Good evening!
I'm a semi-regular (bi- or tri- weekly depending on what is going on in my personal life), and use this visit as my personal respite from the world. I love this club, the girls in it, the decor, the location, the specials, all of it! I have never been the one to have a "regular girl" because I honestly like the getting to know you small talk.
Two months ago, a student/dancer approached me. I didn't find her particularly attractive, but she was a great conversationalist and she is studying what I do for a living, so we had plenty to talk about. This was fine the first night, but now she thinks I'm her whale and comes loaded with conversation topics, mostly questions regarding my line of work. I have tried flagging other dancers, but she stays planted! I don't really like getting back-to-back lap dances so she waits for me to come back from the lap dance, usually with my drink refilled and the dancer I got a dance with usually wanders off elsewhere when she sees my "regular" sitting there.
I'm aware that I have no backbone. She is just too good to me (DAT hustle!) for me to dismiss her, not that I would even know how to do so without being abrupt and rude. I don't come to the club to talk about work, and I don't want her to monopolize my time. I can only go on a traditionally slow night, so she doesn't have much else to do and I don't give her much (maybe a single dance and tips when she's on stage or gets my drink). I also don't want to cut her off because I would love to have her company -- occasionally!


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", or "I feel like getting a dance from *insert name here* tonight". I hope you have a good night". Of course she will try to persuade you to do otherwise, but just be clear and polite and she will get the idea. It's always hard to let people down, but she's a big girl and it's part of the job.




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