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    Ok so it's been forever since I've been able to do camming or anything as of late. I've been working for an insurance company making their bullcrap minimum wage. My Internet and landline phone service is being restored this Friday.

    I'm currently registered to streamate. I want to get back into it but its going to be a pain waiting that 3 whole weeks for one paycheck, as I am registered independently. So I've been exploring the options of being a phone sex operator in the meantime of waiting for my SM money. Does anyone have any experience working as a phone actress, and if so, could you offer any suggestions? Also I've been hearing about this niteflirt thing and am curious about how this works. If I were to start with phone sex, what would be a good company to start up with? What did you experience profit wise in the beginning of being a phone actress?

    Im extremely confused with how I am going to go about this.. I don't know what step to take. My mind has been going a million miles a minute with so many other things popping up in terms of my course of action. Any help or suggestion would be appreciated

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    I attempted to use Niteflirt (phone only, not phone with cam) and found it to be a total bust for me. I paid to have my listings bumped up, but I only ever received one call - which I couldn't take anyway, since I was unfortunately on my way to the emergency room with a terrible eye infection. I uploaded a few recordings, hoping for a little passive income. How much have I got in my account? $17.

    I know a number of the girls here make bank on Niteflirt, but it seems to be largely because (1) they've already established themselves there and no longer need to pay to be seen, or (2) they're great at financial domming (which is absolutely not my forte, sadly).






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    Default Re: Lost. Confused. Out of the loop. Need suggestion.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sabihah View Post
    I attempted to use Niteflirt (phone only, not phone with cam) and found it to be a total bust for me. I paid to have my listings bumped up, but I only ever received one call - which I couldn't take anyway, since I was unfortunately on my way to the emergency room with a terrible eye infection. I uploaded a few recordings, hoping for a little passive income. How much have I got in my account? $17.

    I know a number of the girls here make bank on Niteflirt, but it seems to be largely because (1) they've already established themselves there and no longer need to pay to be seen, or (2) they're great at financial domming (which is absolutely not my forte, sadly).
    Do not give up yet, girl. I mean it took me a whole 3 years before learning how to use Niteflirt property. Now, I make bank on there off a few guys who lavish me with big tips and some gifts. You just have to break out of the mold and learn different things. Just keep at and it will be worth your time

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    There are some threads about various PSO companies in the Other Work section.
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    Quote Originally Posted by loveshooks View Post
    I believe on sm there is now an option to turn off the three week hold that used to be automatic on first paychecks. Check your admin panel or message support for more info on that.

    there's a thread for niteflirt located here. Be aware though that most sites do not pay out immediately, so whatever you decide to do chances are you'll have to wait for at least a couple of weeks before you receive a payout. Niteflirt for example pays out once per month. December's earnings won't be sent out until January.



    Focusing on too many options at once when just starting out can be detrimental if it causes your energy and effort to be diffused to the point of scattered, mediocre results. Since you're getting back into this, create a strategy that fits your needs/goals and focus on the steps you need to take to achieve it. If your plan doesn't work, step back and regroup to create a new strategy. This is just my opinion so take it as exactly that, but choosing sites based upon payout schedule isn't a great strategy long term. Camming isn't is an ideal 'short term perspective' field and the most lucrative sites tend to have set payout schedules that range from 2 to 4 weeks when just starting out. If you want $$$$ immediately you'd probably be better off trying dancing.

    good luck with whatever you decide to do.
    Niteflirt pays out a few times per week if you're signed up for express pay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by babyd View Post
    Ok so it's been forever since I've been able to do camming or anything as of late. I've been working for an insurance company making their bullcrap minimum wage. My Internet and landline phone service is being restored this Friday.

    I'm currently registered to streamate. I want to get back into it but its going to be a pain waiting that 3 whole weeks for one paycheck, as I am registered independently. So I've been exploring the options of being a phone sex operator in the meantime of waiting for my SM money. Does anyone have any experience working as a phone actress, and if so, could you offer any suggestions? Also I've been hearing about this niteflirt thing and am curious about how this works. If I were to start with phone sex, what would be a good company to start up with? What did you experience profit wise in the beginning of being a phone actress?

    Im extremely confused with how I am going to go about this.. I don't know what step to take. My mind has been going a million miles a minute with so many other things popping up in terms of my course of action. Any help or suggestion would be appreciated

    Being a phone actress is hard work and you need to do a lot research on different fetishes, companies, and other things. You know making money in phone sex can be hard or easy depending on the person. If you want to become an indie girl or company girl? I do both....by the way you need to look up phone sex in the forums. Because I post about phone sex all the time as do others Here is my suggestion for you You work at your insurance company by day and on the weekends you work at a phone company such as USLove.com or phone sex platform by night such as Niteflirt I hope this helps.

