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    Dear community colleagues,

    I just joined this forum today and I received a, what I consider, not a gentle welcome.
    It is true that I didn't know the forum before and maybe it is not the place for me, but I was treated in a mean way by some people in the chat and insulted by other few. I believe that my behaviour was nice, polite and charming.

    Did anybody else experience anything similar?
    Is that what is suppose to be a place like this?

    Thanks, I look forward to reading your replies.

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    Default Re: Is friendship possible in stripper web?

    You have to get to know people before they will respond to you. For example, you sent me a private chat request. I chat very rarely and I don't do chat with someone I don't know. Here's the thing, the strippers here aren't looking to make friends with random men online. Very few if any are looking to date men here. I have had many men here ask me out or want to meet me and it creeps me out.

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    We aren't here to be charmed.

    If you are in this industry, we are more then happy to discuss industry related subjects. Once we get to know you, we will talk about other subjects.

    But generally, men who sign up for this site are using this as a free-bee way to talk to us and flirt. So..

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    Yeah, that is what drives me nuts about this site. I don't mind the men who participate in discussions and are a valued member of the community. The men here strictly to date strippers really piss me off.

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    I agree with these other ladies. We aren't here to talk to yet more charming men who want to be friends, that's literally every single day for us. And those men pay. Industry-related forum questions are more appropriate for this site. Good luck!

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    Dear Dipshit of the century (With a captial "D"),

    When you go to the stripclub, they don't allow you to the girl's dressing room to talk to the girls, eh? Same concept here. When you come to StripperWeb, you're entering the "dressing room" for cammodels online. If you're not in the industry, and you creep on the girls, yo ass is gonna get kicked the fuck out faster than you can say "Sorry"... aiight? NOW, if you want some friends, or want to talk to me, you're more than welcome to ask me for my Cammodel link, and take me exclusive and talk to me all you want there. I'll be more than happy then to give you my undivided attention, AND be your friend, till the sun come back the fuck around three times.

    But of course, since yo skank ass want this shit fo free, it's not happening. Put up, or shut up.

    NOTHING IMPRESSES A CAMMODEL MORE THAN A GUY THAT LETS HIS MONEY DO THE TALKING.

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    Have you tried Christian Mingle?


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    Seriously??? Just...go away. This is not the place for you. You are not the industry. You came here because you thought, hey, this must be the place to meet pretty, stupid, horny girls who will be so amazed at my charm and kindness they won't even notice that I am getting the companionship and affection that would normally cost me $$, for free.

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    I see how polite you are that you just try to send me away.
    By the way, if the only charm you can see in a men is his wallet then I am not the creep, you are.

    I didn't enter with any sexual interest, just to know people and share experiences and I see your attitude. I hope you are not a representation of all the people in this forum, but if everybody is like you, don't worry, I will go away.
    Not because you asked for but because I don't like people like you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paablerass View Post
    I see how polite you are that you just try to send me away.
    By the way, if the only charm you can see in a men is his wallet then I am not the creep, you are.

    I didn't enter with any sexual interest, just to know people and share experiences and I see your attitude. I hope you are not a representation of all the people in this forum, but if everybody is like you, don't worry, I will go away.
    Not because you asked for but because I don't like people like you
    So you have experience in the industry? I can't speak for others but when it comes to this industry the women only see the customers as a wallet. Blunt yes but true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    So you have experience in the industry? I can't speak for others but when it comes to this industry the women only see the customers as a wallet. Blunt yes but true.
    I have been a customer, and I have never had such a treatment. I even conserve many friends that I met while visiting webcam sites. Not everybody is greedy

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    Of course I seem them only as a wallet. Sure, I've developed friend ships with custies but the second they start trying to get free shit they're gone. I already have a man that I can go to when I need companionship and love. And it sure as hell ain't you.
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    what sites have you visited, Paablerass? What handle do you use?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katie Desire View Post
    what sites have you visited, Paablerass? What handle do you use?
    what do you mean by handle? english is not my first language.
    I visited mfc, chaturbarte, livejasmin... why do you ask?

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    what name do you use on those sites? perhaps if we know you a little more...we wouldn't have been as harsh

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    I am not going to give you any personal data, I am sorry. After all you said to me know I don't feel like it.
    Futhermore, I would be extremely disappointed if you now treat much better once you see me like a customer.

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    I mean, you have to realize where you are. If you just wanted to chat and make friends with random people, there are a ton of websites for that. Yet, you chose to specifically come to a site called STRIPPERweb. The people who come to this forum are either industry professionals, customers who come for information or specific questions about the industry, or creeps. The general thought of members is why would you be here just chatting people up on a site that is clearly full of sex industry girls, if you didn't have "sexual" motives? If you came to ask questions or gain insight into something industry related, you need to start threads and ask and engage in relevant discussions. Nobody comes to a site full of strippers and camgirls just to "make friends" in chat. There are other places to go for that.
    Don't try to win over the haters. You are not the Jerk Whisperer.

    Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.






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    Quote Originally Posted by Paablerass View Post
    Dear community colleagues,

    I just joined this forum today and I received a, what I consider, not a gentle welcome.
    It is true that I didn't know the forum before and maybe it is not the place for me, but I was treated in a mean way by some people in the chat and insulted by other few. I believe that my behaviour was nice, polite and charming.

    Did anybody else experience anything similar?
    Is that what is suppose to be a place like this?

