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    I get a lot of guys who, immediately when in the prvt., star barking for me to hurry up! Usually, (without getting graphic), their requests are for me to get undressed, and start with quick, hard pounding insertion.
    I read a lot on here how to slow things down, but I don't even get to the 'slow strip' part, because they are barking orders at me. (I used to do mostly domme work, so these new custies r pissing me off!)I do them because the $$$$ adds up quickly.
    I have lived in the 2 fastest paced cities in the U.S., and rushing has never been my style, and irl I get anxious and annoyed by it.
    In dealing with custies, I have only had 1 guy who understood when I told him that I can't just "shove" something up there.
    I rely on these guys for my money, so what do You do to gently remind him, so he stays in prvt., and doesn't 'flip' out
    Thanks in advance Glam

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    Default Re: When Custie Enters Prvt., and tells You to "Hurry Up!"~Your Suggestions

    when they say that I don't do shit (rushing because they are in FC jerking like deranged animal) but I also make them ask before going private and tell them the minimum time allowed. Im a GS and Regs Girl!!!

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    Ugh, those guys. Well, I repeat what they say, like, "Ooh baby, I am so horny I can't wait to fuck myself" but, go at my own pace. He's says, "Strip naked!!!" so I stand up and lean over, slowly, "ooh, baby, do you want to see these bit tits? Let me see that cock, ooh yes, stroke it for me" and so on as far as fingering, getting the lube, talking about the lube, etc.

    I don't suddenly shove toys in myself, that would hurt and cost more $ (cuz I'd want to log of for the next 2 days) then that show being short. But, I don't give a sex-ed talk either about how women's bodies work, just do my own thing while trying to keep him engaged. Diverting attention to his dick often works, guys are so into their own stuff.

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    Actually I find most of the guys are in a hurry. Some get off even before I take my bra off much less my panties. Seems thae just want to wank off w a girl present, imo....

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    ^^deranged animals!! that's a perfect description!! They just click into prvt, so I never have time to tell them to stay in a certain amount of time.

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    When they do this to me in Group on Adultwork I remind them that it is a Group show, which means it's a show of my choosing for everyone who might come in. If they want to bark orders, they can come into Private (exclusive).
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    When they rush you, take your time. I usually say "Don't worry hon, we'll get there." and tell them how happy I am that they took me PVT. If they leave a bad review, get it removed and make sure to let the site know that they were expecting too much in under X seconds or minutes. It's worked for me, now I rarely have those guys.




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    ahh, Kort, my girl! I knew you'd give an awesome answer, because I've watched u work, and you are always in control ms. Jackson!! love it!

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    I won't do shows for guys like that, period. If they start out demanding, I will tell them I don't tolerate rudeness. Sometimes they apologize and stay. If not, they can leave. I can't perform for assholes.
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    ^^Thanks- I unfortunately can't do that because I live in a city that even making $1000 per day, would be just above the poverty line.

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    You can be sarcastic and say "Well sugar, if you couldn't afford my rate, why did you take me pvt?" That might result in them ending the pvt prematurely but I believe that was their intentions with rushing you anyway.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    ^^Thanks- I unfortunately can't do that because I live in a city that even making $1000 per day, would be just above the poverty line.
    I understand that, believe me. The strange thing is, since I stopped dealing with guys like that I'm making more than ever.
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    That is why I am not big on privates either. I have had guys ask me to be naked already when he enters private. Screw that.
    They think their dime is precious, well my time is precious. I don't work well under pressure, and told them that.
    I said to a regular years ago, "how would you like if your boss walked up behind you, smacked your head and said hurry up?"
    It's the same feeling, it's me working. Most seem to get it, some don't. Or they just leave as you took your clothes off.
    I have to work on my time, not theirs unless he is a major regular and lets me know before private what is going on, I have worked well with them.
    But no, a 2 minute private.. they can rate me bad and act like a baby all they want. Cheap asses.

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    To be honest, I don't care how long a person stays in my PVT. So as long as it's 30 seconds or over. I'm not above teasing and unbuttoning a few buttons for $2.09 per min should they leave early




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    I used to rush too, until I started camming on mfc & learned not to rush since group shows can go on forever.

    I smile, Push my tits up at them & start asking questions. Like "Are you horny bb? Is that cock hard?" getting them to type which means taking their hands off of their dick. LOL

    70% stay, the other 30% never planned on staying longer than 30 seconds & are trying to rip you off from the start. I do my show just as I normally do. Most will come back again & become regulars.

    I dont stop moving or talking dirty, but I don't rush either. They have been training girls to rush & you have to retrain the to slow down & enjoy the process.
    If they continue to bark orders, I will stop & tell them "I'm not the girl for you." Especially if you have to work many hours at this a day enjoying it, not being rushed & harassed keeps it from being a chore. Have faith that you will build up new regulars everyday increasing how much you make all the time.

    If it is a gold show on SM, I straight up warn them. If you wanted control of what I do then you should have been highest tipper or taken me private. Approximately about 40% will take me prvt or exclusive right after the gold show. I don't assume they are being cheap but maybe a little bit uneducated in how I operate. Get some of my best biggest spenders this way.


