Ok a bit morbid but the individual I'm talking about was murdered. I think because he was bisexual or gay but not really because he did have likely a child or 2 never married exclusively dated women.
This was long ago. It kind of seems for that to be true because his murder wasn't random and likely done by someone who was a homophobe who pretended to be gay to earn his trust and may have been serial killer who targeted him because he was at some level homosexual or had homosexual desires. And the investigators believed it was someone who was, well I guess, a potential sexual partner/encounter. And it seemed the culprit was a man and that's who the investigators were looking for. And from what we know he was strangled while nude and put upside down in the closet of all places. Very seemingly planned out. The victim was an alcoholic and at bars all the time and lived on top of a bar. So it would make sense to me to believe that obviously it was a drunken hook up gone wrong with obviously a man. Since this guy was in the navy and almost 6ft tall. Therefore, making the victim bisexual, plus his brothers were likely gay as well. And plus what I heard with my mom who actually knew him much better than I knew him. She said he had in the past said something that seemed like he was bisexual. And when talking to my mother the last thing you want to be is anything having to do with gay people. She's a staunch conservative and hates all homosexuals transsexuals bisexuals heteroflexibles pansexuals you name it. So it seems like he was bisexual. Which I don't really care either way.but it's apart of the story. To say that I lost a male relative to a deadly hook up. People tend to have questions pretty fast.
I only talk about his story like when a few friends and I were talking about hooking up on craigslist. Things of that nature where it has to do with safety situations. It rarely comes up. But like there was something on fb I wanted to post but didn't want to exactly offend anyone because his family is on my friends list. Is it wrong to say that? And if so why? More the message is safety rather than orientation. But it is also a part of the story. Advice?



Reply With Quote

Bookmarks