I guess this is just a vent post because I already know to just ignore them and focus on making money.. but this new club I started at is really getting to me! It's not a small club but the girls are really clique-y and all seem to be friends with each other. When I first started everyone was super nice and said the whole "if anyone gives you shit let me know" but now theres a few girls who really don't like me and I feel like are trying to intimidate me. One girl was blonde when I started a couple weeks ago and the last shift she came in with purple hair and said right next to me "there's so many blondes here now" clearly loud enough for me to hear as if that was supposed to bother me? And I'll add most of the girls who work there have dark hair and that shift only me and one other girl were blondes. OKAY this sounds extremely childish as I'm typing it out but I'm just not used to dealing with annoyingness from the other girls! I've worked at a lot of clubs and only had drama with other girls twice and it was resolved quickly.. but this time it's multiple girls and I really don't know what I did wrong. I don't talk to them unless they talk to me first and if they say anything rude to me I just ignore it. I feel like they're trying to pick a fight with me and get me to stop working there or something.
And another thing one of the DJ's pulled me to the side and said he feels like I talk "at him" and not "to him". I genuinely have no clue what he is talking about I really am nice to everyone.. I told him sorry maybe I'm just used to other clubs where all the DJ wants to know is your name and the type of music you like and I really didn't mean to offend him. Then he said okay he just wanted to make sure "we were cool".. I've never had a DJ confront me about something like that.
I don't know I'm just frustrated because I was really happy with this club and it's bad enough when you have to deal with shit from the customers but when you add the DJ and the other dancers to the mix it can really bother you! well it's bothering me anyway. And this is my first time working at an alcohol club and when I do champagne rooms I have been getting drunk and that scares me a little being around a bunch of people I don't trust at all. I need to stop drinking at this club.
Anyway thanks anyone who read this it was all over the place ha.![]()



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