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    Default The Sh*ttiest Night

    Worked last night and had it BAD.

    I didnt sell any private dances ?!? and this was a fairly crowded Saturday.

    I don't know what happened. Like was it the guys being cheap? Was it me or my hustle? Or some fluke?This is my first time not making money on a weekend night. And it feels like sh*t.

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    Default Re: The Sh*ttiest Night

    Everyone has bad nights. Just take a day off and do something nice for yourself, get a massage, go out with your friends. Have a day outside of the club and try again on Monday.

    Don't make more of it than it is. I was the only girl in my club who didn't get a VIP on New Years, my timing just sucked! I had a great night Friday and last night. It's random shit.

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    Default Re: The Sh*ttiest Night

    Were all the other girls making money? Sometimes clubs are what I like to think of as "fake busy," meaning the floor is crowded but no one is spending on the girls and the dance rooms/VIP/CR are basically empty throughout the night. It's incredibly frustrating because it feels like you should be making money since there are so many people there, but you're usually not alone.

    If it was just you or a small handful of girls not making money, perhaps the crowd just wasn't right for you or you weren't in a good place mentally. I find that if I get a string of nos at the start of my shift, it can be hard to get out of that funk and customers can totally sense that desperation. Everyone has their off days and there's not always any rhyme or reason to it. Your next shift will be better!

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    Default Re: The Sh*ttiest Night

    audrey_k glad to hear your experience too even though it does suck to work hard and leave empty handed. Ill take your advice and do something for myself to get my head back into the game for next shift.

    shanna dior club was super slow for a saturday night I mean hella girls and hardly any customers till after 11:30 which is unusual. I heard other girls complaining how they weren't making money for a Saturday night and customers were being cheap but i witnessed many dancers getting vip dances so it was some action just not my way maybe you're right. the crowd wasn't for me and multiple objections/no put me off balance.

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    Default Re: The Sh*ttiest Night

    same here! it was SOOO bad friday and yesterday ( sunday). yesterday i literally hadn't gotten one dance from 4 to 12..then i had a reg come in and get a champagne, i messed up and told the bartender instead of the waitress and my dickhead manager had a shit fit and screamed at me the threatened to fire me,so i pretty much left crying and sick of the awful weekend...
    i tried to prepare myself though, because january * esp early january* BLOWS. i try to save money throughout the year to keep me going through the late winter. its really awful.
    i also notice that if i have a few hours where i get no dances, i get depressed and insecure and annoyed and i lose my bounce like shanna said. which sucks if you have a long shift where its slow for the first half of it

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    Default Re: The Sh*ttiest Night

    Everyone has days like this at some point. I'm wondering if it was a "fake busy" shift like shanna dior mentioned. I know after the holidays my club has been like that. The club looks busy but guys aren't really spending. They just drink and watch for free.
    I actually was traveling through the weekend and visited three clubs (with friends as a customer) in a large city and they were this way also.
    If I have a bad shift, I try to line up regulars for during my next shift for early on. When I'm busy early on, it gives me happy, energetic, momentum.

    Something else I do is look at what I have made recently. Like if I'm consistently doing good and sell champagne rooms, etc. then it seems silly to put so much emphasis on one bad or off day.
    No worries, if you go in and have a great night next time you won't even remember the one bad one ��

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    Default Re: The Sh*ttiest Night

    This happened to me and my mate at our old club one night. She made 50 I made nada.
    I tried not to let it get into my head renting space, I KNOW it was an anomaly (we made 2G apiece the following Saturday night so go figure).
    Tiny tweaks----->BIG CHANGES

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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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