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    I about to start working in a mostly white strip club as a black dancer who thick small waist and big ass.. What hair color/ outfits do you luv seeing on a medium toned brown skinned girl??? What look you can't resist on a black girl?? Thanks in advance

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    Hair color should be plain black only. Some blonde highlights perhaps, but ideally not.

    Outfits, I like to see a contrast with skin color. Nice quality white top and bottom. Stick with solid colors also. White, red, yellow, pink...no blues or greens.

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    Hi Goddess, thanks for asking! You know everyone's different, so I'm only answering for myself. I like hair that looks natural and nice to the touch, even if I don't get to touch it. The only style I don't like is the big, structured hairdos, like from the sixties (or Steel Magnolias, that kind of thing.). Probably my favorite look is long and straight and partly covering the face, kind of like Jessica Rabbit. Very sexy!

    For the outfit, I like something a little costumey. My favorite on an ebony dancer is a little jungle-like with animal prints and such. Or you could play cross type and do Catholic schoolgirl. What fun! For me, just anything that shows you put some thought into it and didn't just throw on a bikini and a set of heels.

    What can't I resist on a black girl? A big generous smile and a warm heart. That and some tight shorts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by goddess30 View Post
    I about to start working in a mostly white strip club as a black dancer who thick small waist and big ass.. What hair color/ outfits do you luv seeing on a medium toned brown skinned girl??? What look you can't resist on a black girl?? Thanks in advance
    If you have a big ass for gods sake do not wear the thongs so low on the hips, like so many girls are doing now. Not only is it getting really old as a fashion trend, but it always makes the ass look wider and the legs shorter. Some fads need to pass a lot sooner than others lol!
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    I always thought lavender contrasted beautifully with darker skin, but that's just one man's opinion.
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    Amway wear tight cloths, like a tight short dress with stripper shoes. When a girl black or white shoes them curve , I go nuts.

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    Thanks for the info everyone, its really helpful. I would like to know how do you guys/ girls feel about ref/ burgundy hair on a black girl? Which is better light bown hair, black hair, or golden blond hair on medium brown skin? When i was working at a previous club and in tge (real world) lol alot of customers think I'm Dominican..

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    I know I'm a white dancer, but I work with about 40% black women with an 80% white clientele. The black girls who make money don't look at all like each other. The one thing they have in common is that they take on a white dialect when talking to the customers. I've also noticed they do the same thing when talking to the white dancers they work with. When the black girls talk to each other, their natural accents are obvious.

    *I hope to god this doesn't sound racist. I speak (really bad) Spanish to Latino customers and it works to help me earn more money. The customer wants to be able to relate to the girls. The more you can make them think you are just like them, the more money you will make.

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    I’m a white guy but do most of my clubbing in all-black clubs b/c I love the chocolate – even in mixed clubs; I almost always gravitate toward the black dancers.

    We all have our preferences and there isn’t one right answer. Me personally I am all about the body; hair/hair-color and outfit will not determine if I want dances from a dancer; it’s always her bod for me and why I like black dancers (i.e. great bods).

    IMO dark skin is sexier than pale skin and I love curves – translation – the more skin/curves you show the better IMO – as a black woman; you not only have a different skin tone; but you probably have more curves than ur white counterparts; so why not advertise/emphasize what may be particular to you – translation; show off what u have by showing skin/your-curves

    w.r.t. hair – I personally; & perhaps most white custies; are not into crazy black hairstyles & for me personally any color is fine as long as hair is nicely styled

    w.r.t. outfits; if u got curves, then show them off by wearing outfits that reveal/showoff what u got; why hide it under fabric; show what u got (e.g. g-strings; etc., – things that do not cover up ur best assets) – on dark-skinned dancers; white; yellow; pink; or neon, is a nice contrast

    one last thing as a whitey who loves chocolate – if u notice a white custie looking @ u; it could very well be b/c he likes ur “differentness” – so that is someone u should def approach – always try to keep an eye out for the custie that may be checking u out; you may just be what he is looking for.

