Thanks in advance for Your advice, and opinions.
There's this new tenant in the hi-rise that started out by just saying hello, and making small talk. I live in a bldg.where if someone says more than 'hello', it's odd, because people keep to themselves, and I love it that way.
Anyway, I was doing laundry in the community laundry room, she came in, and started chatting. I was her captive audience because I had 4 loads and I was going to be there quite a while.
She was bragging about her 'sugar daddy', etc, I liked hearing about it, because I follow LOA=Law of Attraction, so It was good for me to hear that if a 50 year old woman could snag a sd, then I could too.
It got weird for me when she asked which side of the bldg. I was on. and what my view was of. After I told her, she mentioned that she heard it was the best view, and told me she wanted to come over that night to see it! Huh?? NOO!!!
I didn't know that's where she was going with her questions so was stumped. I quickly tried to change the subject, but she asked what floor I was on. I lied, and said I was busy, But when both of us got into the elevator, she saw what floor I got off on.
I don't feel comfortable telling her to 'F..off,' (which I really want to do),because I will run into her again.
I feel that she is such a pushy broad, and if I let her come over, she will become a pest. Keep in mind my front door is a few feet to where I cam. My sub-lease condo is so tiny that everything I own is out in the open.
Your Suggestions how to handle her delicately.
Thanks, Glam
**Addendum to add~ Thanks everyone for Your suggestions. I wrote the above much earlier today, just before I logged on to try to do some camming before my Dr's appt. I want to point out that she is not lonely and looking for a friend- I know this because I saw her in the supermarket a few weeks ago, and she totally blew me off, when her phone rang.(I ease dropped, and she was just talking to her friend about the weather). Also, when she first moved in, and introduced herself, I told her that I have a couple of other filepino friends I could introduce her to. She said she was too busy.
I believe she is trying to get in here to have me admit that I am subleasing this condo from my friend(it is illegal to do that under the strict HOA's). You can't even have people sleep over for more than 3 days. My friend and I had to pay some 'hush' money just so I could get in.
There is a waiting list for these condos, because most of the tenants stay here until they die, and most hand it down to their children.
My friend bought this unit many years ago, with part of her inheritance, but now these tiny units sell for 2.5 million, and up, and the HOA"S are $2000 per month. When I mentioned to her in the laundry room, that she should just move to this side of the bldg., she told me about the waiting list.
All she needs is for me to slip up and confide in her, and My friend loses this place, and I'm out on my ass. I'm sure she already knows this because she probably pumped the night guard for info. he's a big blabbermouth.
I'm just going to have to use the "I'm really busy" excuse, every time I see her, and hope for the best.
As far as her knocking at my door, I just don't want her to hear any of my 'obscenities' that I use while camming. I already have a huge 'mover's blanket against the door, but most of the surrounding neighbors are cool, and mind their own business.



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