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    Hi, so I've been camming for about 2 months now and I do pretty decent I love it.
    My customer is stopping by in my country soon apparently, and was wondering if I'd like to meet. I told him sure, but it won't be free. He didnt ask me how much yet.

    How much is a reasonable amount? I dont play on having sex with him, but meeting someone in RL is a big deal so I was thinking anywhere from $500-$1000

    What do you think?? I'm so naiive when it comes to anything. I turned 18 3 months ago so I'm pretty young.


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    Default Re: What is a reasonable amount to charge a customer that wants to meet you?

    Short answer: there is no reasonable amount to charge a cam customer who wants to meet you in person. A viewer who finds you on a cam site and wants to spend time with you, a webcam model, in person is entirely UNreasonable. That's not what cam sites are for, and if you think he's not expecting sex you are mistaken.


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    If you turned eighteen 3 months ago, then you are surely not an escort just yet. Which, therefore means you should be VERY cautious of meeting someone from somewhere that you've only had online interaction with. I don't know if you have went on a personal level with this man, but I would run background checks on him before doing ANYTHING like that.

    I wouldn't charge any less than 1k. And it would only be for one day. One date.
    No sexual interaction.

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    I think I wouldn´t, but if you plan to do so anyway, make sure you have a friend or someone keeping an eye on you, at least tell a friend where are you going to be and for how long...

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    Quote Originally Posted by CourtneyRaine View Post
    Short answer: there is no reasonable amount to charge a cam customer who wants to meet you in person. A viewer who finds you on a cam site and wants to spend time with you, a webcam model, in person is entirely UNreasonable. That's not what cam sites are for, and if you think he's not expecting sex you are mistaken.
    I personally disagree with this- I believe any girl can handle her business however she wants BUT if you're just 18, naive, and not sure how to handle herself, I say no.

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    Even though I don't think it's a good idea. But I cannot tell you what to do. What I can tell you is that I think you should charge way more. You are his fantasy girl, make him pay a good chunk of change. maybe $1000 for every hour spent. Purchase some pepper spray just in case

    Oh and in cash.





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    Quote Originally Posted by CamBabe View Post
    What do you think?? I'm so naiive when it comes to anything. I turned 18 3 months ago so I'm pretty young.

    I don't think all 18 year olds are naive, but I think you shouldn't meet anyone in person or give any personal info to guys you cam for.

    At all. If you know you're naive, protect yourself by not meeting in person and not giving personal info. You don't even have to give your state out to guys, they don't need to know any of that info.

    Most camgirls don't meet up with their clients/customers. It's not a usual practice.

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    Whether you meet cam customers or not is your choice. My choice is not to, and many other girls on this site make the same choice. Search for the thread "meeting fans" (? I think that's the title.) People gave some very good reasons for why they don't meet customers.

    I'm going to echo what's already been said, because it's very important to take proper precautions.

    1. Do a background check. Also get photo I.D.
    2. Not only should you tell a friend where you're going to be and how long, but you should also have them drive you, and keep in contact with them throughout the encounter. This way, the customer will see that someone has your back, and will show up if you don't check in, etc.

    And meet in a public place.

    Please be careful, whatever you decide to do. And please take everybody's suggestions into consideration.
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    I diasgree with you. I do NOT like dealing with assholes thinking I will meet them in person because idiot performers break the cam site rules and actually meet up with customers. Your business on a cam site is to do CAM SHOWS and follow the site rules.

    If you want to escort, don't use cam sites to get your clients.


    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    I personally disagree with this- I believe any girl can handle her business however she wants BUT if you're just 18, naive, and not sure how to handle herself, I say no.


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    What would the point be to meet him? If the cam site finds out they will fire you. If you don't do what he wants he can contact the site and complain about you.

    Do yourself a favor and don't meet him. It's not worth your personal safety and he could be crazy. If you plan to meet him have a friend with you.


    Quote Originally Posted by CamBabe View Post
    Hi, so I've been camming for about 2 months now and I do pretty decent I love it.
    My customer is stopping by in my country soon apparently, and was wondering if I'd like to meet. I told him sure, but it won't be free. He didnt ask me how much yet.

    How much is a reasonable amount? I dont play on having sex with him, but meeting someone in RL is a big deal so I was thinking anywhere from $500-$1000

    What do you think?? I'm so naiive when it comes to anything. I turned 18 3 months ago so I'm pretty young.

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    Why u wanna meet this man? If u told him it's not going to be for free what u are going to charge him for? You are going to ask him for money just to 'see & talk to u'? You really believe that guy will pay for this only?
    I am sure he expects some sex involved, i mean no offence but u are just a girl, even very young, beautiful, hot, whatever, he sees girls like u every day on the street, if he comes to ur country to meet u specifically then he has expectations. There is no way in the world a man would do this and spend these money to just see u and talk to u believe me.
    I dont really understand what are ur intentions but i know for sure his intentions. Maybe u really naive or just play dumb here to get some answers, i dont know.
    Pls dont take offence if u just naive & really need help, i can only say 'make up ur mind and make it clear what u want from this guy'.

