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    Ahhhh. The joys of being black
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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    I personally really like my Indian clients... yes I've had a few who were disrespectful, but no more than my Caucasian clients. They are usually more appreciative of me and the session and happier to be there, whereas white guys have more of a I'm bored attitude.

    I've had very few black clients, not sure why, they just don't seem interested in me, it's always been that way even I'm working in strip clubs. The only issue I've ever had with them as I am very small down there and they tend to be large, but I've had that issue with white guys as well.

    The only clients I really prefer not to see are under 25-ers. I didn't refuse them in the beginning but have had too many bad experiences with them at this point.

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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    For many many decades Pimps ran girls. It was their rule that their girls could not look at, smile, talk or fuck any other black man.

    It was a rule set by 'black' pimps. If a girl were to look in the eye, smile, talk to another black man then her pimp owed him money. Many pimps tried to steal or talk a girl into leaving their current pimp for them. It was common to pretend to be a client & beat a girl into becoming their girl & under their protection. This carried over from the street walkers to the high class escorts. It is a part of that world's history. LOL I know some old hookers, as in 60 to 70 year old gals who used to be in the game.

    It was also common for one girl to recruit another girl into working for her pimp. To take that girl on a fake appointment & the pimp be there waiting to beat the girl or romance her. Either which way it took to get her. More girls a pimp had the better standing among pimps he had. The better looking & money making the girl was also raised his standing. It was harder to recruit & train a new girl than it was to steal them from another pimp. Girls wanted to be with the best pimp, cause he had the connections to good clients, whore houses in different states.



    Although, in today's world, pimps come in all races and both sexes. BE safe, screen & trust your instincts. Sex slavery is a booming business. Guys who run those rings come from all races & cultures. You have to be careful.

    You can't judge a person by their race. You have to judge each person by an individual by individual term. You have to screen each client for your own protection, that has nothing to do with race, but how the speak, write & conduct themselves.

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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    No one has to justify their preferences.

    I have had a couple of great 'black' clients. They didn't go on about their skin color. They just treated me nicely from the get go.
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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    Quote Originally Posted by audrey_k View Post
    I personally really like my Indian clients... yes I've had a few who were disrespectful, but no more than my Caucasian clients. They are usually more appreciative of me and the session and happier to be there, whereas white guys have more of a I'm bored attitude.
    I actually liked Indians as escort clients as well, especially after I gained my PPD weight . Hated them as stripper clients, though. Old black men were some of my favorites overall; they never got me bored nor became nagging.





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    Quote Originally Posted by amberlly View Post
    No one has to justify their preferences.
    Exactly. You could have said nothing more than "period" after this and you would have said everything required.

    Over the years, I've dealt with a number of girls who have admitted to having preferences and/or avoiding certain types of customers. Now whether or not I agreed with their logic is irrelevant. They're not fast food restaurants selling hamburgers to the general public. A girl who decides to take money for sex is giving the guy access to her body and has the right to choose who gets to stick things in her orifices. She is also uniquely vulnerable while naked and alone with a guy. It doesn't matter if she is being illogical, irrational, prejudiced, racist or whatever other label you want to give it. She and she alone gets to decide who she lets inside her body and makes herself vulnerable to and she shouldn't have to justify it to anybody.

    Period.

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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    ^^^ What he said.

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    harlemdude- I've been that girl that felt like I should have been the one who paid. Thanks so much for your perspective!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Unkle Fuzzy View Post
    ^^^ What he said.
    where did 'he' go?
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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    I was agreeing with Rick. I dunno this "Harlemdude" of whom you speak.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    Exactly. You could have said nothing more than "period" after this and you would have said everything required.

    Over the years, I've dealt with a number of girls who have admitted to having preferences and/or avoiding certain types of customers. Now whether or not I agreed with their logic is irrelevant. They're not fast food restaurants selling hamburgers to the general public. A girl who decides to take money for sex is giving the guy access to her body and has the right to choose who gets to stick things in her orifices. She is also uniquely vulnerable while naked and alone with a guy. It doesn't matter if she is being illogical, irrational, prejudiced, racist or whatever other label you want to give it. She and she alone gets to decide who she lets inside her body and makes herself vulnerable to and she shouldn't have to justify it to anybody.