    Good luck.

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    Thanks alots everyone

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    I am a brown skinned girl myself and I when I'm not wearing black, black and more black I go for color. Red always gets compliments, I find not a lot of girls wear it but it looks so good on. I also Have a two piece set that is neon green and I love it! I have tried all colors honestly and I suggest you do the same. Find what colors work best and then tailor your outfits to fit. I also wear a lot of dresses. With dresses I will sometimes pin my hair up into an updo and the white men really love it. As far as hair I am a wig fanatic. I wear straight or curly. I usually wear jet black, or a number 1. Number 4 looks good as well. I have one wig from misswigs.com thats a reddish color with brown highlights and it is absolutely beautiful. When I wore it to Christies this one customer kept telling me how beautiful my hair was especially with my green outfit. I've never been a blonde, although I have had brown with blonde I just don't know about it. I don't want to look crazy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissIesha View Post
    I am a brown skinned girl myself and I when I'm not wearing black, black and more black I go for color. Red always gets compliments, I find not a lot of girls wear it but it looks so good on. I also Have a two piece set that is neon green and I love it! I have tried all colors honestly and I suggest you do the same. Find what colors work best and then tailor your outfits to fit. I also wear a lot of dresses. With dresses I will sometimes pin my hair up into an updo and the white men really love it. As far as hair I am a wig fanatic. I wear straight or curly. I usually wear jet black, or a number 1. Number 4 looks good as well. I have one wig from misswigs.com thats a reddish color with brown highlights and it is absolutely beautiful. When I wore it to Christies this one customer kept telling me how beautiful my hair was especially with my green outfit. I've never been a blonde, although I have had brown with blonde I just don't know about it. I don't want to look crazy.
    I wear wigs as well..lol I want to try number 4 but been skeptical about it. I've seen black girls do blonde hair and some look nice and some look crazy. If i ever do blonde it would be highlights. If you don't mind me asking do you make more money having black hair or number 4 hair color?

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    Actually costume is not all that dependent on ethnic background, but for my taste I would recommend softer fabrics with middle tones (not dayglow colors). Soft materials with a bit of see through. Work you curves... a flirtatious skirt hugging a nice set of hips will get my attention any time. Avoid the hard edge outfits (leather, PVC... ).

    Play the curvy, the soft, the seductive....

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    You have gotten sm very good advice here, but as one poster pointed out, there is not really a right answer. A lot of make or break choices will depend on the clientele in a particular club. Have you gone to any of the clubs you want to work at as a customer? Among other things that will give you a good idea of the kinds of looks that make the girls there $$. Other than that is is just figuring out what colours or hairstyles best accentuate your skin tone, face shape, etc. Once you've gotten sm time under your belt, if you find that you are able to rock an edgier persona & make $$ from it, maybe you can even give the leather a try

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    Quote Originally Posted by goddess30 View Post
    Thanks for the info everyone, its really helpful. I would like to know how do you guys/ girls feel about ref/ burgundy hair on a black girl? Which is better light bown hair, black hair, or golden blond hair on medium brown skin? When i was working at a previous club and in tge (real world) lol alot of customers think I'm Dominican..
    dominicans can be black white or asian
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    I know^^ but I'm not Dominican, I'm African American....

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    Not all Africans are black, or all-dark. Just sayin.

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    In my humble opinion, and base on my experience, I think sometimes some ladies try to do too much at once. I'm not black, but I know a few black ladies. And if you're dark skin makeup, wigs, bright colors, will stand out more. For example, when it comes to makeup, you should pick wether you want your eye makeup or your lips to stand out, not both at the same time. Also, your makeup, shouldn't be too bright. As for clothes, the same applies. You don't want a dress with too much going on, specially if you're curvy. A simple, solid color dress will do, and if you want to add a bit more, maybe you can pick something with a little bit of lace, or very few rhinestone, but if you're wearing a bright color, keep it simple.

