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    started dating this guy, who wants her to give all her money from dancing to him. i said its redic and that hes pimping her. she said no he has a job too he cant be a pimp. yet he told her they arent exclusive ext. it makes me so sad for her, because she is such a hard worker! do you know alot of girls who fall for this?

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    I've nvr def known anyone who fell for one, but there was a girl at one club I worked who was proud to announce one of her best family friends was a pimp. I couldn't believe my ears honestly when she was on abt how successful he was at taking advantage of girls, how much they deserved it for fking w/ 'real dancers' $$ & how he couldn't be THAT bad of a guy since he didn't beat them, just slapped them around once in a while if they got uppity. IMO ppl like that who actually make excuses for/endorse pimps are just as bas as the pimps themselves.

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    The sad truth is that a lot of girls still fall for pimps. I think some clubs are more conducive to that type of girl than others, but young, naive girls who don't know any better can easily be lured by a pimp with his promises of always being taken care of.

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    I have a lot of mutual friends on my vanilla facebook page that are "HOES". They brag about being the bottom bitch and paying their daddy. But some of them have been hoeing for their pimps for a long time. There is a facebook group with over 100 female members that talk about their daily tasks as a lady of leisure....


    But I think a girl who feels she's out of options or has a fetish for paying a man will fall for a pimp.

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    wow anyone who lives this type of lifestyle is disgusting! Why lower yourself to that kind of abuse & stupidity?! I have zero respect for pimps & these poor dumb girls that waste their life as a "HOE"
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    yup i grew up with a girl who moved to houston a few years back, started dancing, and fell for a pimp..a nasty one who supposedly beat them if they didn't make over 800 a night and who had 3 or 4 of them living with him but of course he got them all nice cars and a nice apartment so it was alll worth it! *sarcasm*. i assumed she was telling the truth, because who would brag about willingly letting somebody do that?? i sure wouldnt.

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    No intelligent, independent woman falls for that kind of scam.

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    Wait, i've never heard of this before. What does the pimp do? I mean, I see what he gets out of it...but what does he promise the girls that lures them into this?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stormi Weather View Post
    Wait, i've never heard of this before. What does the pimp do? I mean, I see what he gets out of it...but what does he promise the girls that lures them into this?

    A better life, material things, a home, security, more work, etc. (but with the money SHE gives him -_-) Its crazy because a woman can do that on her own

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    Quote Originally Posted by caramelDip View Post
    I have a lot of mutual friends on my vanilla facebook page that are "HOES". They brag about being the bottom bitch and paying their daddy. But some of them have been hoeing for their pimps for a long time. There is a facebook group with over 100 female members that talk about their daily tasks as a lady of leisure....


    But I think a girl who feels she's out of options or has a fetish for paying a man will fall for a pimp.
    OMG, please post the link !!

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    Its a private group, it wont even show up in the search results. Someone really close to me was in that lifestyle and i had access to her facebook page & the groups she joined. The group is called "Mean Girls and Big Faces" ....i wish she still had her page, those stories were interesting.

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    this happens all the time! it's just a sad fact!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stormi Weather View Post
    Wait, i've never heard of this before. What does the pimp do? I mean, I see what he gets out of it...but what does he promise the girls that lures them into this?
    A better life, or they make the girl fall in love with them

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    Ive seen it happen multiple times, and Ive been approached by pimps myself in the club. (I totally blew them off, of course) The ones who do fall for their schemes are usually the naive, young new dancers.
    Strangely enough, I've seen girls who claim they are, "in love" with their pimps. From what Ive observed, the pimps are master manipulators and controllers. Absolutely sad, scary and ridiculous that girls fall for this bullshit.

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    One of my closest friends is with a guy that shouts at her if she doesn't do well at work and takes all her £ off her, has taken out loans in her name etc
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    Girls fall for it, unfortunately. A couple months ago I overheard a girl at my club describing her 'situation,' which sounded like she was being pimped (ie the person/people she was staying with would take all her money and if she tried to keep any they'd kick her out).

