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    Default Re: Seriously considering going back to dancing, but I am married now :/

    I am married and I completely agree with what janesays22 said. I started dancing after my husband I started dating and no, neither he nor I are crazy about the fact that I'm dancing but we both know that I couldn't make this much money at any other job and still get to spend a lot of time together. I am in school working on my master's degree so the fact that this is a "means to an end" helps as well as the fact that we both trust each other 100%. He knows that when I say I am going to work, I am at work being a saleswoman and not giving dirty dances or meeting customers outside the club, and when I go home, I am all his.

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