Obviously, in this industry our body is our business-so we are expected to be slim, toned etc (just like we are expected to wear stripper heels). It's part of the uniform. But, not everyone is slim and no body is perfect-we are all just very good at pretending that we are and disguising the fact that we aren't.
I think that this is a question you answered for yourself-you felt better when you were slimmer. This means that you were probably more confident then. Men are more forgiving of our flaws than we are and as long as a girl is sexy, confident as has a good hustle they usually are happy to spend time with them. It's important to act confident on the outside, even when you don't feel it on the inside-a lack of it, is not sexy or fun and guys can sense it

. "Fake it 'til you make it", as they say.
Even at your current weight, you are not "curvy" or "big" by ANY means! But it's hard to feel good about yourself when you feel like you aren't "at your best" or don't look the way you used to or like to. If you felt more confident and happier at your previous weight-why not work towards getting back to that weight (where you felt more comfortable)? Or, dress to hide and disguise areas that you aren't fond of.
Putting on or loosing weight never made a difference to my earnings. It made a difference to my "actual" confidence OTC, but not that anyone could notice ITC.
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