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    Question What's with the insults?

    So I'm at a club this afternoon where the girls come around to the barstools and request tips. After tipping this unfamiliar girl she grabs the front of my pleated khakis and says something like "Ooo nice!....oh, that's not you...you're in there somewhere??".

    Don't get it. Possibly trying to be funny but that was far from her tone and mannerisms.

    I remember years ago getting a lap from an unfamiliar dancer. She proceeds to say "where is it? I can't feel it." Similar, no hint of joking around.


    Interesting "style". Does it work with some customers?

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    Default Re: What's with the insults?

    I was surprised this random person who doesn't know you went and tried to grab your crotch. Would have left me taken aback. I think some girls do a "bitch" hustle that works for them or maybe it could have been some sort of "reverse psychology" where you'll try to prove yourself and end up spending money on her.

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    Default Re: What's with the insults?

    they sound...nasty. goin up to a random dude and grabbing his crotch?
    and with the other girl, maybe she was offended that she couldn't feel a boner,and decided to insult you to make YOU feel inadequate. who knows?
    or maybe they were trying to be cute and bitchy-flirty

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    Default Re: What's with the insults?

    She said this to you after you tipped her?

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    Default Re: What's with the insults?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sansonnet View Post
    I was surprised this random person who doesn't know you went and tried to grab your crotch.
    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    they sound...nasty. goin up to a random dude and grabbing his crotch?
    It is more common than you would think, especially in some higher contact clubs. I can understand your reactions though. When it happens to me I find it somewhat irritating that a girl who I have never met before just assumes that it is ok to casually reach down and just start grabbing my balls or penis. But it happens often enough nowadays that it must be working for at least some of them.

    Anyway, don't mean to derail. This is a good topic and I look forward to other ladies responses...

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    It is more common than you would think, especially in some higher contact clubs. I can understand your reactions though. When it happens to me I find it somewhat irritating that a girl who I have never met before just assumes that it is ok to casually reach down and just start grabbing my balls or penis.
    Omg. A long time ago I told a male friend that I was thinking of working in a particular higher contact, but supposedly clean club. "Don't work there," he said. When I asked why, he said it was gross there. "As soon as I walked in that place a girl came up to me and grabbed my dick and started dragging me with it."

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    Quote Originally Posted by audrey_k View Post
    She said this to you after you tipped her?

    Yes, yesterday's girl seemed like she was ready to move to the next bar stool and then reached for my crotch (actually the pants, didn't try to grab my member per se).

    Like I mentioned seemingly no joking around or attempt to be funny. Very deadpan.

    No request for a dance or anything (not that there was a chance in hell that I would have agreed to one).

    Interestingly enough she sat across the stage from me. The several times I saw her in the distance she was sitting there by herself smoking like a chimney. So if she was using the same shtick on other guys, apparently wasn't working in terms of getting dances or courts. This is a veteran dancer, probably late 30's and I've seen her there before but infrequently.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sansonnet View Post
    I was surprised this random person who doesn't know you went and tried to grab your crotch. Would have left me taken aback. I think some girls do a "bitch" hustle that works for them or maybe it could have been some sort of "reverse psychology" where you'll try to prove yourself and end up spending money on her.

    I was speechless. But maybe she was expecting me to say "baby, I'm a grower not a shower. Take me to the back and you'll like the results!" Not going to happen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    they sound...nasty. goin up to a random dude and grabbing his crotch?
    and with the other girl, maybe she was offended that she couldn't feel a boner,and decided to insult you to make YOU feel inadequate. who knows?
    or maybe they were trying to be cute and bitchy-flirty

    Fortunately, no problems in that department. There was definitely a boner status.

    You could be right on the cute and bitchy-flirty attempt. I didn't find it cute. . Maybe some guys do.

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    Default Re: What's with the insults?

    Most girls who do the tactical crotch grab are not all that bright. I mean, really, it's a desperate move to begin with. It sounds like they are attempting to be cute but they just don't have the chops to pull it off.
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    Default Re: What's with the insults?

