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    I'm wondering what is the better body to have? I'm 108 lbs 32DD(37)-25-33 5'1" I just don't like my body doesn't have as much definition as it used to it doesn't stick out but it's just not perfect without effort like before. I have a decent butt it's just not wide because my hips are narrow so I don't have a thigh gap and am a size 1. I have DD cups that look fake because they're perky and very round but are real. I really like these qualities. To get to those weight I usually eat mcds and soda. And I'm sedentary. I dance and can move a lot when I want to but not always.



    Now I feel most confident when I have a flat waistline. Usually that's at 23.8-24.5.

    I usually eat healthier homemade food and drink water I go down to at least 96 lbs initially and gradually hover around 84-91 lbs.

    At this weight I'm a 32C with a 23.8" waist and 31" hips at the most. I'm mostly swimming in 0's and butt is never flat but it's rather small my thighs are 16-17 inches. My waistline is flat: my breasts are medium large in size but large for my small size then. And I get still the same remarks as if they're fake.




    anyhow, I feel most confident skinny but I'm curious to know if curvier dancers or flatter dancers get more? How much focus is on the waistline?

    did you fine being curvy or being slim and toned made you more successful? Jw?
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    Obviously, in this industry our body is our business-so we are expected to be slim, toned etc (just like we are expected to wear stripper heels). It's part of the uniform. But, not everyone is slim and no body is perfect-we are all just very good at pretending that we are and disguising the fact that we aren't.

    I think that this is a question you answered for yourself-you felt better when you were slimmer. This means that you were probably more confident then. Men are more forgiving of our flaws than we are and as long as a girl is sexy, confident as has a good hustle they usually are happy to spend time with them. It's important to act confident on the outside, even when you don't feel it on the inside-a lack of it, is not sexy or fun and guys can sense it . "Fake it 'til you make it", as they say.

    Even at your current weight, you are not "curvy" or "big" by ANY means! But it's hard to feel good about yourself when you feel like you aren't "at your best" or don't look the way you used to or like to. If you felt more confident and happier at your previous weight-why not work towards getting back to that weight (where you felt more comfortable)? Or, dress to hide and disguise areas that you aren't fond of.

    Putting on or loosing weight never made a difference to my earnings. It made a difference to my "actual" confidence OTC, but not that anyone could notice ITC.
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    yeah i'd like to bug into the subject at 5'4 height and 100 lbs i have wide hips and tiny waist full b-cup boobs, i wonder how much weight will i still have to loose to make my hips tiny and narrow like yours ,i never had under 100lbs maybe that's where you really start to look skinny at my height but idk i think bones frame also dictates your shape,for example you don't have a gap at size 1 i have a gap at size 4
    overall you can't change bone structure , after diet and gym i ended up with my rib cage showing but still a big ass and wide hips ,i belive curvy will forever be a successful shape because it makes man think you are a fertile woman (and this is around since the beggining of time ) but at my job size 0 girls get wayyy more attention ,this is the reason why i lost weight in the first place,lost my big c-cup boobs it can easier to be graceful when you look and feel light but to many girls this can't happen without hard work and maintenance

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    yeah i'd like to bug into the subject at 5'4 height and 100 lbs i have wide hips and tiny waist full b-cup boobs, i wonder how much weight will i still have to loose to make my hips tiny and narrow like yours ,i never had under 100lbs maybe that's where you really start to look skinny at my height but idk i think bones frame also dictates your shape,for example you don't have a gap at size 1 i have a gap at size 4
    overall you can't change bone structure , after diet and gym i ended up with my rib cage showing but still a big ass and wide hips ,i belive curvy will forever be a successful shape because it makes man think you are a fertile woman (and this is around since the beggining of time ) but at my job size 0 girls get wayyy more attention ,this is the reason why i lost weight in the first place,lost my big c-cup boobs it can easier to be graceful when you look and feel light but to many girls this can't happen without hard work and maintenance

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    I don't make any more when I'm at my thinnest, which is probably at the top end of "thin." If I gain 5-10 lbs I'm borderline thick. Zero difference and here I am changing categories. You're very thin either way though. If you notice a difference in income, it's probably just because of your confidence. You look great in all your pics.