    Period.
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    Racism pisses me off, yes. But do we have the right to choose our own clients? Yes. And what simone said. It's not about race, it's about culture.

    You just have to listen to your intuition in regards to what customer would be good for you or not.
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    I don't care what your skin color is really. I only care about the color of your money. Conduct yourself like a human being and you'll be treated like one.
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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    Quote Originally Posted by harlemdude View Post
    As far as I can tell, I am the first man (African American) man to reply to this thread. However I have not read all of the posts because the hurt that I feel when I see it in ads is now compounded because I'm hearing the reasons. In fact the only reason I even found this site was because I Google'd the question. I will start by saying that I understand the reasons most of you are giving as to why you prefer not to have black clients. But more then "racist", more then "Bad experiences" is what's really going on is STEREOTYPING.
    "Violent". "Don't pay". "Pimps in disguise". "Hard work because of the big cock". And my favorite that made me laugh...."fucking nonstop until the session time ends".
    I get it. But we are not all like that. And the simple fact that I am on here commenting should speak volumes about how much I don't fall into any of these categories. (Except the big dick. Lol)
    But I also want to call out those of you who say you also don't prefer Latino or middle eastern men because The sites that I have been looking at recently (since I'm due for a vacation soon) only specify NO BLACK MEN. No other race is stated. And now I may be guilty of doing a little stereotyping of my own but 95% of the women that exclude us usually have very light blonde hair, voluptuous bodies and barbie doll faces. Help me understand that one.
    It's really a shame because I am educated. Handsome. Generous. Sweet. Funny. And very good in bed. I will sum it up by saying I once had an encounter with a white woman and when we were done, she enjoyed herself so much that she gave me half of my money back and said she felt like she should have paid me.
    How many of you have had that type of experience with ANY man regardless of color?
    For whatever it's worth, Know that it hurts just like being told 50 years ago that you can't eat in a restaurant because of the color of your skin. It hurts those of us who appreciate you and the service you provide and want to experience and pay for just as a white man would. What is the harm of not stating this is your ad and simply asking upon making a potential booking?
    Ok. Now that I got that off my chest I will get back to searching for a companion for a few hours of MUTUAL enjoyment.
    Be well ladies. Be safe. And be open minded.
    I completely agree with you that it isn't racism and that it is stereotyping and that it isn't fair in the least. That being said, even though I am not an escort.....I can understand WHY escorts would unfairly stereotype.

    As a camgirl I have no preference to my customer's race. but I also have the luxury of operating in a virtual world where my physical safety will rarely be in immediate harm. Strippers don't have the same luxury that I do, but they are in a public space so that does allow them some amount of safety when they are in the club. But escorts, they don't have the same safety net that camgirls and stripper do. Their ability to keep themselves safe is much more limited and sadly that is where the stereotyping comes in because like all sex workers they can't easily go to the police when they are a victim of violence.

    So I get their position. And I get your position. And it sucks that it has to be this way since no one really wins.

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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    JAC's post ^^^^ sums up the true problem I have w/ this thread, & the implications by the butthurt 'That's RACIST!' fussers posting here -- that providers are obligated to explain & 'justify' their 'preferences'.

    Is it stereotyping? Yes. Maybe. Idk. Idk where I would draw the line on that one, bc I'll be the first to admit that I 'discriminate' among customers based on the experiences that I've had w/ certain groups of them. Yes, real-live experiences, not just pulling a 'tude out of my bum & slapping it on said group as a whole bc they looked at me funny. But as Rick & JAC stated so clearly, sex workers are in a uniquely vulnerable position in regards to their physical safety, & the recourse (rather, the lack thereof) that they have if their physical safety is endangered or outright violated. The only ppl we can guarantee to look out for us is ourselves, & if we are really lucky, others like us. Other sex workers, who understand these concerns & likewise have limited options to help each other when these concerns are validated by experience.

    Further, what abt the club customers (I suppose escorts get a version of this as well) who refuse dances/company from a girl bc she is NOT white/black/Klingon/whatever? Should those customers likewise be obligated to provide a non-offensive & thorough explanation of why they themselves are not racist & simply 'have a preference'?

    So to harlemdude, nubienne & all you other complainers abt providers'/dancers' individual refusals to sell to you, take your righteous offence & stuff it. Most likely, it's not personal on the part of the provider, just like it's probably not personal on your part when you yourselves reject one type of girl in favour of a different type.