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    I really believe that no man who frequents cam sites will drop $1,000 for meeting someone in a public place for an hour when he could go online and find a beautiful, sensual, and talented escort who will give him a very, very good time for half that.
    I don't know if you're naive or just a guy who wants to find out which girls on here would meet and how they would do it, but I'm not alone in saying never, ever, ever meet a guy from a cam site. I can't see it going well. Like others have said, he can get you banned from a site, or much worse.

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    I'm not a fan to the whole meet ups but if you most be smart about it, Travel with a fully charged phone, carry an extra battery if you have, use taxis to arrive and to leave, you don't have to take it the whole way home but at least take it to the nearest public transport. If it was me personally I would arrange for a car to pick me up at how every much o'clock, they even call you upon request to let you know they have arrived. A back ground check is not needed, Jeffrey Dahmer, Dzhokhar Tsarnaev and most terrorist would have passed their 1st one with flying colors.
    1 grand an hour are fucking prices, and I say this as a girl who worked 2 yrs at an escort agency booking calls. I say go for 500 with a 2 hour min and just plan a date, show him around your state ( preferable the part you don't live in) for the amount of time you agree on.
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    This is such a bad idea.

    I already see the news and they reportings on you and your encounter. I really don't understand why would you even consider to meet someone off of a cam site in real life? Why?

    It's not worth the risk. You need friends? Go outside and make some. You need money? Go on you cam and work for it. You want to be an escort? Find an agency and do it the right way.

    Is 1 000 dollars worth your life (literally)? I don't think so.

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    I was hoping it would be an "easy" way to make quick money but you're all right. There's no way he isn't going to not expect sex. I'm not a prostitute and I guess a lot of guys look at us cam girls as such, when there's a huge different. Thanks for the opinions. They really helped. I am interested in escorting, but I'd work through an agency before I go indie. Thanks guys!


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    So the truth came out, u interested in escorting, this was actually ur plan from the start, u just playing games here, tse tse

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    Quote Originally Posted by AliceFun View Post
    So the truth came out, u interested in escorting, this was actually ur plan from the start, u just playing games here, tse tse
    I dont see how you think I'm playing games? I'm interested in escorting because someone in this thread mentioned it and I was like, "oh yeah. if i want to make money I can try out escorting i the future" so uh I dont appreciate your comment. It came off rude, but maybe it's just me. But whatever


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    Sorry but u are really that naive to believe a guy will fly to ur country & pay u big money just to do what, talk to u? I mean ok, u are just 18 but really? no common sense at all? U know what escorting is? Is having sex with men for money, period.

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    Meet NO one in RL. Camming is a fantasy! Its like being an actor. Guys fall in love or lust with you the you he thinks he sees on cam. THAT is not YOU! You get paid to do shows. How much do you value yourself as a person? Don't go down this road. This will only trap you into something worse than what is meant for your life. Of course they all wanna meet us. We are their fantasy. I'd like to meet John Travolta but it isn't gonna happen! I love him as an actor. Its fun for them to think they can actually meet their fantasy girl, (their favorite actor) NO amount of money is worth putting yourself out there like that. You stay away from these kinds of temptations. You don't know these guys - Im 48 yrs old, please listen to words of wisdom and do not follow into this kind of temptation simply for money. This is pure evil trying to set you up. You are way too young and vulnerable. I too, at your age would have thought about this. The excitement, the money, etc. BUT knowledge is far more valueable than pocket change. You are worth more than that! DO NOT MEET ANYONE! Play him, be flirty or whatever you have to do as a cam girl but steer clear from this type of temptation. You can be anything you want to be. But this is not the way. Strive for success on a higher level ! No one here is judging you, simply suggesting what you have asked is NOT an option. Please stay away from these ideas. It will bring you nothing but evil. I don't know you and I don't have to care about you, but I DO and Im just saying this is not the way! PEACE!

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    ^^^ I can only say i did the mistake to believe in these people that said they fell in love with me and want me as a life partner and this not once but twice!!!
    I believed in their humanity & as a honest person i gave them a chance to prove their love. I wanted a life partner and to re-build my life.
    Soo much pain and suffering came out of it. Twice!! (one was a long distance relationship that lasted a few good years and the 2nd i lived with him in his country for about a year).
    The me on cam was totally different than the real me and they got disappointed. The real them was totally opposite than i expected so i got disappointed too so i left them.
    This kind of relationship is rarely working but not impossible.
    Regarding the OP, if the whole thing is not a made up story like i believe, it's sad to see a 18 yo girl going this path. I am not entitled to judge but this is what i feel, sadness.

    ETA: only if i knew and had the support of the amazing cam ladies on this forum, i was all by my own and really in dark. lesson learned, never again!!
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    Default Re: What is a reasonable amount to charge a customer that wants to meet you?