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    Do what makes you happy and fuck everyone else. I will point out that when I was Fatty Mcfatfat at 5'0 150 llbs and a size 9 my options were severely limited to low end dives and mid tier with lenient mgt. Now at 120 llbs and a size 3 I have more options open to me. Some places have told me no but it's not for being fat, it's because I'm heavily tatted but I accepted that long ago.
    You're not fat by any means.
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    Right, that was going to be my caveat -- I still have a hard time getting hired at the pickiest clubs at my low weight unless I make myself look like a stereotypical stripper in every other way, forget it if I'm a little thick (I have small boobs). I'm certain that customers at upscale clubs would still spend at my heaviest if given the chance but all it takes to limit your earning ceiling by the thousands is one hiring manager. I didn't bother adding the caveat though because even at her heaviest the OP looks like a goddamn Barbie.

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    I don't think anyone should be happy being unhealthy, whether you love your body image or not health over everything. If you're healthy and happy good for you. I dont recommend you wanting to be bigger though. Slim curvy girls are usually better rated. If youre a natural BBW and youve always been that way and its your niche good for you. But I dont know why people would ever want to alter their weight (for the worst imo) for the prospect of tapping into a new audience/market. Makes no sense to me.

    I am a 32f bust and a size 10 clothes. I'm slim and curvy but I wish my bum was a bit bigger. I'm now getting a tummy which is annoying me so I'm planning on flattening that out pronto. Buff slim bodies are the best to me and I always get complimented on how amazing my body is. Dont go chubby if youre not already bb.
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    I have always seen super tiny girls with boobs be the most consistent earners at the club. 9 years of observation. Get your hustle on!

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    I work in ATL and it seems like the thicker, the better for the two clubs I've worked at and what I've seen during my regular visits to other clubs.i really think men's preference changes depending on the region.
    If ya don't have a lot of booty in ATL, ya better have a looot of personality.a lot.
    BUT i do see a lot of Spinners going to VIP with old businessmen, ESP the big boob type.and the guys who like boobs don't care if they're natural or not, as long as they're big.lol
    I feel like my body type (5'2", 34B, size 5/7, petite yet very curvy & big booty) attracts many more latinos, black guys, & couples than the business man type or young guy type.
    There is money to be made, regardless of body type! Have fun, love yourself, love what u do & prosperity will ensue! :-)
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    I work in ATL and it seems like the thicker, the better for the two clubs I've worked at and what I've seen during my regular visits to other clubs.i really think men's preference changes depending on the region.
    If ya don't have a lot of booty in ATL, ya better have a looot of personality.a lot.
    BUT i do see a lot of Spinners going to VIP with old businessmen, ESP the big boob type.and the guys who like boobs don't care if they're natural or not, as long as they're big.lol
    I feel like my body type (5'2", 34B, size 5/7, petite yet very curvy & big booty) attracts many more latinos, black guys, & couples than the business man type or young guy type.
    There is money to be made, regardless of body type! Have fun, love yourself, love what u do & prosperity will ensue! :-)
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    Quote Originally Posted by OliveJardin View Post
    Obviously, in this industry our body is our business-so we are expected to be slim, toned etc (just like we are expected to wear stripper heels). It's part of the uniform. But, not everyone is slim and no body is perfect-we are all just very good at pretending that we are and disguising the fact that we aren't.

    I think that this is a question you answered for yourself-you felt better when you were slimmer. This means that you were probably more confident then. Men are more forgiving of our flaws than we are and as long as a girl is sexy, confident as has a good hustle they usually are happy to spend time with them. It's important to act confident on the outside, even when you don't feel it on the inside-a lack of it, is not sexy or fun and guys can sense it . "Fake it 'til you make it", as they say.

    Even at your current weight, you are not "curvy" or "big" by ANY means! But it's hard to feel good about yourself when you feel like you aren't "at your best" or don't look the way you used to or like to. If you felt more confident and happier at your previous weight-why not work towards getting back to that weight (where you felt more comfortable)? Or, dress to hide and disguise areas that you aren't fond of.

    Putting on or loosing weight never made a difference to my earnings. It made a difference to my "actual" confidence OTC, but not that anyone could notice ITC.
    Well honestly that's my problem. I'm not curvy do when I gain weight it shows more than it would for a ear shaped woman. But my breasts kind of back it up and conceal it.

    I've actually noticed that I do tend to get more attention from men with my current body type but my waistline is a problem because I have to stand up very straight for it to look ok.

    Also I fell asleep before I could add the pics sorry.

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    you need to feel confident to make money, first of all. like right now i'm not confident at all because i need to put some weight on and my confident has dropped dramatically as well as my earnings. i think you look fine both ways ( altho in your skinny pictures you are reaaalllyyyy tiny, like i don't think i've ever seen a tinier girl IRL) yet you have big boobs..small yet curvy is pretty much the gold standard in the clubs. i don't see a huge different in your pictures, so rock it either way!