    Thanks, I look forward to reading your replies.
    Seriously, I believe that you are on the wrong site or you are just wanting to troll this site. Frankly, I agree with what all the ladies said but I would like to go deeper. To me , you already knew that this was a site for industry professionals, customers, and people wanting to get into this industry. However, you do not want get into the indsutry, you are not a real customer, nor a industry professional. You are just a troll who hides behind a polite and charming persona because you want to talk to a stripper and other industry professionals for free. This is why everyone treats you in a mean way Plus did you even introduce yourself or did you just start pm people out of the blue?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paablerass View Post
    I have been a customer, and I have never had such a treatment. I even conserve many friends that I met while visiting webcam sites. Not everybody is greedy
    Of course when you're a customer they act like your friend. And it's not greedy of girls to only want to provide companionship when you pay, it's just the nature of a sex-industry business transaction. Lots of customers don't seem to understand that. We provide the service of companionship and you pay for that service.

    I think what annoyed the girls on here is that you just assumed they'd be up for chatting because hey, they're sex workers, and they exist just for various forms of companionship so naturally they'll be up for chatting with me. The women on this site aren't beholden to warmth and friendship for strangers just because they're strippers/porn stars/escorts/camgirls. So don't assume they'll be friendly. It's presumptuous.

    This is a pretty common mistake with a lot of customers though. It's so common that when a customer actually understands that sex work is a business, and he treats it like a business transaction instead of expecting things for free, it's like a breath of fresh air. And I'm thinking, "Thank God, he understands, we can be real with each other." So ironically I get the closest to real friendship with the customers that don't expect me to be their friend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paablerass View Post
    I am not going to give you any personal data, I am sorry. After all you said to me know I don't feel like it.
    Futhermore, I would be extremely disappointed if you now treat much better once you see me like a customer.
    You have such entitlement issues and act like everyone should praise on here. First of all, you come on here and try to muscle your way into chats with many of the professionals here. Why? I smell your entitlement complex a mile away, Sir. You are one of the best trolls on SW...because you are acting like a charming gentleman that is naive yet I can sense you are a wolf under your persona

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    Don't feel discriminated against because you're a male. We are weary of females on this board until they become active members also.

    On SW we are more open and receptive to people that actively participate and contribute. A person with only 5 posts asking why they can't make friends on SW is likely to be dismissed compared to someone who has achieved Senior Member status (at the least) and has been thanked for those contributions.

    For the majority of members, friendship is not the intent, just a result. We come here for advice on how to maximize profitability, how to deal with real world adult issues, and vent about things so we don't keep them bottled up to eat away at our souls. This is supposed to be a safe environment for those in the sex industries because the vanilla world doesn't have many outlets (or acceptance) for us.

    The more you offer to us, the more we can offer to you. Keep in mind, we are professionals. A lot of us don't want to be bothered about with relationships with random men, because it's what we get PAID to do. We do sometimes tend to develop real friendships with those who understand this though.

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    The reason girls are nice to you on LJ, MFC, CB, is because that is where you are SUPPOSED to be interacting with camgirls.

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    Sure it's possible, but it requires not sucking.
    "Well done. Here are the test results: You are a horrible person. I'm serious, that's what it says: 'A horrible person.' We weren't even testing for that."

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    Oh wooooooooowwwwww, this thread became much more popular than I thought it would be... someone needs to give me moderator status so I can ban this fuckers ass.

    With that being said, Paddle-dipshit-asswipe:
    1) Why have you not deleted your account yet if the girls on SW are "oh so mean" and "picking" on you? I thought you were gonna go away not because I wanted you to go away, but because we were all mean to you...
    2) What is up with your gnarly fucking language?!?!? Were not in the 16th century, take that stick out yo ass, you will enjoy anal sex more... look, I'm even feeling generous... I'll ram your asshole with my BBC strapon, kay? No lube though... you haven't deserved that yet... I dont feel like you have gotten the PRIVILEGE to use lube yet. XP
    3) Everyone in the sex industry is out to make money, not friends... wait, you thought we girlies go online every night to get naked, prance around dancing acting cheery and shit for 5 hours straight, and stab our vagina's with oversized dildos for... FUN?!?!?! You must be out yo mutha fuckin mind, dear child.
    4) Yes, the girls are nice to you on the sex websites you troll because you're there as a CUSTOMER, and they expect to get PAID to talk to you and endure your fucking horrific English and pervvy sexual desires.
    5) Until you can prove to us that you are actually a customer on all the sites that you claim to be on, you're just here looking for free titty and poon, and if you're here for that (in which, by the way, you ARE, you just are being a guy and not ADMITTING to it...), we would be more than happy to give you our screen names on the sex websites you claim to be a member of... and you can then take us to private chat, or even better! EXCLUSIVE chat, and we will be your friend till we rape your mutha fuckin wallet dry.

    WHICH BRINGS ME TO MY NEXT POINT, YOU CLAIM:
    Quote Originally Posted by Paablerass View Post
    I am not going to give you any personal data, I am sorry. After all you said to me know I don't feel like it.
    Futhermore, I would be extremely disappointed if you now treat much better once you see me like a customer.
    HOLD UP HOLD UP, let me get this straight, mother fucker, you don't wanna give US any of YOUR personal information (Which, by the way, genius, giving us your handle name is in no way, shape, or form, "personal information"), yet you wanna know all about US?!?!? Where we work, what our handle names are, if were into kinky shit, if we wanna be your "friend"... are you NUTS?!?!?!

    OH MAH GAWDDDD, someone, please, shoot me now... this person is worse than "------"... XP ARGHHHHHHH. XP

    P.S. Donna, he PMed all of us one by one trying to divide and conquer randomly out the blue. Like, CREEPER status, trying to be all nice and shit to us and get our sex website handle names... ewwwwwwwww... ::shivers::

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paablerass View Post
    I don't like people like you
    like who - real woman not the horny easy slut bags that you want us to be? do u mix pleasure and business its not a good look for any line of work. move along pal this isnt the place for you....
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