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    Hi ladies!
    Just looking for some constructive criticism here. Currently I am on SM under the curvy category. I am wondering if I should change to BBW. I'm 5'4" and about 185 lbs 38DD. Measurements are 38-33-41. For right now I can only work Mon-Fri from 4am-8:30am EST and I am averaging about 30 bucks a night. I had my rates at 4.99/min, but I just lowered them to 3.49/min to see if that helps. I've tried gold shows and I never make close to the goal (I usually only try for a 30-40 goal also) If you want to check out my pic and see if there is anything I can do to be more appealing, it would be very much appreciated. Thanks
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    you have a verrrrry cute face but put on some make up! and hide your clutter in your room (your goal should be to look like a fantasy). i have never seen you actually on cam and just looked at the pics. you could try changing to bbw, but i don't think categories really matter its more about ur hustle.
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    Yes, I'd say stay in the curvy category. You didn't say how long you've been on SM...but it takes time to build up a customer base so give it time. Don't question yourself so much...just try to keep your mood happy and the rest will come with time It also doesn't hurt to try other sites to see if something else will work better for you...you always have options.

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    I would say too, some makeup will help especially on cam to help against a "glowing skin" and especially since you have quite a pale skin (I do too, I look really washed out without makeup on on cam). Just some foundation/powder on your face to make it seem more matt (there is also makeup especially for underneath the eyes, but dont know the English term, to look more awake and fresh. It looks like a quite thick foundation- I am not implaying here that you dont look fresh and awake, but it can help sometimes at those hard days).
    Dont forget youre lovely cheekbones when you wear makeup because youre natural blush is so lovely, you have to "put it back" if your foundation covers up to much.

    Youre face is really beautifull without makeup, I would not overdo it. Maybe just some mascara to finish it. You can always "doll up" more to spice things up when you have the time, or when you get rid of looking at the same face everyday.

    Those pigtails are so very cute on you btw!



    I agree with hiding the clutter . My room is always a mess since it is so small, but all the mess is outside of the camera-zone

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    You're super cute I think you should add some makeup but keep your look natural, a pink lip, some light blush and a little shimmer to your eyes. Some examples and tutorials
    http://www.pinterest.com/martisp/the...l-look-makeup/
    http://www.maybelline.com/makeup-loo...ural-Look.aspx
    http://www.stylelist.com/view/tips-n...0000000034635/

    You have a great shape for either the curvy or bbw catgory.
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    We have similar shapes (from the back) so you can alternated between curvy and bbw and do well in either category as I do. I started in BBW and have lots of custies there so it's all up to you. I went over to curvt as well and did great but I prefer fetish money so I tend to hibernate in the bbw category. Cute face. Definitely add some more make up but enhance your fresh faced look. Good luck!




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    You are super cute! No reason you shouldn't do well. What kind of cam are you using? Upgrading to a good quality cam help (if you don't already have) also lighting works wonders- something I'm trying to play with too because my lighting is crappy and it has effected my earnings. You could have great makeup but if your lighting isn't right it won't matter lol.

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    What size is considered BBW? I have always wonder that.

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    I guess it depends. BBW is difficult to size because it ranges. I happen to be 5'7" and considered a "smaller" bbw or a plumper. You can be a bigger woman at 4'11" and 6'2" it's really just how "fleshy" a girl is. A girl can be 4'11" and 180 and considered a bbw whereas me at 5'7" and 180 will look like a size 10/12 as I have long limbs along with a long torso. Also, I carry most of my weight in my upper body. If she was 4'11" and 240lbs(like I am) she might be considered a true, bbw and not a smaller bbw. Check out www.mybodygallery. com to see the ranges for yourself. Generally to me a bbw is a woman who is big by appearance, beautiful (attractive) and a female. If the majority of the population looks at someone and the first thought that comes to their mind is "That person is big, or large." than she's most likely a bbw lol.




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    I feel like a idiot for asking this but how do you choose what category you are in? I always thought SM just did this for you based on your measurements you provide?

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    Its so funny cos on the outside world there are sub categories to BBW. There is Thick, sbbw,ssbbw or my personal fav Juicy,lol. In the modeling world a size 14 (thick) is BBW but Usually the girls I see in the BBW category are 230 and up and there is the odd 100lb who got lost,lol. Basically if you need a lil ( or a lot) extra room in seats
    ( public transport is the true test of that) your in the bbw category. If your not a 1st page model I think its important to categorise yourself well cos a guy looking for a White girl wouldn't be in the Ebony section and a guy looking for a true heavy set women isnt gonna be in curvy. Curvy is bigger boobs and ass than is seem for a person your frame but with a slim waist. Sofía Vergara is curvy, Kim K is curvy. Beyonce use to curvy, dont know what happen there. I cant see your pic so Im not saying where you should be, im just saying categorise yourself well so those looking to take you private will find you.


    Also it depends on how you carry your weight, are you proportionate, etc. You could see a girl who is 5'5 250 and she looks about 200lb and you can see a another girl same height and weight and she looks 50lbs heavier.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sweethips View Post
    . My laptop only had 1 gig of RAM so I ordered a 2 gig stick on Amazon and got it over the weekend. I sure hope that helps out. !
    Im sorry, I dont understand why would a 2 gig help with camming? or should I say why are you hoping? Does a 1 gig cos lagging or bad resolution or something?

    and if you use a tapered tip brush, and use the front/ back ( top 1 inch) side not the top ( if your applying at a 90 degree angle, your using the top, you want a 30 -60 degree angle) and just pat instead of rubbing it in your heavy hardness wont show. Just fight the urge to do 3 or 4 coats

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    Click EVERY single category you can. Don't get hung up on labels, it will hold you back. More categories you click that apply to you the better traffic to your room you will get.

    In porn, anyone over a size 8 is considered a BBW.

    Good lighting, there are many threads on here how to do it cheaply.
    Great internet speed. I spend $100 a month to get 105mbps up from the package I had of $30 for 15 mbps which is what most people have. This is an investment that paid off with in a few days & well worth it.

    MARKETING MARKETING MARKETING There are many threads on this site on how to do that.

    Always look your best, 1st impression is important. If a guy comes into your room sees that it is a mess & you dont look your best he may not ever come back to it. This is a job, you are an entertainer, must put on the best face you can each & every time.

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    Looked at your pic, Gorgeous

    I recommend false eyelashes & a bright lip. You need a bit of base or foundation to even out skin tone and blush to keep you from looking washed out.

    Bright pink or even I dare say a RED Lips is an easy glamour look, even if you put on no other make up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by apryll11 View Post
    Im sorry, I dont understand why would a 2 gig help with camming? or should I say why are you hoping? Does a 1 gig cos lagging or bad resolution or something?

    and if you use a tapered tip brush, and use the front/ back ( top 1 inch) side not the top ( if your applying at a 90 degree angle, your using the top, you want a 30 -60 degree angle) and just pat instead of rubbing it in your heavy hardness wont show. Just fight the urge to do 3 or 4 coats
    it has more to do with the processor honestly i thought the exact same thing tho when i was trying to work on my computers for camming until other camgirls helped me out in gen chat . if you have a lag issue and ur feed looks bad sweet hips then u need a new processor or maybe upgrade ur comp all together . what kind of comp do you have now
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