    Sounds like young girls with little self-awareness...
    "Rather have my feet hurting than my pockets."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nina_ View Post
    Sounds like young girls with little self-awareness...
    FWIW, good theory though:

    Quote Originally Posted by 59 View Post
    This is a veteran dancer, probably late 30's and I've seen her there before but infrequently.

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    Default Re: What's with the insults?

    Sounds like she was on something

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    Default Re: What's with the insults?

    I never did this but have often thought of doing this to random men. Not for tips but to be funny.

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    Default Re: What's with the insults?

    I see girls grabbing guys in the crotch area more frequently than I can believe. Rubbing them to get them aroused to go to VIP with them.

    I don't understand how it works for them because I always thought it's a bit intrusive and never done it myself.

    Plus I'd be pissed if customer was poking at my pussy or tits in that same way.

    To me touch is gradual and has to be invited.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 59 View Post
    I was speechless. But maybe she was expecting me to say "baby, I'm a grower not a shower. Take me to the back and you'll like the results!" Not going to happen.
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    59, this post gave me an idea for a snappy comeback: "Hey, babe, reach in my pocket here". (directing her towards my empty pocket.) "What did you find there?" (Probable respnse) "Nothing." "That's what you're going to get from me tonight, and whenever I come in again."
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    A comment like that isn't going to help her business-I agree that it's insulting. It's also invasive, rude, it's not endearing or witty and it would just plain kill "the moment" for most customers. She was either drunk and not censoring herself at all or she was perhaps trying to initiate or invite contact and gauge your interest in extras etc . Randomly grabbing a customers crotch on the floor is a tacky, unnecessary, VERY poor sales skill . But, if it's a dirty club or a really high mileage club-that kind of hustle probably works for her, often, unfortunately .
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    Quote Originally Posted by OliveJardin View Post
    But, if it's a dirty club or a really high mileage club-that kind of hustle probably works for her, often, unfortunately .
    Ah huh. And I've seen more than a few girls in lower mileage clubs use this tactic as well. Imagine the guy's surprise when he gets to the LD/VIP area and eventually realizes that what she did to get him in there was the most action that he was going to be getting from her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    a girl who I have never met before just assumes that it is ok to casually reach down and just start grabbing my balls or penis. But it happens often enough nowadays that it must be working for at least some of them.
    I've come to the same conclusion. I think every nude club in North Beach except mebbe Centerfolds has crotch-grabbers. They wouldn't keep doing it if it didn't pay off @ least sometimes. Which means there is a steady supply of guys who pay girls to push them around.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    a girl who I have never met before just assumes that it is ok to casually reach down and just start grabbing my balls or penis. But it happens often enough nowadays that it must be working for at least some of them.
    I've come to the same conclusion. I think every nude club in North Beach except mebbe Centerfolds has crotch-grabbers. They wouldn't keep doing it if it didn't pay off @ least sometimes. Which means there is a steady supply of guys who pay girls to push them around.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    I see girls grabbing guys in the crotch area <snip>
    I don't understand how it works for them
    -- Some guys will pay girls to push them around like that.

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    I always thought it's a bit intrusive
    -- Some guys will pay girls to intrude.

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    never done it myself.
    -- I don't recall any girl that I really liked who did.

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    To me touch is gradual and has to be invited.
    -- Well, in some people's minds, simply being there is an invitation. In high-contact, extras clubs, some guys will ignore girls who *don't* grab their crotches. They will simply pay whoever pushes them around the fastest. It wd be nice if that kind of thing were separated out somehow so that those of us who prefer a bit more finesse could avoid them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    I see girls grabbing guys in the crotch area <snip>
    I don't understand how it works for them
    -- Some guys will pay girls to push them around like that.

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    I always thought it's a bit intrusive
    -- Some guys will pay girls to intrude.

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    never done it myself.
    -- I don't recall any girl that I really liked who did.

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    To me touch is gradual and has to be invited.
    -- Well, in some people's minds, simply being there is an invitation. In high-contact, extras clubs, some guys will ignore girls who *don't* grab their crotches. They will simply pay whoever pushes them around the fastest. It wd be nice if that kind of thing were separated out somehow so that those of us who prefer a bit more finesse could avoid them.

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