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    At the moment, I am trying to calm down from a panic attack.

    I was broadcasting on chaturbate, when someone demanded that I pm them. I advised them to read my profile if they wanted me to message them. Then they claimed they knew me--I called their bluff. Then they started saying they know my dad.

    Anybody can say that, right? Well, here's the thing. My dad is a very important person in my life, but I know that he wouldn't agree with what I do. He's living in another country right now, so I always make sure to block that particular country in event he even looks at webcam sites.

    Right now, I am going back and forth--I left home shortly after I graduated high school, and only came back for my sister's graduation and later my dad and stepmother's wedding, and then I lived with them for six weeks after I left my husband, but I didn't really interact with people too much, and besides, there's a few people around who look similar to me. Hell, I've been told I look like Anne Hathaway, for Christ's sake.

    There's also the possability that it might've been my brother...


    Anyway, I know based on other threads that plenty of similar shit has happened, and I think the best thing for me is for people to tell it like it is. Maybe this person was full of it, but I'm still going to be on the edge for the next couple of days for e-mails or phone calls.
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    I can definitely see this would be a scary and worrying situation for you. Is it possible it was just someone screwing with you? Is this all they said or did they provide you with other information that would identify and prove to you that it's someone who would know your dad? Either way I hope things work out for the best and I'm hoping it was just someone trying to spark a reaction in you. I think if someone said this same statement to a majority of cam girls it would cause worry and panic, so it may just be an asshole trying to worry you. Best of luck.

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    Did they offer information that could confirm this? Unfortunately, there are douche bags out there that get off on making you feel like shit. I'm hoping that this is the case, with it being the lesser of two evils and all.

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    All they said was that they knew me, and it wasn't until I called bullshit that they started saying they knew my dad, and he was going to be so disappointed in me. It's possible that they were trying to manipulate me, since I wouldn't message them. Like, I keep trying to reverse the situation--if I was someone who wasn't a cam model, and knew nothing about what it's like to be one, and I saw the daughter of someone I knew...I know that I wouldn't call them out on it right then and there. And if I felt it was necessary, I would message them privately first. But I honestly think I'm smarter than a lot of the people who come to my chats.

    But looking at the situation now that I've calmed down a little, anybody could say those words. Theyy're just as generic as "You're so ugly," and "you look like you have downse," only jabs at my appearence don't get to me much, because I know I'm hot. I didn't think there was anything--

    But they didn't give away anything that wasn't on my profile, except the fact that I have a dad, but anybody could guess that. There's like a 50/50 percent chance. But I think I'll cam on a different site for the rest of the night, if anything, because I had a panic attack.
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    I'm such an asshole that I would have screamed at them, MY DAD'S DEAD!!! and start ugly face crying. ...because I'm an asshole and am also the kind of person who likes to troll the trolls.

    Take a short break. Get something small to drink or eat (food helps ground you after all that adrenaline) and get back online.
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    I'v seen guys do that before, just trying to scare cam girls into doing XYZ. Just trying to black mail them for a free show or content, etc. Ultimately, if the person DOES know your dad - either way you're an adult, they're an asshole if they tell your father what your job is, etc; but, don't stress about something that may or may not even happen, because worrying, as they say, is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do but doesn't get you anywhere.

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    Unless you rock too hard or too fast. Then you'll end up face-planted into the floor. Thanks, ladies. I do feel better now that I've had time to calm down. Also having talked about the situation. I guess that's what this forum is for. :-)
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    These guys are full of shit and will say anything to get to you. BAN BUTTON should be your best fucking friend.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms.Lacey View Post
    These guys are full of shit and will say anything to get to you. BAN BUTTON should be your best fucking friend.
    I agree with Ms.Lacey 100%.Dont stress yourself out.

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    About 5 months ago, when I started camming 2 assholes popped in and started to say some similar shit like "I know you, here is my friend, you may not know who we are but we know you"...I inmediately logged off, and I spent the rest of the day drinking and crying, was awful. I have a kid who goes to school and is a pretty small town, I mean, I know somebody eventually found out, I accept the risks along the benefits, but I preffer to people know because I want they know. Beside they were so rude and nasty, I think is the only time someone gets me...I almost quited that time, but then I consider the possibility they were lying, and now I almost sure they were, because this happened a couple of times now, and were guys from countries I never been in even close (the first time were 2 guys from my country, I was in Livejasmin). This kind of assholes are always rude and trying to make you feel guilty. I mean, if its really someone you know, why they need to be so rude at you? why don´t they just say "Hi, X, I don´t want to make you feel uncomfortable, but I´m your neighbour Z"?. Obviously, there is a possibility that he/she really knows you, but its sounds fake to me...

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    Update: Douchebag comes into my room again and starts saying the same shit. I started to panic again, but banned them immediately, and took a minute to view their profile.

    Basically, he was full of shit.
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    I get this ALL the time. I just 'oh yeah, that's awesome - where from?' and they seem to have nothing left to say. If you seem bothered/upset/freaking out AT ALL then they will just keep doing it to you. It's their idea of fun. Seem relaxed and they just failed.

    Oh and BTW, I have actually had one of these guys be telling the truth LOL
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    There are alot of guys who simply get off by saying I know you IRL, I know your son, I know your dad.... as an example... this guy tried to pull that on me.. And I said oh really that's cool!.. everyone knows what I do , the whole world knows..and I laughed.. he said that was not the reaction he was expecting.. he wanted me to be scared and paranoid that it was someone i know.. that's what he wanted to get off on.. frightening me.. sick people.