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    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    To be honest, I don't care how long a person stays in my PVT. So as long as it's 30 seconds or over. I'm not above teasing and unbuttoning a few buttons for $2.09 per min should they leave early
    I agree. For me it's the whole just took all my clothes off and messed my hair for 2 minutes that sucks, because I have to waste time now getting dressed again and polishing up. Two minutes and under so not worth my time, they just anger me, and I want the gone. A longer private always came along. I can find the 2 minutes wankers change in a crowded parking lot, no lie.

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    Well cami, 2 min men still add to your bottom line so it is what you make it bb. I'd rather get $4.18 for those 2 min then $0 in free chat. If it adds to my bottom line, I'm happy. Believe it or not, the longer shows actually exhaust me more! I had a guy masturbate in front of me for 22 min the other week in a PVT JOI and though I enjoyed the money, it bored me and in the back of my mind I was thinking "Gosh, when is this guy going to cum already?!" LOL. With block sessions I know ahead of time but I was like geez oh petes, guy! Jizz, please!! He was just jerking his little cock over and over. The camera was literally on his face for 5 min, then 17 of just dick on cam.




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    ^^LOL!!! You're so funny Kort! I get a lot of regs like that. Although I love the $$$$$, I sometimes just stop doing anything and just watch them, because I get so exhausted if I'm ohhing and awwwing, and diddling myself to death. They never seem to mind, and keep coming back.
    P.S.- I'm going to take all suggestions while I'm camming today. I'll report back.
    It's funny, that IRL, when someone tries to rush me, (especially in line at the grocery store, or any shopping excursion), I go EXTRA slow just to piss them off. Then again, they can't affect my camscore, or give me a bad rating.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    Well cami, 2 min men still add to your bottom line so it is what you make it bb. I'd rather get $4.18 for those 2 min then $0 in free chat. If it adds to my bottom line, I'm happy. Believe it or not, the longer shows actually exhaust me more! I had a guy masturbate in front of me for 22 min the other week in a PVT JOI and though I enjoyed the money, it bored me and in the back of my mind I was thinking "Gosh, when is this guy going to cum already?!" LOL. With block sessions I know ahead of time but I was like geez oh petes, guy! Jizz, please!! He was just jerking his little cock over and over. The camera was literally on his face for 5 min, then 17 of just dick on cam.
    LOl, I am with ya. The long shows suck for me too. Guess I have to have my own little happy area with cam and my privates. I don't sit well too long, although I do love the money while listening to a guy talk or just wank and he is having a tough time while I do noting but watch. It's boring. I have to keep thinking about the money.
    But really those 2 minutes in then he's out, Oh I want to scream. Because I will not rush it's like yep.. as soon as they see boobies they blow. If I stall, they bitch and leave wasting my time anyway. It's just that I don't like to be bitched at or rushed during a show. I like respect, I am there for his pleasure.
    It's classic because I hear, "hurry up my money is running out", or "hurry up my wife is due home", hurry up I am i the closet'! Well come back later when we have time then..sheesh.
    I lose all concentration. Guess I am more of a slow mover, making the private feel more real. Token sites I don't have to worry about all that. Cams.com I still get it, I ignore the message as if I am doing my thing (which I am ) and did not see it. I can not, and will not work under a person rushing me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    ^^LOL!!! You're so funny Kort! I get a lot of regs like that. Although I love the $$$$$, I sometimes just stop doing anything and just watch them, because I get so exhausted if I'm ohhing and awwwing, and diddling myself to death. They never seem to mind, and keep coming back.
    P.S.- I'm going to take all suggestions while I'm camming today. I'll report back.
    It's funny, that IRL, when someone tries to rush me, (especially in line at the grocery store, or any shopping excursion), I go EXTRA slow just to piss them off. Then again, they can't affect my camscore, or give me a bad rating.
    Found that if I upped the sensuality & sexuality along with dirty talk that I rarely have to use the dildo. I ONLY bring it out if they ask, then I do a sloppy bj with it or titty fuck until they ask for pussy fucking. Upping the sensuality & sexuality is taxing but not in the same way. Fucking myself senseless is not me nor does it make me money.

    But on the other hand I have many hardcore scenes out there in the world & if that is what they wanted from me that is what they would be watching instead of taking me prvt on cam.

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    LOL I know! I cringe whenever I see certain regs come in because I know it's gonna be exhausting. All 8 minute shows would be perfect

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    Lol the other day I was bent over, ass up for the longest and I wanted to tell him "HURRY UP & CUM!!!" .....I was so glad when he left lmao

    I like the ones who enjoy talking and complimenting my naked body while I timidly tease them

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    I always say "mmm sweetheart, let's get this pussy warmed up. For a proper orgasm you can't rush it! Just sit back and let me please you."

    And when they do this in a gold show: "SHUT THE FUCK UP AND LET ME FUCKING CUM!"





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    I ignore the guys who tell me to hurry up off the bat because they always leave at 29 seconds anyway. My longest show was nearly 90 minutes. I was annoyed by the end, but then I looked at the earnings statement

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    Most of the time I just ignore what they say when they act like that and keep on with my usual show. I might say something like "sit back and relax" but if they are really going on the moment they enter the private chat, you know the type, they immediately say something like "fuck that pussy hard" they just won themselves a ticket to a "hey baby how is your day?" 20 questions show until they leave.
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