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    Default How Do You "Defend" Your Job?

    I'm sure that one day, someone will find out that I strip. No, it's not their business how I conduct myself or earn my income but I'm curious if you ladies have any snappy comebacks to people who are against what you do. Things that will put someone in their place if they bring up what you do for a living whether it's stripping, escorting, or camming, etc...

    For me personally, I think I would just state that what I do isn't their business. I'm fine with my job and if they're not, then I invite them to pay my bills and to fill up my wallet...

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    Default Re: How Do You "Defend" Your Job?

    I don't even bother doing so, my excellent marks at school and the money I make speak for themselves. I don't feel I own anybody an explanation.

    People who are close to me don't ask for justifications, they understand why I am doing this. Others opinions don't really matter to me.

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    Default Re: How Do You "Defend" Your Job?

    if its a snobby bitch i don't like, i tell them they're just jealous cuz people would pay them to put their clothes back ON...

    if its someone i care about and they disagree with it, i'll remind them that they had no idea before that i had danced for years, and if they didn't know or notice a change in me, then OBVIOUSLY it's not affecting me in a negative way, and that's ALL that they should care about. (which is the truth)

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    Default Re: How Do You "Defend" Your Job?

    I was just thinking that I've done a good job weeding out friends over the years, as not one has given me shit; they've all either laughed and asked if its like the movies, or thought it was cool/hot.

    So I haven't had to defend it and probably would just say its the most convenient and lucrative way for me.
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

    "You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."

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    Default Re: How Do You "Defend" Your Job?

    I have mentioned this on here before, but a female acquaintance once tried to pick a fight w/ me by talking shit abt me for stripping. I asked her point blank if she was a virgin, & she said no. I then pointed out that assuming she hadn't gotten sm sort of compensation for the act, she had already given away more for free than I would ever give for any amt of $$ at work.

    I have given up trying to promote the positive aspects of stripping to my parents.

    This is def a subj where you just have to pick your battles. I have gotten up in ppl's Kool-Aid over this b/c ppl who can't be bothered to try & think beyond any stereotype just piss me the F off, but sm times there is just no winning.

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    Default Re: How Do You "Defend" Your Job?

    Unless you are ready to spend energy debating and proving your point, it's usually worth more to change yourself and how you feel about the job than to change someone else's point of view. I find it helps to being confident and knowing that other peoples opinions are usually based on ignorance, fear, judgements, etc. which have nothing to do with you and more to do with them.

    At the end of the day, as long as you aren't hurting anybody or hurting yourself, being responsible, and you actually enjoy what you do, then it shouldn't make a difference how earn your living.

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