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    @Snowy: edit your comment dear


    about 99.2% out of the time, they are so full of shit.
    Someone came in my room saying they know my sister, and she is going to be so pissed.
    I started acting all concerned, "Oh my god! You know my sister!" fake cried then stopped. "Hey asshole, I don't have a sister."
    He amscrayed his ass out of my room. Wrote down his name for future ban, never came back.





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    If I worked a day in my life and never got "I know your dad, mother, sister, brother, boyfriend, husband, dog..lol Or I am your neighbor looking at you right now, it would be a damn miracle!
    They pull this shit all the time. They try to scare you off cam. I call Bullshit. Always will. Their fun is then over and they move on.
    Now I do have a few relatives that had been blocked out, but not anymore. If I am there, and they are there that's funny to me.

    The shit these guys try on cam is crazy. I have seen many performers argue with them, have a cam break down, and just leave. This is sad.
    Fuck those guys! Never mind, ban their crazy asses.
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    To me it's easy. I just say: Then why the hell are you talking to me in English?
    They just go away.

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    its also a roleplay fetish. theres a lot of guys who really get into the roleplay and dont go out of character. they also expect u to read their mind and know its a roleplay fetish. i get them a lot. the most common is brother-sister. guy enters room "omg sister what r u doing on a cam site?" (idont have any brothers so i know its a roleplay guy) u will find if u actually whisper them back and play along that it is a roleplay guy.so next time u get one just go along with it.
    customer: "omg i know u pls whisper me"
    you: "omg no i cant believe it pls dont tell anyone"
    customer: "well if u show me ur tits i might not say anything"
    ^^^^^^ mistery solved, its a fetish guy.
    if it goes more along the lines of.......
    customer: "omg i know u pls whisper me"
    you: "omg no i cant believe it pls dont tell anyone"
    customer: "yeah hello sindy (your name IS actually sindy). i'm a friend of ur dad mike. (your dad IS called mike)
    ^^^^^^^ he actually knows you, good luck with that.

    a guy who knows you will always give out a detail like a name, school, location, workplace you worked at. they will want to convince u straight away that u r fucked. whereas a fetish guy just gets off on the scenario that he saw a nextdoor neighbours online and blackmailed her to see tits.

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    This happened to me last week except he really did know me. I blocked him during the PVT as soon as he said my name. Then I knew whoever he was would contact me on fb since he mentioned the girl I "looked" like was his friend. About 24 hours later, I get a message from the guy saying that what he was going to say would come off weird, but was I on so and so site last night? It was a SM whitelabel site. I denied it and made it extremely awkward for him and it worked. No, sorry, I didn't even know such site's existed. Unfortunately, that wasn't me you saw last night, but I'm flattered...I guess... He proceeded to tell me it was the best $20 he ever spent (before he was blocked) and how he thought he hit the jackpot by it being me. LMAO. Nope, sorry, it wasn't me!




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    I've had a guy come in and say holy fuck I know you we went to high school together (barely anyone remembers me from high school I was not popular and was always bullied and picked on) so right away I assume he's a liar. He proceeded to threaten me saying if I don't show something now he will release my real info to everyone I laughed and banned him. To this day almost 1 year later nobody has my info!

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    If your brother knows you cam and what site you do it on, you've said too much. I think the idiot who contacted you just wanted attention and should be blocked.
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    This has happened to me, a guy came into my Chaturbate room, demanded I PM him, then he somehow managed to find out what my real name was, called me my real name in public chat, I banned him immediately. he came in again a moment later with my dad's name and last name, it said "Insert name here PM me" i quickly banned him again, and I then got a friend request on skype ( my personal skype ) and he was calling me my first and married name, which is no where except facebook, and I had gotten a friends request on there as well as a message from someone saying "They were filming you honey" The name was Kathleen Meyers on facebook, just so everyones aware, I sent Shirley a message on Chaturbate and she had him banned from the site, so he is now unable to log on from that IP, of course he could get around with a proxy. I would report him to chaturbate, it's really scary and to ease your mind, that might just be your best bet. I think this guy got my name by taking a screen shot of my face and googling it, which led him to my Facebook account, for added protection, if you have any personal social media sites you belong to, double check your privacy settings, and change your display photos, at least for a little while.
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    Flip it around. Tell them great, then I will tell your girlfriend/wife & family just how much you love porn & secretly spend money on it all the time. Even if it is a lie & you don't it will scare them right back. Tell everyone just how much of a pervert & demented you are. How you asked about kiddo porn & such.

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    I do it to guys all the time. Know them that is.. Had a guy named Kelly come into my room one night on Streamate. Saw it & immediately went "Kelly, not the Kelly I know from Dallas?" A guy who dated a friend of mine & had not seen or heard from him in 10 years or more. He was like yep, "how is Tina?" the girl he dated.

    But it is all in fun & games no threats or such, although I do get them. I just call up my parents & warn them what is coming.

    Many of my ex's, male porn stars, famous actors,owners of major porn sites, my doctor, friends from college & such have been in my cam rooms at one time or another. So I'm never surprised in a bad way. Just means all my marketing is working.

    Haha You just never know who is watching.

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