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    As in, is there a particular customer you won't dance for, or do you ever turn down a dance from a customer based on what he behaves like in dances or anything?

    I do on occasion.There's one guy who smells really bad of piss, and ALWAYS goes to the toilet before a dance and returns with a wet crotch.Like, he'll literally say 'I'm just nipping to the loo then we'll have a dance, yeh?'. I didn't get it at first but I'm sure It's a fetish or something he has and when I danced for him before, I could smell it on me afterwards-well I'm sure it wasn't actually ON me, I didn't touch him at all, but I have a very sensitive nose and will not tolerate bad smells-they get stuck up my nose for ages after they've gone!

    I turned down a dance last week as well much to the amusement of some other customers. I'd gone beyond my goal for the night and wasn't in the mood for pisstakers.The guy just really creeped me out.Kept asking me what I'd let him do and saying 'I'll be your regular always if you let me do XYZ'. Grr.I kinda laughed it off and left him, avoided him after the first time but he literally followed me to the bar to ask,then was waiting when I came out of the toilet. He said to me 'So, when are we going for a dance then?' I said very loudly 'We're NOT'! And two guys at the bar killed themselves laughing...

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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    I have turned down dances based on customer behaviour. The guy who thinks he's being cute by tipping me onstage while asking for a dance after I get done, then goosing me -- the only contact his crotch would have w/ my person is via my 5"-heel.

    I def went w/ my gut, if I got a creey vibe from sm1, y'know the kind that makes your stomach start to churn. Also anyone who tried to touch me, no matter how innocently, w/o even a polite 'hi how are you!'

    Turned down a guy who went on&on abt his admiration for Hitler, even after I told him in no uncertain words why I found that topic un-stomach-able.

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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    I've turned down dances as well.. Its not worth the disgust.. Plus body to body contact with someone with body fluid on them could put you at risk to catch a disease of some sort. It's definitely not worth it.

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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    omg that's disgusting!! i've had guy's bladder's fail on me during a dance, so that i really didn't want to say anything since they already paid and they were so nice and so embarassed i just continued ..with less contact of course! 9 times out of ten they've noticed and ended it. there is one guy i absolutely will not dance for..he's the kind of guy who comes in every friday and who is "best friends with the owners" and feels he has so much leverage he can do whatever he wants. he made me almost cry when i was a newbie and gave him a dance for the first time

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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    I don't generally turn money away. Have not danced in over 2 yrs, but I can tell you from my experience. HOWEVER there have been times where I have seen customers from a distance/walking by and said to myself "I don't think I'll be approaching that table" and this is usually based on 1. Customer being grabby/rude with dancer they are with (normally reeking of alcohol too) 2. Known locals who are there seeking prostitution services (I do not like extras in the club as it is stealing business from other dancers and it is not safe for anyone involved).



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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    Hell yeah I turn down dances. I also charge asshole taxes, body odor taxes, handsy taxes, etc.

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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    I usually won't turn down the first dance with someone, but if after the first dance i decide on reasons why they're not worth two songs for $40, I will either a) not upsell, b) turn down request for more, or c) raise the price to make my tolerance/time worth it... depending on the customer.

    Piss-guy sounds REALLY GROSS though!!!! I got goosebumps thinking about his crotch... YUUCCKK
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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    Ive come across a few weirdos over the years who I wont dance for. Guys that are into spanking or putting their hands around my neck as if they're choking me are definitely not going to be getting dances from me. Also if guys want me to choke, or abuse them any way are out. If I tell a guy to stop touching my face, hair, boobs or pussy and he gives me any problems, I will never dance for him again.

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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    I went into this ready to say "never"... but, yeah, if a guy reeked or had piss or whatever on him, then I absolutely would refuse. I haven't had that pleasure yet, and I have been dancing off and on for the better part of 20 years. So, I guess I've been more fortunate than I knew. "Never" isn't the perfect word, then, but neither is "hardly ever"... there should be a word or phrase to describe the in-between.
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    If I don't feel safe or the money isn't worth enduring their bad breath, BO, or wandering hands then I will politely decline (usually after I've already danced for them once lol). If the customer is pushing for extras or asking me to do drugs with them then I'm out of there-I don't do either, so they would be disappointed, and I don't give refunds . It's just not worth the inevitable confrontation.
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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    Depends on how busy it is...
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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    YES! When I get a bad vibe about a guy!

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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    Yes, when they stink or I think i can make more money else where.

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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    Quote Originally Posted by yinyang View Post
    I usually won't turn down the first dance with someone, but if after the first dance i decide on reasons why they're not worth two songs for $40, I will either a) not upsell, b) turn down request for more, or c) raise the price to make my tolerance/time worth it... depending on the customer.

    Piss-guy sounds REALLY GROSS though!!!! I got goosebumps thinking about his crotch... YUUCCKK
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    omg that's disgusting!! i've had guy's bladder's fail on me during a dance, so that i really didn't want to say anything since they already paid and they were so nice and so embarassed i just continued ..with less contact of course! 9 times out of ten they've noticed and ended it. there is one guy i absolutely will not dance for..he's the kind of guy who comes in every friday and who is "best friends with the owners" and feels he has so much leverage he can do whatever he wants. he made me almost cry when i was a newbie and gave him a dance for the first time
    That's horrible I hate dickheads like that.There's a group who came in to my last club every weekend, hardly ever bought dances (£20 ones if they did)! And one in particular was a right asshole. I never approached any for dances, figuring my time was spent better elsewhere, and one time he did express interest in getting a dance from me and I politely told him in front of all his friends that I wouldn't dance for him if he paid my wages for the next year.
    There's a persistent, annoying, obsessive ex-regular I rarely dance for too, It's just not worth it-I spend the entire dance listening to him waffle on about how great we'd be together-it wouldn't be so bad, but I know he has a girlfriend and I also know he does this with 3 of my friends, too so I just find it oppressive. IF It's quiet I sometimes put up with it though!
    Of piss-guy,I remember sitting with him for a bit once and him telling me how he was so much smarter than any woman. He's high on something all the time-I'm not sure what,but I switched the conversation to work and jobs and studies and he kept getting confused over the terminology I used and I said 'sorry I didn't realise you wouldn't understand, let me put it simpler for you....' I couldn't help myself. For this reason I think he does the piss thing because he gets off on seeing women dance for him whilst he stinks and risking getting his piss on them, I think It's a degradation fetish he has. Eew.

    No matter how experienced I get I still have 'grrrr' moments when I hustle a guy for £20 then see another guy I could have chosen to speak to,take another girl for VIP. You can make mistakes on who you approach so I am careful with dances if I think better things are lurking elsewhere!
    I HATE dancing for anybody who stinks.I don't give a toss if the guy weighs 40 stone, is ugly, is 90 years old...If they smell though UGH stay away from me!
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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    One of the top 5 reasons I dance is the ability to choose who I entertain. Can't turn customers away in a normal job, nonetheless at an "entry-level" position. It's rare, but if I don't dance for someone it's because they're being downright nasty or smell like it. It's not worth it to smell like shit and fuck up your money with other people.

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    I have turned down dances before mainly because guys being rude, and 1 too touchy guy too.
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    Default Re: Do you turn down dances?

    Yes I turned down at least 3 from guys who wanted hella dances but wanted to be cheap. I can't dance for cheap men or nasty men or rude men.

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    Absolutely - anyone who gives me that creeped-out feeling, I just won't dance for. Can't always explain it, but once I get that feeling, I just won't dance for someone.

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