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    Hey guys--

    So I'm not a new dancer, but I quit dancing for three years and I just started back up tonight and finished my first shift (I did pretty well! proud of myself). I owe $40,000 in student loans and they're about to start billing me so I need to make some extra cash.

    I love pole-dancing so I've kept up w/ that-- my legs are pissed at me at the moment for banging them against the pole for ten hours, but they'll get over it-- so that's coming back to me pretty naturally. I'm just having a really hard getting back into the lap dance moves. The booths where I work are really cramped, so I can't do any floor work, but I'm trying to avoid having to grind on guys (which is what they want... it's LA and it's full nude). Are there any videos I could watch or does anyone have any suggestions? I just need some interesting moves to try and deter them from wanting me to grind on them... HATE how dirty LA clubs are, every guy except for two that I danced for wanted to finger me, and I had another guy following me around for an hour asking me how much for me to go home with him, when I told him two minutes into the conversation that I do not do that under ANY circumstances. Ugh!

    Thanks for any help!

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    Default Re: lap dance moves? just got back into dancing

    The Instructional Video Thread has several pages of dance videos, including lap dances: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...l-Video-Thread

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    I went through a phase where I refused to grind on my customers. I resorted to things like laying back on them, at a slight diagonal angle, so that my butt is between their legs and not on their crotches. From there I would pull one leg back behind both of our heads (flexibility required) and pretend to play with myself. I'd just kinda touch myself all over while I leaned back with my face against his neck so he could feel my breath, and maybe use my free hand to run my fingers through his hair. For front-facing action, would sort of kneel over him and hover his crotch either with mine or my thigh, and hold his face so we're nose-to-nose (like kissing but not), then run my free hand over his body slowly - chest-stomach-thigh-knee, back up. I also made a big show of playing with my titties right in front of his face. Sometimes I'd get guys who just really wanted to dry hump me, and that required more of an air-dance. Needless to say, those types usually won't go for seconds if you're not grinding and that's all they want.... *sigh*
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    Excellent link - thanks for sharing, I hadn't seen this yet. :o)

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    The Instructional Video Thread has several pages of dance videos, including lap dances:

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    Are you creative with story telling? I have a core clientele who visits me every week not because I'm pretty, but because I tell fun sex stories. I just sit back in VIP and tell tales of threesomes, orgies, one on one sexual encounters and so on. I make the customer and I the stars of the stories (if they want, some want to be treated like cuckolds). I have one customer who comes in every week, and I spend his entire visit with him. He likes to pretend we are married and we talk about "the kids" and mundane stuff before heading to the VIP room for a couple of hours.

    You can tell if a customer is into this kind of thing before you ask for the dance, usually. He will say something totally inappropriate about wanting to lick your pussy (or similar). If you can handle indulging in his mental fantasy, it can be quite profitable without having to do the grinding or other touching during the dance.

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    I'm good with storytelling. I don't know I'm having some issues with talking in dances as well, so far I've just been quiet because I can't think of things to say and I know that I need to talk because it will extend the number of dances they get. What's like a good opening line?

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    Default Re: lap dance moves? just got back into dancing

    " so, are you a boob guy or a butt guy?"
    " are you enjoying yourself/ having fun tonight?"
    those usually start good conversations for me.
    There is no reason to take it up the ass and then act all butthurt.
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    Default Re: lap dance moves? just got back into dancing

    " so, are you a boob guy or a butt guy?"
    " are you enjoying yourself/ having fun tonight?"
    those usually start good conversations for me.
    There is no reason to take it up the ass and then act all butthurt.
    -Sophia_Starina

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