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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    I don't think anyone has to provide justification for who they prefer to be intimate with....

    BUT

    go through several BackPage escort profiles and you will see in the description No Black Men for example in like 30% of the ads. I never seen no whites or no Indians or no Mexicans, etc. in any escort ads

    It does seem odd to me .... Given that douchebag men come in ALL races,cultures, ethnicities... Just sayin
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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    I'm a current camgirl/former stripper. I've never had a black customer:
    -finish in his pants
    -short me
    -ask for extras
    -sexually assault me
    -insult me
    -ask invasive questions
    Those were all white guys. IME, black guys may spend less money, but are better behaved and don't have the hygiene issues we all dread. Many seem more understanding in that this is a BUSINESS and are satisfied without extras.Far too many white guys in my areas are racist and expect sex workers to indulge and put up with their racist views. Not this bitch.
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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    For those who say it's racism, does mean racism if people avoid areas with one race? I ask because when I did parties I never went into black areas. Black areas can be dangerous and no amount of money is worth the risks. There are nice black areas in Chicago but there are far more crime ridden sections. I sometimes got calls from the ghetto like Cabrini Green or the Robert Taylor Homes and I turned them down and never sent anyone, including black dancers. BTW, I once lived in one of these areas so my fears were real.

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    I don't think that's racist kellydancer that sounds more like avoiding high crime areas and this area you describe happens to have a larger population of black people.

    I wonder can escorts screen out certain races/ethnicities without putting ads out that say no x races allowed?? If I was an escort and picky about race I'd just have the booker ask them during screening and ignore/decline what I don't want or there is no way to see their faces beforehand?
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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    Yeah but was called racist a few times. I did dance for many black customers and the irony is they avoided those areas too.

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    Assholes come in all colours and flavours.
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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    I don't think it's anyone's business who a provider chooses to see, it's her body. End of story.
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    Default Re: Why dont many escorts like seeing black/asian men?Pure racism or justified prefer

    I have read this thread and wish to add two commentaries:

    1. When selecting a sex partner for personal intimacy, then hell yes, you can be however selective in who you choose, using any criteria you want including race and ethnicity. However, if engaging in sex for trade or business, you can argue that discrimination laws should apply as with any business. Most escorts I would assume are proponents for the legitimization and legalization of their profession. I'll bet when that happens, there will be civil lawsuits filed against escorts who deny service based on race as has been lodged against any other business. Landlords can't refuse a person to live on his/her own property based on race. A proctologist cannot refuse a patient ,whose rectum he will probe with his digits, based on race. I highly doubt it is moral or ethical to use race to determine with whom you choose to rub your genitals per contractual business.
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    Quote Originally Posted by clownfish View Post
    I have read this thread and wish to add two commentaries:

    1. When selecting a sex partner for personal intimacy, then hell yes, you can be however selective in who you choose, using any criteria you want including race and ethnicity. However, if engaging in sex for trade or business, you can argue that discrimination laws should apply as with any business.
    So just because she's an escort, she doesn't get to decide who sticks his dick into her?

    Seriously now, the difference between all of those other things and escorting is that what she is selling is sex, which involves intimate access to her body. Sorry, but IMHO the right for a woman to choose who gets to put things in her trumps discrimination considerations, regardless of whether she is being payed or not. You do realize that escorts can still be raped, no? Just imagine a world where a girl who sold sex for money could not decide who she did or did not let fuck her. Were escorting to become legal, I sincerely doubt that any court in this land would rule that a woman does not have a right to choose who she has sex with.

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    Rick, why are we injecting rape into the equation? It only serves to sensationalize the issue without merit.

    Being PAID for the sexual service is the crux of the issue. It's a business transaction. She is a professional. And if escorting were to be a legal trade she would be held to the same anti discrimation laws as any other business. I'm sure most escorts view the sex as very clinical and transactional. Imagine a paramedic refusing to give mouth to mouth resuscitation to a black man or a doctor refusing to give a prostate exam to an Asian man. But an escort refusing to kiss a black man or jerk off an Asian man for financial compensation she is complicit to perform for a white client, well that's ok because she is preserving the sanctity of her precious Vulva . Lol

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