    The hair, is very important. I think you should stck to natural black or dark brown. Very black straight hair, looks highly unnatural on black girls, blonde or red can draw too much attention to the hair. There's very few black ladies that can pull off the light brown hair, such as Beyonce. But you're here to make money, so stay safe and go for a natural black, yacky wavy hair. Please do not do remy, is too shiny, too straight, and it looks insanely fake.

    Over all, you should be drawing attention to your self entirely. You don't want to stand out because of your blue eye shadow,your orange lipstick or your too light for your skin hair. You want to be a complete package, a hot buxom overall, and with your curvy body you already have that. No need to sprinkle sugar on top.

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    im white as they come, but i do work with black girls..and there is one really dark chocolatey one who looks gorgeous in white! the contrast is stunning and eye-catching, not to mention white just looks great under the black lights.
    i also think neons looks great on tan/darker skin

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    Quote Originally Posted by LaPatrona View Post
    In my humble opinion, and base on my experience, I think sometimes some ladies try to do too much at once. I'm not black, but I know a few black ladies. And if you're dark skin makeup, wigs, bright colors, will stand out more. For example, when it comes to makeup, you should pick wether you want your eye makeup or your lips to stand out, not both at the same time. Also, your makeup, shouldn't be too bright. As for clothes, the same applies. You don't want a dress with too much going on, specially if you're curvy. A simple, solid color dress will do, and if you want to add a bit more, maybe you can pick something with a little bit of lace, or very few rhinestone, but if you're wearing a bright color, keep it simple.

    The hair, is very important. I think you should stck to natural black or dark brown. Very black straight hair, looks highly unnatural on black girls, blonde or red can draw too much attention to the hair. There's very few black ladies that can pull off the light brown hair, such as Beyonce. But you're here to make money, so stay safe and go for a natural black, yacky wavy hair. Please do not do remy, is too shiny, too straight, and it looks insanely fake.

    Over all, you should be drawing attention to your self entirely. You don't want to stand out because of your blue eye shadow,your orange lipstick or your too light for your skin hair. You want to be a complete package, a hot buxom overall, and with your curvy body you already have that. No need to sprinkle sugar on top.
    Wowww great advice.. Thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by LaPatrona View Post
    In my humble opinion, and base on my experience, I think sometimes some ladies try to do too much at once. I'm not black, but I know a few black ladies. And if you're dark skin makeup, wigs, bright colors, will stand out more. For example, when it comes to makeup, you should pick wether you want your eye makeup or your lips to stand out, not both at the same time. Also, your makeup, shouldn't be too bright. As for clothes, the same applies. You don't want a dress with too much going on, specially if you're curvy. A simple, solid color dress will do, and if you want to add a bit more, maybe you can pick something with a little bit of lace, or very few rhinestone, but if you're wearing a bright color, keep it simple.

    The hair, is very important. I think you should stck to natural black or dark brown. Very black straight hair, looks highly unnatural on black girls, blonde or red can draw too much attention to the hair. There's very few black ladies that can pull off the light brown hair, such as Beyonce. But you're here to make money, so stay safe and go for a natural black, yacky wavy hair. Please do not do remy, is too shiny, too straight, and it looks insanely fake.

    Over all, you should be drawing attention to your self entirely. You don't want to stand out because of your blue eye shadow,your orange lipstick or your too light for your skin hair. You want to be a complete package, a hot buxom overall, and with your curvy body you already have that. No need to sprinkle sugar on top.
    Wowww great advice.. Thanks

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    yacky looks and feels cheap remi is more popular for a reason. it's not at all shiny. if it's shiny it's because it's cheap and synthetic. yacky is more used for box braids because of the texture. and i think black straight hair is beautiful on black people another reason it so popular. i saw a pic of naomi cambell w/ long straight black hair with bangs and she looked like a goddess. Also dark brown can look terrible on black people because there's no contrast. a slight variance from black looks better
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