I am dancing for reasons that are not entirely about money. Having said that, I have a regular who spends a great deal on me when he is in the club. We do at least one VIP per visit and he tips generously while I am on stage. He is not my only regular, but he is my most time intensive and demanding regular.
My problem is that he likes to grope at me, and the bouncer has to remind this guy over and over to keep his hands off. He asks for OTC constantly (I do not oblige) and texts me multiple times a day with just random requests for sex or tells me what he had for lunch or whatever. I've gotten over 70 text messages from him since last Wednesday alone. I reply once a day with my schedule in the club.
I figure that he will get tired of me soon. I've been dancing for him consistently for four months. This guy is harmless. In fact he is barely able to walk and is under a lot of medical supervision. He is elderly and lonely with a decent retirement pension that he spends almost exclusively on strip clubs.
I feel bad for this guy and his very depressing life, but he is sucking the joy out of my days. I tried to pass him on to another dancer who really needs the money, but he prefers me. He has done nothing wrong, and I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I need to stop dancing for this guy. He's demanding like a toddler, and the conversation is about as scintillating as it would be with a kindergartener.
Aside from just turning into a frigid bitch, I don't really know how to tell this guy that I need to move on and he needs to find himself another dancer to spend his time with. I thought of inventing a new husband or boyfriend, but I don't want him talking to the other customers about my "private life." I'm also afraid that if I just tell him that he needs to see another girl from now on, that it will become an issue in the club.
I guess I'm just venting. I really like my job and don't want to change clubs or shifts. I'm quite happy aside from this one situation. I'd love to hear how other girls have "broken up" with their regulars and how it worked out in the end.



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... He's one of the only people I ever gave my ''fake number'' to and never again!!!!!
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