    I have a friend who dances down south. She moved to Alabama and started stripping. She met some guy around the same time she started stripping. She got very serious about stripping and told me she had a 'boyfriend.' After about a year of her stripping and living in AL with this man she told me she was coming back to MI to visit and her and her 'boyfriend' would be staying at my apartment. So when they got there we all went out to eat and she had me come into the bathroom with her then once we got to the bathroom she accused me of texting him back and forth while we were at the dinner table. I'm like wtf, I just met the guy and don't even have his number, you can check my phone if you don't believe me... then she went on to explain how the reason she's worried is b/c he's fucked all her friends back in AL and is a "dog" as she called him. She admitted he only let her call him her boyfriend for this trip and that really she's just his "main bitch" as she called it (since they're living/sleeping together). Anyway they arrived with all Louis Vuitton and Gucci luggage etc. They were supposed to stay 2 weeks but only stayed a couple days because after she refused to work in the Detroit clubs, he got mad and said "we came here to make money!" then they left. But in the short time she was there she explained to me that he keeps all the money she makes and buys her whatever she wants in return. But I didn't see him buy anything she asked him for while they were there. Anyway, she was living with him and working like 5x a week and handing all her cash over to him. I think he had several strippers giving him money because he had a lot of money. Crazy.
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    ^ that really sad.
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    "Out of pocket" means you're doing something you're not supposed to do. Or being shady. Like if a girl has a pimp and she converses with another pimp, then she's "out of pocket"......

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    all of this is really sad

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    When I was 19 and brand new a pimp and a winglady tried to hustle me in my club. It was dead and I was genuinely curious about how they did it so I stuck around for a while. I have no idea how successful they were but it sounded like they had run their pitch many times before, and their pitch was CRAZY.

    First they said they were recruiting models for a fashion show but couldn't tell me much about whose line it was. They just said I had the job, would be paid $500 to model clothes for an hour, but had to audition in the designer's hotel room first as a formality. Then they asked if I would be okay having dinner with him as well because he was looking for a sugar baby. I would also get paid $500 for that, but the catch was that he was old and gross. Then they asked if I loved living "the good life." If I hung out with them, not only would they hook me up with tons of guys like this, they'd be my personal money managers! They said I obviously knew how to handle myself in interpersonal relationships because I was mature beyond my years, but let's face it, as a 19 year old I could use some help from my elders with financial planning. They would make sure to invest my money wisely, which is of course a very long term process and I would have to be patient and wait years to reap the rewards. Meanwhile, they would take out just enough here and there to help me pick cars and clothes I'd like with it. I would also live in their mansion with a group of elite girls like myself. All I had to do was eat dinners with ugly old men and they would take care of me in the present and future!

    The thing that was the creepiest to me was the grooming process. Throughout their entire pitch, they repeated how business savvy and uniquely capable I was. Obviously the women who fall for this are the opposite of business savvy, and here the pimps are building up that part of their ego. I can see how the combination of flattery, promises of "financial planning," and the omission of prostitution might trick a very naive and vulnerable woman. I wonder if they even tell these women that they're going to have to fuck the "designer" in his hotel room after they sign up for all of this or if they just get raped.
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    I don't understand how a girl can fall prey to pimps in a strip club? Was she not getting paid enough to support herself?

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    ^^Well, their main pitch was that since I was already doing great, I would get RICH if I supplemented my income with their "dinner" dates and allowed them to "invest" my money.

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    The only pimp I have is the bank. And my cat. But all he asks for is cat food in exchange for hugs and purrs =^..^=
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    You all are so right this shit is absolutely heartbreaking. I never knew pimps exsisted until I started dancing in 2007. I would sometimes hear "you are so pretty do you have a manager?" and it took me a while to figure out what all the nonsense was about. Some of the men were as young as me then (24) and I'm like "your black ass better get a damn job, shit I'm here doing mine you better go get you one too!" My manager is my damn son spoiled brat. But the thing is I just can't see it. I've worked with lots of girls many who had pimps and I didn't even know it, most I would think would be too smart but poor girls were drawn in for whatever reason.

    I want to be a booger on the way because I want to see in the day of a life of a "bottom bitch". How do you get up at the ass crack of dawn (knowing you just went to sleep from the night before) see this and that john then get ready for your shift at the club 3pm then stay for night shift, then when you do get home have to hand over all your earnings? IN MY COLOR PURPLE VOICE "I'LL KILL 'EM DEAD BEFORE HE BEAT ME!" How they put up with that bafoonery is anyones guess.

    I watched a movie years ago called American Pimp pieces and parts may still be on youtube.com. It was entertaining to say the very least. The one pimp said people are curious about what the hoes cut is. He said laughing too "nothin' I can't bail you out of jail without the full amount" or something dumb as fuck to that affect. Do they not get if the girls don't work they (pimps) don't eat? The power they have over some ladies is crazy. I even see pimps posting on Backpage from time to time.

    I won't ever fall into that trap. I never want any of us or our loved ones to either.

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