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    Hi ,I am a woman and new here, so sorry if what I am about to ask has already been answered before. What do dancers really think about female customers? Do you enjoy them, do you find them annoying or it depends on the person? From my experience as a customer, I believe it depends on how the girl behaves and after all is about being a good and kind customer. Am I right or wrong? Do you like girls coming in with other friends or with boyfriends? Any advice would be welcome. And also ( I don't know if this is kind of silly) I am always nervous about what to wear. Is that important? Thanks in advance

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    This topic has been discussed to death on here. Most dancers tend to avoid female customers because of past experiences with jealous girlfriends clearly not wanting to be there, aggressive females trying to get away with more than they're allowed to, and/or attention-seeking girls. Female customers generally don't spend a lot of money even when they are perfectly respectful, so if there are other prospects, most dancers will go to them first.

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    thanks for taking the time. Yes ,I get why this is an issue and I have seen all these things you are talking about. I always tip and always have the same advice for all my friends .''if you are not in the mood,don't go''. I know girls can spoil the evening way easier than guys.

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    I honestly love dancing for women-- I think women have beautiful, sexy bodies and they are so much respectful and complimentary than guys-- but I rarely approach them, partly because I'm not as comfortable hustling women (they're too damn smart) and partly because of the below.

    The biggest reason is that even if they are enjoying being at the club they rarely buy dances and if they do they aren't going to a lot of them. When I was working last night these two girls were there with guys and they were having a great time, throwing money on the stage and talking to all the girls. One of the guys asked me if I would dance for one of the girls and I said sure, but as soon as I came up to her she turned bright red and got super nervous and said no thanks. Can't tell you how many times this has happened.

    The other reason is that if they come in with a guy I'm never sure what the situation is-- if she's going to get a dance, if they want me to dance with both of them, etc. So many times I have approached this situation and have gotten yelled at by the girl or just given a really nasty look. The worst was I talked to a guy once and didn't see that he was with a girl and she came over and poured a drink all over my head (they were thrown out but it really sucked to have to work with fucked up hair!)

    Then of course there are the girls that come in and just talk shit and get jealous and blah blah... those I do not even approach and they disgust me. I have gone to a strip club with friends many times and I don't understand the need for that. I'm not really interested in getting lap dances when I go so I'm always straight up with the girls if they approach me but I always tip generously and am complimentary toward them. But I guess I'm a stripper so I know how it feels!

    My advice to you as a female customer, especially if you are going in by yourself (if you go by yourself most girls will assume you're a dance checking the club out because female customers so rarely come in alone) is to be proactive. You will have to approach the girls, or at least give them some kind of sign that you want to speak to them. I highly doubt you will be turned down but you just aren't going to get the same kind of immediate attention a male customer is going to get.

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    Hi kelly24, please read this: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ale-customers)

    It should cover all of the bases.
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    Quote Originally Posted by audrey_k View Post
    I honestly love dancing for women-- I think women have beautiful, sexy bodies and they are so much respectful and complimentary than guys-- but I rarely approach them, partly because I'm not as comfortable hustling women (they're too damn smart) and partly because of the below.

    The biggest reason is that even if they are enjoying being at the club they rarely buy dances and if they do they aren't going to a lot of them. When I was working last night these two girls were there with guys and they were having a great time, throwing money on the stage and talking to all the girls. One of the guys asked me if I would dance for one of the girls and I said sure, but as soon as I came up to her she turned bright red and got super nervous and said no thanks. Can't tell you how many times this has happened.

    The other reason is that if they come in with a guy I'm never sure what the situation is-- if she's going to get a dance, if they want me to dance with both of them, etc. So many times I have approached this situation and have gotten yelled at by the girl or just given a really nasty look. The worst was I talked to a guy once and didn't see that he was with a girl and she came over and poured a drink all over my head (they were thrown out but it really sucked to have to work with fucked up hair!)

    Then of course there are the girls that come in and just talk shit and get jealous and blah blah... those I do not even approach and they disgust me. I have gone to a strip club with friends many times and I don't understand the need for that. I'm not really interested in getting lap dances when I go so I'm always straight up with the girls if they approach me but I always tip generously and am complimentary toward them. But I guess I'm a stripper so I know how it feels!

    My advice to you as a female customer, especially if you are going in by yourself (if you go by yourself most girls will assume you're a dance checking the club out because female customers so rarely come in alone) is to be proactive. You will have to approach the girls, or at least give them some kind of sign that you want to speak to them. I highly doubt you will be turned down but you just aren't going to get the same kind of immediate attention a male customer is going to get.
    Thanks a lot for taking the time. That's what I say to all mt friends? Are you in Canada by the way? I can use some info about the clubs there, I will visit next month

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    Thanks.. I think I follow all these rules,haha

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    It sucks that most females give cool ones like you a bad rap. It's like pit bulls. If I see females ITC it's usually "fight or flight" instinct with me. I generally avoid them if I can. The few female customers that I have actually liked are either cool older women, OTC strippers visiting, retired dancers, or the odd cool couple sans jealous bitch. But cool female customers are like unicorns. I err on the side of caution and treat each one like a rabid dog. Containment and control.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kelly24 View Post
    Thanks a lot for taking the time. That's what I say to all mt friends? Are you in Canada by the way? I can use some info about the clubs there, I will visit next month
    Canada is a pretty big country. There is a sticky thread of common questions about dancing in Canada (including a rundown of the different areas), and lots of club reviews/posts about various cities though.

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