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    This is from the true expert in the field(s)....great advice!
    Quote Originally Posted by loveshooks View Post
    I believe on sm there is now an option to turn off the three week hold that used to be automatic on first paychecks. Check your admin panel or message support for more info on that.

    there's a thread for niteflirt located here. Be aware though that most sites do not pay out immediately, so whatever you decide to do chances are you'll have to wait for at least a couple of weeks before you receive a payout. Niteflirt for example pays out once per month. December's earnings won't be sent out until January.



    Focusing on too many options at once when just starting out can be detrimental if it causes your energy and effort to be diffused to the point of scattered, mediocre results. Since you're getting back into this, create a strategy that fits your needs/goals and focus on the steps you need to take to achieve it. If your plan doesn't work, step back and regroup to create a new strategy. This is just my opinion so take it as exactly that, but choosing sites based upon payout schedule isn't a great strategy long term. Camming isn't is an ideal 'short term perspective' field and the most lucrative sites tend to have set payout schedules that range from 2 to 4 weeks when just starting out. If you want $$$$ immediately you'd probably be better off trying dancing.

    good luck with whatever you decide to do.

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    This is from the true expert in the field(s)....great advice!
    Quote Originally Posted by loveshooks View Post
    I believe on sm there is now an option to turn off the three week hold that used to be automatic on first paychecks. Check your admin panel or message support for more info on that.

    there's a thread for niteflirt located here. Be aware though that most sites do not pay out immediately, so whatever you decide to do chances are you'll have to wait for at least a couple of weeks before you receive a payout. Niteflirt for example pays out once per month. December's earnings won't be sent out until January.



    Focusing on too many options at once when just starting out can be detrimental if it causes your energy and effort to be diffused to the point of scattered, mediocre results. Since you're getting back into this, create a strategy that fits your needs/goals and focus on the steps you need to take to achieve it. If your plan doesn't work, step back and regroup to create a new strategy. This is just my opinion so take it as exactly that, but choosing sites based upon payout schedule isn't a great strategy long term. Camming isn't is an ideal 'short term perspective' field and the most lucrative sites tend to have set payout schedules that range from 2 to 4 weeks when just starting out. If you want $$$$ immediately you'd probably be better off trying dancing.

    good luck with whatever you decide to do.

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    Default Re: Lost. Confused. Out of the loop. Need suggestion.

    Not sure if you have Payoneer or how long their other options take but the ImLive pay period ends on the 15th and they'll send out Payoneer loads (everything you earned up to 12 AM EST) on the morning of the 16th. I don't recall any waiting period when I started there.

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    Correct me if i am wrong - but even the express pay takes 10 days to show up - thats what it seems like to me - although you can keep it active and your pay will be sent every few days - it still takes a few days to show up

    as someone else suggested - maybe sign up where they send you calls and work on NF a little at a time untill you get out of your crunch situation - it is worth it but it just takes a little longer to get there - some categories are a little easier to move up in than others

    there is a private group here for NF but the lady who moderates it has been absent lately - maybe send her a message and you can get in whenever she comes back - vivianbear -- good luck

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    I started with phone sex, before I knew about camming, and I got most of my info from a discussion board like this one, but specifically for pso. Just google phone sex operator discussion boards and it should pop up.
    I worked for a horrible company that made me work from a landline, and work for 9 hours, 5 days per week-no breaks! it was unbearable. Plus 99% of the calls were from pedophiles. I was totally disgusted!
    I've been signed up with niteflirt, and verifiedcall, and even though I promote both, have never gotten a single call in almost a year.
    Too bad, because dirty talk and playing characters is my 'thing'.
    Good luck with whatever You choose.

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    Hey guys thank you for all of your information. I'm currently researching many pso options along with getting myself back in line with streamate.. I've got a few of my regs that are so sad about my absence from there my sm Inbox is filling up.. So as of Friday ill be back in the loop with not only sm but other options I've been seeking as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nikki_Fox View Post
    Correct me if i am wrong - but even the express pay takes 10 days to show up - thats what it seems like to me - although you can keep it active and your pay will be sent every few days - it still takes a few days to show up

    as someone else suggested - maybe sign up where they send you calls and work on NF a little at a time untill you get out of your crunch situation - it is worth it but it just takes a little longer to get there - some categories are a little easier to move up in than others

    there is a private group here for NF but the lady who moderates it has been absent lately - maybe send her a message and you can get in whenever she comes back - vivianbear -- good luck
    Express pay generally takes from five to seven days to show up in my bank account. (they say it's not late until it's been ten business days but I've NEVER had to wait that long.

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