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    Last night was my third night at my club, and I got really drunk. Mix that with the fact that I was absolutely exhausted, I went to my car to lay down for a bit, forgot to set an alarm... and next thing I know it's 6am and my club is closed.

    I have to go back there today to get all my clothes and make up and whatnot, and I feel like they're gonna fire me. I'm pretty sure it was obvious I was drinking (you're not supposed to drink but most people do... however the manager last night is apparently really anti-drinking) and I just disappeared, lol. I didn't even pay/tip out... I mean, I made $5 on stage and did no dances, so I don't think they would have charged me anything, but still.

    Does anyone have any advice of what I should say?

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    Sounds like a tricky situation. Could you try to pass off your intoxication as you not feeling very well? Or maybe adjusting to a new medication? Alternately, you could come clean and hope you wind up with something like a warning.

    Good luck. I wish I had better advice.

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    Default Re: so i fucked up...

    was it in the middle of your shift that you randomly went out and never came back? did you miss stage sets that they are strict about?
    just come in, say you were feeling very sick and forgot to set your alarm, and just really be apologetic. that's all you can really do.

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    I could try, but I feel like it was obvious... some of the girls saw me drinking, and if they touched my stuff then they probably saw some of the wine coolers I was drinking.

    I'm worried if I try that route it might make things worse, cause they'll know I'm lying? I don't know, I don't think telling them I was wasted is much better either tho!

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    they're not super strict about stage sets, it was around 1am I think so like two more hours were left of my shift. UGH I can't believe I did that, I am so embarrassed/pissed at myself right now.

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    Default Re: so i fucked up...

    Go back today, ask to speak to the manager privately, be honest and apologize, assure them you learned your lesson and it won't happen again. offer to pay double tip out or something.

    Let us know how it goes.

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    They didn't fire me! OMG so relieved. I would have been so upset if they had fired me because I really like it there.

    I went in and the main manager was there-- I used to work at this club a few years ago so he knows me-- and I told him I fell asleep. It was a very short convo, he basically just said that he understands I may need to loosen up but to keep it under control and be discreet because he doesn't want a party atmosphere at the club, and when am I working next? lol.

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    Glad it worked out! I honestly would have been pretty surprised if you had been fired over this -- in the grand scheme of things, disappearing 2 hours before a shift ends is on the minor end of the spectrum of shit dancers do.

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    Yay! Glad it worked out in your favor, Audrey.

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    Default Re: so i fucked up...

    If you are a good money maker, it takes a lot more than getting drunk and passing out to get fired. You pretty much have to do something massively illegal and/or dangerous to get fired from a stripping job.

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    I don't know it wouldn't have surprised me to be honest, I've seen SO many girls get fired from my club. Almost everyone I used to work with was fired, and they were good money makers. But I think he was willing to let it slide because I have a good history with them-- I work really hard when I'm there, I work often and if they call me and ask me to come in unless I have something important to do I generally come in, and this incident aside I am generally pretty drama free. He was more just joking with me about whether
    or not I was going to behave, lol.

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    I worked last night and everything was good! Except for the fact that I just bought new heels-- 7", higher than I've been walking in-- and everytime I stumbled a little bit in them EVERYONE asked me "have you been drinking again???!!" I think it's going to take them a while to trust me again since they now seem to think I'm such a drinker! Which is hilarious to me because I drink so rarely and have no tolerance, which is why I got so sloshed that night.

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    omg I totally can relate to you audrey! Even though I haven't passed out in my car before, I've worked at a couple clubs where I really embarassed myself and was so scared to come back because I was afraid I'd be fired too. Usually if you're nice to everyone, regularly make the club a lot of money, don't cause drama, and only really do something stupid because of alcohol they're more forgiving. Definitely don't drink for a few shifts though so they can see you aren't a raging alcoholic who's gonna be doing that on the reg! lol

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    Glad it worked out Audrey!


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