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    Default Please wish me luck, I'm going back tonight

    So after 1.5 years of working a 9-5 job that I hated and that would only work around my school schedule in limited ways, I'm going back to stripping. I enjoy the job, I did it for about 2 years last time around. I'm just nervous as fuck. The other girls seemed pretty aggressive and I was just auditioning! What if they try to fuck with my money? What if my hustle has disappeared? I know it's a bunch of what-if nonsense but it's really psyching me out. Anyway, any words of encouragement would be wonderfully appreciated. :-)

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    Default Re: Please wish me luck, I'm going back tonight

    it will all come back to you, like riding a bike! go in there with the mind-set that you are not going to allow them to fuck with your money, you are gonna be fine..don't psych yourself out. if anything, give yourself the first shift just to get back on your feet and re-leran it all real quick without pressuring yourself too much. if the girls are that bad, any other clubs you could try?

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    ^ yea Fuck those other girls! Focus on you & stay out of the dressing room as much as possible! When I went back recently I did that & you could tell that the girls wanted to run me off but I stood my ground & ignored them. Tell the guys it's your first time ever & you'll land that "fresh meat" money in no time
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    Yeah stay out of the dressing room as much as possible.

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    Default Re: Please wish me luck, I'm going back tonight

    I had my first audition today after 5 yrs of to dancing and it's just like everyone said its like riding a bike, you don't forget! I will see if I can still hustle custys for dances tomorrow that will be my first official shift.

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    Default Re: Please wish me luck, I'm going back tonight

    Best of Luck buddy....

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    Default Re: Please wish me luck, I'm going back tonight

    Don't let nerves or the other girl's attitudes intimidate you-after all, you are there to make money, not friends (so keep to yourself and ignore them). Once your initial butterflies have settled, you will switch back into automatic mode and it will be like you never left the industry. Stay positive and force yourself to approach customers. If you are worried about your hustle then read through hustle hut before you go or while you are getting ready to give you confidence, reassurance and ideas. Good luck and let us know how you go .
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    Default Re: Please wish me luck, I'm going back tonight

    Some clubs are more cutthroat than others, and staying out of the DR and away from the other dancers is the best way to make it a non-issue for yourself. There's also nothing wrong with finding a different club if the atmosphere of this first one isn't for you. Let us know how it went!!

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    Thanks for all your encouragement girls. Last night went ok. It was slow as hell due to an impending ice storm but I'm hoping tonight will be better. I'm wondering if I might do better with a long wig because my hair is a pixie cut right now. Anyone know of any good wig manufacturers? I'm attaching a picture so you can see what I'm talking about.
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    Default Re: Please wish me luck, I'm going back tonight

    I have a pixie cut too, and let me tell you that although guys usually do seem to prefer long hair, wigs are sort of difficult to dance in. You have to wear a wig cap and lots of bobby pins, and both things can create tension on your scalp, causing both headaches and hair loss. But of course it depends on how you wear it. I think you are quite pretty as you are! There are plenty of short-haired girls who do well if they are solid hustlers!

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    Default Re: Please wish me luck, I'm going back tonight

    long hair is always better, trust me!! you may earn money with short hair, but you will earn more with long hair! i hate wigs myself, had to wear one for a year when i was younger and they are a huge PIA. maybe half-wif or extensions if you can pull it off with your hair length

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    Default Re: Please wish me luck, I'm going back tonight

    I just went back after 4 1/2 years and I think my hustle is actually better now. I'm so glad I went back!!

    I was super nervous, too, though. You'll do fine!

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    Default Re: Please wish me luck, I'm going back tonight

    Oh! I just saw your reply. I also have short short hair and it hasn't stopped my money in any way. In fact lots of guys have said "I usually like long hair, but you look great with it!" or "you're the hottest girl with short hair!"

    It's also something that makes me stand out, lol so I'm embracing it

    I've also danced with wigs (used to keep my head shaved) and it's much easier to dance without.

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    Default Re: Please wish me luck, I'm going back tonight

    I have a dancer friend from Texas coming up next week so we're going shopping for hair extension materials. Oh! I also meant to tell you guys that the girls here are not as bad as I first thought. I just ran into some grumpy eggs when I auditioned I guess lol.

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    Default Re: Please wish me luck, I'm going back tonight

    Ummm... I went back, in my LATE 30's FIFTEEN freakin' years later, and I can tell you that what everyone says here is true... it really does all come back, like no time has passed at all. You will be fine!
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