    Rule #1 Men will LIE to get what they want.

    Of course, he will say no sex I just want to meet. If it is a TRUE friendship, which can happen then you would NOT be charging him to meet up.

    No matter how nice, how much you use common sense in protecting yourself a simple drug in your drink makes you a victim of rape or worse DEATH!

    There is no safe way to play it, because even if you bring a male friend for security his drink can be dosed with the same knock out drug.

    WHY? does he want to meet? Not like the relationship can go anywhere. No man really wants to be your friend, they all want to fuck. Only time a man can be your friend is if the sex is out of the way. He wants to be 'friends' with a young hot chick he has paid money to jack off to on the web... COME ON! use a bit of common sense here.

    There is NEVER ever a need to meet these men. Don't waste your time. He will consider all that money spent on cam as a down payment to sex. All that time you spent being sexy for him on cam in his mind was how you really feel towards him, not as a way to make money. You are dealing with a delusional person. Unless you feel attracted to him & want to fuck him.

    Reminder, if he does meet you. When you are on cam he will come into your room & brag about meeting you & tell all the guys there all about you. Making you available for sex in their minds instead of spending money on cam.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CamBabe View Post
    Hi, so I've been camming for about 2 months now and I do pretty decent I love it.
    My customer is stopping by in my country soon apparently, and was wondering if I'd like to meet. I told him sure, but it won't be free. He didnt ask me how much yet.

    How much is a reasonable amount? I dont play on having sex with him, but meeting someone in RL is a big deal so I was thinking anywhere from $500-$1000

    What do you think?? I'm so naiive when it comes to anything. I turned 18 3 months ago so I'm pretty young.
    OK. You yourself said you're so naive when it comes to anything.
    When I first read your post I thought you were a troll. Then I saw you attached a twitter to it. Man. Ok. So I read through the posts.
    If you're naive please do not think for a hot minute that one day you're not going to meet up with the wrong guy. A guy who is going to get you alone and bring his friends in for a nice rough gangbang. And you'll be the main event.
    Or, a guy that's going to smooth talk you into your comfort zone, pay you and everything a couple of times and then a.) keep you locked in his house like those 3 girls from ohio b.) make a snuff film with you- that's where they film you being killed. seriously. look it up naive girl. Maybe I watch to many horror movies or see too much news, but I think it's time you started. Scare yourself. Do not ever think there is such a thing as easy money. If you're camming then you might already have an understanding of that.
    Whatever you do you're 18 now. You can do whatever you want. Please be careful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AliceFun View Post
    Sorry but u are really that naive to believe a guy will fly to ur country & pay u big money just to do what, talk to u? I mean ok, u are just 18 but really? no common sense at all? U know what escorting is? Is having sex with men for money, period.
    Actually, I'm pretty sure I was that naive when I was 18.
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    Default Re: What is a reasonable amount to charge a customer that wants to meet you?

    I have met a zillion cam girls in person now, and I can tell you that some of them have married/gotten engaged to/seriously dated their customers. And I'm talking pretty girls and really successful girls. You would all be very surprised. And a lot of other girls, like fetish models, allllllllllways marry their photographers! I swear. And escorts date their clients too. Most are cuckolds IRL, but also many are multimillionaires in major cities like LA, NY, etc. Its not a bad gig.

    However, I do NOT (IMO) think its a good idea to meet a customer unless he has been a top tipper, or a very generous regular for a long time. You have to make him earn it. And then meet in a public place. And charge him.

    I hiiiiiiiighly doubt you would be raped and killed or something if: a.) you met in a public place for awhile, and b.) you screened him just like an escort would screen a client. Anyone could kill you, really. Not just randos off the internet.

    But honestly, its not a bad idea. He would understand the industry you work in well. But yeah, he would need to prove himself.

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    I have talked and know a few cam performers who have met customers IRL. Many said they met in a very public place for a dinner and went home ALONE! The guy was pissed enough to talk shit about her when she worked. She changed sites, and performer name/s.
    Another couple met a guy and did a few shows with him, but no sex. This guy got pissed and blogged about the cam couple tweeted about them etc.
    Another performer (my friend) told me after the fact she met with a long time regular and the date went very very well. He flew back to see her again, and today lives with her and they are happy. It plays out many ways. We all know not all customers are monsters. But..... wait.
    First: You must work a cam site that does not actually give a shit and not held responsible for what happens if you meet a customer.
    Second: Don't meet for sex! Ever.
    I don't have a third because I would be scared to death. These guys see a fantasy, not reality. We are on a screen!

    That being said I have ran into two guys who recognized me from working cam, I do not block my country or state. This happened years ago. It was awkward.
    The emotions that run through my mind are two actually... Fight or Flight! I never expected that. Both guys I left happy enough that I said hello and chatted for a few moments. After leaving I actually drove my vehicle around for almost an hour to see if I was being followed.
    If you must, sign up with an escort agency. The cam world is not meant for Real Life meetings.

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