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    Maybe it's been posted before but I just want an effective way to email costumers. I do have a dance email. I have a few regulars that I'm pretty close to so they are easy. I'm talking like customers you've seen 3ish times and you finally got the email address. I have a few that spent a relatively large amount every time they've been there. One in particular had gone to the club to "see if I was there" twice and didn't find me. He had a few drinks and one VIP and left. Another taaalked my ear off and paid me for my time and no dances. I don't want to turn them off by saying come spend money lol. It's Friday!!! Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: how to invite potential regulars to go see you? newish type of repeated customer?

    why not text? j/s


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    Default Re: how to invite potential regulars to go see you? newish type of repeated customer?

    First off, make sure they know your schedule. If you work the same shifts regularly (which I recommend doing), that makes this a heck of a lot easier. If you don't, just shoot them a short email letting them know you'll be in the club on x days at y times that week and you can't wait to see them again because you had such a great time with them before. Short and sweet. No need to overthink it.

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    Default Re: how to invite potential regulars to go see you? newish type of repeated customer?

    Yes, tell them your schedule and keep to it. If you always work thurs and fri but sometimes call off for your tuesday, just tell them you work thurs fri. I have only had two or three guys email me over the years. Phone is much easier. If I know they come to the club all the time anyway though, I make no effort to communicate. They are coming in anyway. This guy the other day gave me his business card and told me to text him so he will know if I'm there and he doesn't waste his time driving there. It was the first time I danced for him, so he obviously comes in anyway. No need to allow him access to annoy me.

    Can't they call the club and ask if you are there? That works especially well for old guys who don't text.

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    ^Not all clubs are good for dealing with phone calls about dancers. Some will always say yes just to get the customer in the door because they'll still get cover + at least one drink. Others have all sorts of staff answering the phones who don't all have the roster of dancers on hand.

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    Default Re: how to invite potential regulars to go see you? newish type of repeated customer?

    If you have their email, email them telling them what an awesome time you had with them last time and ask if they want come hangout / spend more time with you. Tell them you miss them. Lie. Lol.
    "Rather have my feet hurting than my pockets."

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    Default Re: how to invite potential regulars to go see you? newish type of repeated customer?

    Quote Originally Posted by Nina_ View Post
    If you have their email, email them telling them what an awesome time you had with them last time and ask if they want come hangout / spend more time with you. Tell them you miss them. Lie. Lol.
    It's so annoying when they try to ask you out. Ughhhhh I tried with one and all he did was tell me how he really likes me blah blah and would love to have sushi blah blah

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    Default Re: how to invite potential regulars to go see you? newish type of repeated customer?

    I would get a burner phone and communicate with them that way. I don't trust doormen to let a customer know I'm there... I once had a customer who used to spend like 3000+ call to see if I was there and they mixed up my name somehow (don't ask me how cause I still don't understand it) and he ended up going to another club and then getting annoyed with me because he thought I had flaked on him. I was able to explain to him but he couldn't come in for another week, so I lost out on a lot of fucking money that night.

    My club is really against giving customers your number so I'm struggling with this as well right now, but if your club is cool with it I would NOT give them your normal cell phone number-- i.e. one that is tied into your personal info, should that customer start to become a problem-- but just get a cheap burner one and give them that.

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    Default Re: how to invite potential regulars to go see you? newish type of repeated customer?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheWeirdOne View Post
    It's so annoying when they try to ask you out. Ughhhhh I tried with one and all he did was tell me how he really likes me blah blah and would love to have sushi blah blah
    If you don't want to see him OTC, make excuses for why you're always busy. The #1 excuse should be that you have to work. That way he'll have to come to the club to see you. You could even say that you'd like to see him but can't afford to miss out on the money you'd make for work (which would lead him to have to fork over a night's work for you to take the night off and have sushi with him). Every customer is different. For some, you can just subtly lead him on to believing he might eventually have a chance, but keep making him come to the club to spend his money. I have a customer who's been trying to get me to go out on a "date" with him since I first met him which was last summer and he still comes and sees me regularly without the date ever happening. The first night he spent $400 on VIP and another $400 in a tip. After that he wanted a date so bad that he hasn't given me less than a thousand since that. And of course there are other customers that you can be totally straight up with and tell them you'll only see them ITC and they'll be OK with that. They're all different and you have to find out how to work them.
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