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    Default My psycho analyzing strikes again!!! Help ladies!

    ok so here goes:
    I'm down south working at a dive bar that's been decent to me as far as money goes but I'm in my hometown & I hate it here! I keep having anxiety that I'm gonna get stuck here again lol . I've been saving my money everynight but my original plan was to just stay here a short while & travel around for awhile & not settle anywhere for too long. I keep wanting to go visit NYC & maybe work but I've heard of how hard it is to get hired up there right now during the holiday season but I still have a drive to go anyway. If I can't work I at least want to see the scenery & enjoy the nightlife up there for a few days. I have a cheap place to stay when I do go also. I keep going back & forth from wanting to just take a bus up there or my car (the car will give me more freedom as in being able to work in surrounding states if I can't get hired in NY) but with the bus It'll be alot cheaper as in I won't have to pay tolls, etc. I don't want to waste any of the money I've managed to save lately. It's my heart's greatest desire to be on the road again & travel by myself & enjoy places I've never seen before returning home to California. I'm planning on leaving after Thanksgiving if I can stop over thinking it LOL. Sooo my question is ladies what would you suggest??? I've got a home to come back too down here in the south where I am if everything doesn't work out & continue to work at the dive bar but I just wanna get away from here....... Help :p
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    Default Re: My psycho analyzing strikes again!!! Help ladies!

    If you want to visit NYC anyway and are okay with the possibility of going strictly for tourism if you can't get hired anywhere, just go for it! I vote taking the bus, because in addition to tolls, you'll also have to pay for gas and parking. The freedom of the car is nice, but you can always catch other transportation (bus, train) to surrounding states, so it's not like you're stuck in NYC if you don't bring your car.

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    yea but what if there is no transportation that goes to the smaller areas in Jersey or PA?
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    Also I'd like to add that whilst on the trip I would like to work somewhere up there if not in nYC. I know that there's free street parking at my hostel in Brooklyn... That's IF I worked in the outer burroughs up there, however I'd like to make money while traveling....
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    Quote Originally Posted by xxxGothBarbie View Post
    yea but what if there is no transportation that goes to the smaller areas in Jersey or PA?
    I'm sure that sort of information is available online, so maybe just google 'getting from NYC to x' or 'transportation between NYC and x.' I'd be quite surprised if there wasn't transportation between NYC and smaller areas nearby since so many people commute into that city from all over.

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    anyone else???
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    Default Re: My psycho analyzing strikes again!!! Help ladies!

    It's really hard to make big money in Manhattan if you're not an extras girl. I think the best place to go would be a different medium/large city where the girls aren't willing to do anything and everything to get a leg up on the competition, yet there are still customers with money.

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    I wasn't gonna just try the city , I was thinking of the surrounding ones like Jersey for example. I worked in LA for years so extras I'm not concerned with, I can get around those no prob without doing any. You just gotta know how to talk to people
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    Default Re: My psycho analyzing strikes again!!! Help ladies!

    can u tell me some suggestions for ways to get around the extras people without doing them?? id love a few phrases or some examples u find effective, thank u

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    Quote Originally Posted by trixxi View Post
    can u tell me some suggestions for ways to get around the extras people without doing them?? id love a few phrases or some examples u find effective, thank u
    There have been quite a few posts about this, most notably one from a poster named Laurisa about making money in an extras club. I really recommend running a search or just browsing through Hustle Hut - you'll find a lot more relevant information than by posting this question in an irrelevant thread.

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    I usually just toy with their minds when it comes to that & mostly act like I'm a bad girl but when behind closed curtains I'm a complete prude lol works everytime but only if you work in a club that doesn't reallly have alot of regulars. Any other suggestions for me ladies? Should I just say fuck it & go for a short vacation?
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    ok seriously people, I need some advice!
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    ^Well, I can't offer you much in the way of advice. But if you're going to work in Jersey, you need a car. I lived in New Jersey and have always needed a car. Public transport isn't too good there. If you're going to work in the outer boroughs, usually those clubs have some parking and it's not too hard to get. I drive in the boroughs if I need to, I just avoid driving in Manhattan. So it's not so bad to bring your car. Just don't work too deep into Brooklyn. Williamsburg, and the Brooklyn and Queens border clubs aren't too bad and those areas are okay for your car. But I would not feel safe leaving my car around deeper in Brooklyn, like in the middle or Eastern Brooklyn by the East River.

    Even if you bring your car, the cost of taking the usual bus and train is $2.50. You'll need a metro card to ride them, you'd have to get a metro card from a train station and you can put money in those, like $20 and use it when you need it. When you take a bus, you can use your metro card again for a train and it will be a free transfer and vice versa. Also if you transfer from one bus to another, as long as those buses are a different number from each other that is also a free transfer. Generally when I use a metro card and have to get around to work and back, I use it for a total of two times, so a grand total of $5 for the day. I usually will take a cab back home, but depending on the area I have taken the metro back home.

    I personally like having a car because it gives more autonomy, but I'll take the metro to more crowded areas that I hate driving in like Manhattan. People are going to tell you different things. Just go. At least if you don't work you can see what the city is like. And there are plenty of clubs around here that you could try working in. Just say you've recently moved to the area for the more strict ones, make your money and go.

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    Also I recommend avoiding Manhattan. It's too crazy competitive right now and it's not a good time. I remember you said you have a lot of tattoos and are not super thin right now. That generally doesn't fly in Manhattan. Try some of the outer borough clubs, less stressful and they are okay with tattoos for the most part. And I hate to say it but if you are white, you'll most likely get hired anywhere out there since there are not that many white girls working in a lot of the clubs there with a few exceptions. So go make some new girl money.

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    thanks honey! yea I'm totally wanting to go up there soon. I'm in Tn at the moment & about to drive up to KY to work a few days , if that doesnt work out on to Indiana I go lol, thanks again for the support I'm ready for the big apple! :p
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    Indiana sounds cool, never been.

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    prob just gonna stick with KY bc I'm borrowing my friend's car :p
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