Hey ladies,
Last night was my first time ever dancing and I am so incredibly proud of myself for gathering up enough courage to do this.
I walked in, presented my license, and was taken to the dressing room. I got dressed and shortly after met up with the DJ to pick three songs for my set. I was expected to go on stage not even ten minutes after arriving. I was so nervous but I DID IT! I was shaking on stage but I just remembered to move slow, sensually and to also make tons of eye contact. I felt even more comfortable than expected dancing naked.
The staff are pretty nice. The girls are standoffish which is understandable. I swear I heard one girl say I was weird. Whatever, I'm sure there are at least a few hundred thousand people in Canada that would say the same about her. She can talk all she wants but she isn't a customer. This isn't day camp. I'm not there to make friends or please her. I ended up walking the floor, and sitting by myself a few times.
My lap dances feel awkward because we have couches so all my work is done in front of the customer. I don't feel that sexy and both my clients of the night seemed less interested than I expected. Should it bother me? As long as I get that $20 per dance, it shouldn't right? I am still VERY new at this, but I am a fast learner. I'm sure I'll get better at being sexy with strangers.
My questions:
1) What are the do's and don'ts of working the floor? Keep cellphone use to minimum? How long should I sit along before looking for customers? Is it ok to sit by the bar?
2) What do you say when asked why you got into this industry? Do you flat out say "money" or...?
3) What do you say when customers say you look like you don't belong in the industry?
4) Has anyone not been able to work through the muscle pain? I thought I was dying last night. Thank goodness my boyfriend is a personal trainer...
5) Should I wait for a new customer to settle in with a drink before swooping in for the kill? At least after he's ordered a drink?
6) How do I approach two men sitting at the same table? How can I score a dance from the both of them?
Any other advice for shyness would be appreciated! Thank-you ladies. I made $40 my first night...LULZ.
Sarah xo




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. IMO, phones are NEVER "ok" to use in front of customers, even if they aren't spending yet or are just drinking by the bar. If a customer walks in and sees a dancer looking bored and texting etc it looks unprofessional and rude. If a customer walks in to a club and sees a girl standing/sitting by herself who smiles and greets him as he walks by, then he feels welcomed, special and more comfortable...not like she's annoyed by his presence because now she has to get off her phone and work


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