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    So I live in Las Vegas. Yesterday was my 21st bday and I got hired at one of the clubs i had been eyeing. I came from a dive club and I must say this club is huge. It's flashy and lots of pretty girls. I worked a prime shift so that was no help. My old club was full of different woman, older woman who had a hard time getting hired anywhere else. I'm a petite black girl, and I'm attractive so I stood out. Money was easier. At this club I was just like woah. I'm sure I'll get used to it but I was overwhelmed. Idk if it's me being sick that made everything seem worse or what but any of u ladies have any tips on how to get used to the bigger clubs? I'm dying here lol. I'll try another club tonight but i need the advice so I have it when u go back to this one. Thanks in advance

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    I went from a tiny dive in a small town to big clubs in NYC last year. It was a little intimidating at first, but just remember that even if you don't feel like you belong, you definitely look like you do or else they would have never hired you. Just give it a month or two and you'll feel at home. The more often you work the quicker the process.

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    I've never worked in Vegas, but have worked at big clubs in big cities, and I know that feeling like 'woah these ladies are beautiful and such pro's'. Ditto what ^^^^ said- you belong and you've got what it takes! I think any new club takes some adjustment, but you'll figure out these guys soon enough- what they like to talk about, how to flatter them, and how to get into their heads, how quickly you can hustle them and how to know they are interested. Experiment, see what works, what doesn't- do you do best when you're bubbly and friendly or when you're aloof and sexual, that kind of thing.

    The nice things about a bigger club are more potential customers, so don't be afraid to approach them, and lots of them. Also, when there are more customers around, your time is more valuable- someone in that room wants a lap dance, and if it's not the guy you're talking to, move on. I also think private rooms are easier to sell in big clubs- sure some guys are there with their friends and want to party, but other people are there for a more intimate, private experience- solo older guys, or men in pairs tend to go for that the most with me. Offer the privacy, less noisy, less eyes watching the pair of you, more intimacy as a selling feature of private dances. If you do get a guy from a group to go to VIP or a private dance area, make it a great dance (be engaged, laugh at his jokes, tell him how attractive he is and how much fun you're having) and then sell to his friends after he tells them how great it was.

    Learn to identify time wasters (guys there to take in the atmosphere and watch stage shows for free) and don't waste your time on them! Once someone tells me they are a time waster (says something like "I never get dancers," "I never pay for a woman's company", etc) I'll still smile and wave when I pass by, ask them "are you ready for me now?" or say "let's do that dance I know you're craving", but I won't sit with them again or even stop walking unless they say yes to a dance. Sometimes they get drunk enough and "break their rule" but usually they are freeloaders or broke and aren't gonna get an additional second out of me (but I stay polite in case they change their mind! Usually...)

    Since some guys come to bigger clubs to party, I think the suggestion of always returning to the same guys and groups is important- just cuz they said no the first time doesn't mean they aren't ready- haven't gotten turned on by other dancers or stage shows or had enough to drink. I'm shameless- even if they've been rude (sometimes especially if they've been rude) in turning me down, I'll still smile at them and say "I think you're ready for that dance now!" It's your job to be there and dance after all!

    Also you said you stood out where you were before- you can still stand out! Find something about you or your hustle that people respond to and work it- maybe it's that you're petite, or have a great laugh, or are super sensual, or a great dancer. Find your angle and work it. For the right customer, you'll still stand out. Get good at finding him and emptying his wallet.

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    Thanks ladies ! I'm no quitter so in def going to keep going in and adjust to it. Do you ladies like the more upscale clubs? When it comes to working I mean.

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    I really prefer big upscale clubs. I make twice as much as I used to and I love the relative anonymity and professionalism. Being a big fish in a small pond gets really old.

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    I love my main club. I'm travel dancing at the moment and oh my gosh do I miss my club. All the things I would complain about my club being corporate or little management quirks, I'm just like ''I'll put up with whatever just get me home!'' Fortunately I'm heading home next week, can't wait.

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