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    So I finally took the plunge and interviewed for a lap dance party! It was going well and I was told that I would have to work at least three Friday shifts before being invited to the (more lucrative) Wednesday and Thursday shifts but I never got invited back to this fourth Friday shift! Am I fired? Did the manager just forget? Are there too many new girls? Now I'm feeling kind of mopey and overanalyzing all the things that could be wrong with me; hustle too hard, not enough hustle, tits too small, ass too big. I feel totally crazy.

    Oh well. I might text the manager this Monday just to see if it I can work any shift next week. Until then it's back to camming and schoolwork. If I'm not hustling for $$$ then I gotta hustle for some A's!

    Has anybody had luck with the NYC lap dance parties? I don't really want to name any names in forum but feel free to PM me.

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    Default Re: Fired from Lap Dance Party : (

    So, how exactly do these invitations work? Are you told on one Friday that you're working the following Friday? Random text or call throughout the week? In any case, there's nothing to be lost from simply texting the manager like you want to. You could even just do it today for your own peace of mind. It's possible the manager forgot or overbooked or whatever else, but you'll only find out by asking!

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    Thanks, Shana. The way it works is you're sent a text the morning of the party. So I was kind of hoping for a text invitation this Wednesday or Thursday morning but alas. There was none! And now none this Friday too. You're right, I have nothing to lose. It just put a little damper on my day.

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    I worked for a private party company for a while and I would completely not worry about it. My manager forgot about girls, forgot he hired girls, forgot they needed pictures, didn't text until 2 hrs before a party, and would sometimes forget about me (and everyone but the 6' tall blonde) until we texted him and were like, "(name) wtf where you been! Parties?" And he was like, "Yea... 6pm?" Text him and don't be shy. I would not even be surprised or annoyed if he just forgot.

    My impression of private parties was the most cliche stripper-esque you could get. Running late, disorganized, hormonal, dramatic, high maintenance and lots of drinking.

    DISCLAIMER! I know all strippers are not like that, but I'm talking about the ones that are. I know everyone's met at least one like this.

    Your company might not be like my company was, but here's the good news:
    My security was great, he was amazing about no pictures, I made a ton of money and he only took part of the $300 it was to show up. If the people were awful he would cut the show early, and if they were great tippers he would stay with us until their money ran out and NOT charge us any extra!! I loved it! He really took care of us.

    I have no idea what you look like, but 'girl next door' looks never really stayed with us for long. It might be different per location, but a lot of parties want what they think of as "Strippers".
    And definitely get out if you don't feel comfortable, I feel this was some of the most dangerous work I've ever done and I had pretty good people with me most of the time.

    Hope this helps!

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    Default Re: Fired from Lap Dance Party : (

    Quote Originally Posted by Miss.dk View Post
    I have no idea what you look like, but 'girl next door' looks never really stayed with us for long. It might be different per location, but a lot of parties want what they think of as "Strippers".
    And definitely get out if you don't feel comfortable, I feel this was some of the most dangerous work I've ever done and I had pretty good people with me most of the time.

    Hope this helps!
    Interesting! This whole party bills itself as "girl next door" with a non-strippery vibe. There's no boots or gowns. Only cocktail dresses. Super big boobs and gaudy costume jewelry are frowned upon. Brunettes are very popular. No stage show. It feels really safe too. No champagne room or private rooms. Just one big 'ole couch room for the lap grinding!

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