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    Quote Originally Posted by willwork4shoes View Post
    yeah i'd like to bug into the subject at 5'4 height and 100 lbs i have wide hips and tiny waist full b-cup boobs, i wonder how much weight will i still have to loose to make my hips tiny and narrow like yours ,i never had under 100lbs maybe that's where you really start to look skinny at my height but idk i think bones frame also dictates your shape,for example you don't have a gap at size 1 i have a gap at size 4
    overall you can't change bone structure , after diet and gym i ended up with my rib cage showing but still a big ass and wide hips ,i belive curvy will forever be a successful shape because it makes man think you are a fertile woman (and this is around since the beggining of time ) but at my job size 0 girls get wayyy more attention ,this is the reason why i lost weight in the first place,lost my big c-cup boobs it can easier to be graceful when you look and feel light but to many girls this can't happen without hard work and maintenance
    Yeah it sounds like you're a great shape like a pear. If I were a pear I wouldn't really care about what weight I was actually think it's better to be average sized as a pear than really tiny. I'm kind of stuck in between. Honestly feel more feminine at this size my shape is inverted triangle or top heavy broad shoulders fat distribute on my breasts first then waist or butt. My hips stay very narrow. So when I gain weight in my waistline it almost looks like my stomach is bigger than my hips almost. I have more of a masculine build but it's actually more obvious when I'm skinnier because I don't have a butt and my shoulders become more obvious due to a small waist and body. But I never really minded myself I liked it since I still had C cups. But I know usually visually it's not the best thing to have a masculine build with big breasts really. But I'm quite small and delicate it kind of just adds to being petit small delicate. So I've always just felt more confident being less curvy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Do what makes you happy and fuck everyone else. I will point out that when I was Fatty Mcfatfat at 5'0 150 llbs and a size 9 my options were severely limited to low end dives and midtier with lenientlenient mgt. Now at 120 llbs and a size 3 I have more options open to me. Some places have told me no but it's not for being fat, it's because I'm heavily tatted but I accepted that long ago.
    You're not fat by any means.
    Thanks, I don't think I'm fat just like my weight is really showing when I gain weight and its a known fact weight gain is not a friend to my body shape.
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    I don't make any more when I'm at my thinnest, which is probably at the top end of "thin." If I gain 5-10 lbs I'm borderline thick. Zero difference and here I am changing categories. You're very thin either way though. If you notice a difference in income, it's probably just because of your confidence. You look great in all your pics.
    Yeah I guess you're right. Because I was pretty careless before I gained weight. I want a confidence I can genuinely embrace.



    Quote Originally Posted by lol1337a View Post
    Right, that was going to be my caveat -- I still have a hard time getting hired at the pickiest clubs at my low weight unless I make myself look like a stereotypical stripper in every other way, forget it if I'm a little thick (I have small boobs). I'm certain that customers at upscale clubs would still spend at my heaviest if given the chance but all it takes to limit your earning ceiling by the thousands is one hiring manager. I didn't bother adding the caveat though because even at her heaviest the OP looks like a goddamn Barbie.
    Thanks I wish but I'm top heavy and I'm reading about inverted triangle shapes weight like 10 more lbs and I could get a muffin top it's all about distribution which is my worry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nubienneAW View Post
    I don't think anyone should be happy being unhealthy, whether you love your body image or not health over everything. If you're healthy and happy good for you. I dont recommend you wanting to be bigger though. Slim curvy girls are usually better rated. If youre a natural BBW and youve always been that way and its your niche good for you. But I dont know why people would ever want to alter their weight (for the worst imo) for the prospect of tapping into a new audience/market. Makes no sense to me.

    I am a 32f bust and a size 10 clothes. I'm slim and curvy but I wish my bum was a bit bigger. I'm now getting a tummy which is annoying me so I'm planning on flattening that out pronto. Buff slim bodies are the best to me and I always get complimented on how amazing my body is. Dont go chubby if youre not already bb.
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    I'm not a bbw I'm just a little round. Also you look great.

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    I've got the same exact issue (same height, weight fluctuations, everything) except my boobs actually are fake (they were a 30c or 32b before so they only looked decently sized bc I was small). I've gained some weight from working out with weights and also eating more and I don't like it. I prefer being skinnier even if I can't work out. I just feel bulky now and dont like how my clothes fit and dont like how I can't look good at any posture, exactly like you said. I think you're better off doing what YOU like because that's ultimately the most important.

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